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Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 4:06pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
Akin1212: I am so in love with a girl and we started dating over a year ago, it took six months for this girl to accept me. We met in school. This girl had a boyfriend she claimed they've been together for 7yrs. But before we started dating her parents forcefully dissolved the relationship because they don't want her with the guy for reasons best known to them. At the early stage of our relationship the girl usually picks the guy over me if i ask her some choice questions but that has changed now. So last year december when they met at home she said she made it clear to the guy that she has a new boyfriend cos the guy was always calling her although it was the guy that first dated after their separation. But the guy will not give up. To cut a long story short, recently the girl came visiting and before she got to my place she deleted all the messages the guy sent to her so i would not get mad at her, i knew so i asked her and she admitted. So one day the guy called her and asked where she was and my girlfriend said she went to see 'someone' i looked into her eyes and she said she went to see 'someone like that'. So i got mad and asked for a break up and she wept profusely i mean non stop that i can't do this to her. She said i should trust her that she has nothing to do with the guy. She said she doesn't know how to tell the guy that he should leave her alone because he has health issues. Then i collected the number and call the guy that he should stop disturbing my girlfriend that he is trying to break us apart. And he sent this message to my girlfriend 'can't imagine you doing this to me after all your promises when we both spoke last. Why did you have to give him my number, you know this is between me and you. You now put me back into another dillema abi? I just want you to know that i don't deserve this from you if you can still remember the past. Tell the guy that i will get back at him i promise. Good day' Geeeez 6 months of constant legal stalking. Dude that's half a year you know? She's not into you, she used you or using you to get over her ex and probably pitied you after the 6 months of hard labor. Dust it off and move on. . . Can't u see you're the only one in da relationship? . Even during the so call relationship you were someone so now you must be somebody she used to know |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Beync(f): 4:31pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
Poster, it's good to know you are not in for games and you luv her for real. I understand the situation can make her to be confuse especially if she is still very young as in not that mature. I would say you keep being friends with her but don't assume it's a fight between you and the other guy becos i know with time nature will take its place. when everything must have calmed then it would be clear to her among the two of you whom she really want to be with. for now just cool down, have a heart to heart talk with her without sentiment and allow her to choose what is good for her. it's a matter of time every one will assume his or her position |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
frank3.16:Hmn! Correct. |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 5:20pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
Akin1212: i really appreciate your contribution, but trust issue is a big issue i trust her and that's the best thing to do if you want to get the truth. She is a virgin and that's not because she told me it's cos i know. And that's also not the reason i love her. But one thing is sure i'll get to the end and not letting her go cos i'll feel like a loser. Thank you frankThe why are you here on nairaland seeking advice? You seem to know what to do naaa. |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 5:35pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
Akin1212: Guys i thank you all for your contributions. She has taken a stand long before i posted this, and i understand the way you guys sees everything but please let's look at it from the other part atleast a coin has two sides. Fine i understand that she may still love the guy on one side on the other what if she doesn't? The promises the guy said in the text was just about talking to him normally because she doesn't. It pained me when she referred to me as someone like that, but she admitted she was wrong and for the yorubas i hope you still remember the saying....... Eni ti o bati mo ese re ni ese ko ni pe lori ikunle. Where did you guys put the forgiveness part.I can see you are ignorant when it comes to women issues. I pity you because you shall be sorry. |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 6:09pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
Hopeless lover |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Akin1212(m): 6:26pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
Maria-G:thank you maria, nice one |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Akin1212(m): 6:29pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
Beync: Poster, it's good to know you are not in for games and you luv her for real.you're on point on the maturity line, she'll be 20 next month plus most of you just got this message wrongly. She thought it as nothing since they were not dating. You people should know they were separated. I think i'll just need to be the very understanding boyfriend. That's all. Thanks for your contributions @ all |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Z8(m): 2:56am On Sep 24, 2012 |
Na u go decide; to be or not to be...trust is earned!!! |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 5:11am On Sep 24, 2012 |
Akin1212: I am so in love with a girl and we started dating over a year ago, it took six months for this girl to accept me. We met in school. This girl had a boyfriend she claimed they've been together for 7yrs. But before we started dating her parents forcefully dissolved the relationship because they don't want her with the guy for reasons best known to them. At the early stage of our relationship the girl usually picks the guy over me if i ask her some choice questions but that has changed now. So last year december when they met at home she said she made it clear to the guy that she has a new boyfriend cos the guy was always calling her although it was the guy that first dated after their separation. But the guy will not give up. To cut a long story short, recently the girl came visiting and before she got to my place she deleted all the messages the guy sent to her so i would not get mad at her, i knew so i asked her and she admitted. So one day the guy called her and asked where she was and my girlfriend said she went to see 'someone' i looked into her eyes and she said she went to see 'someone like that'. So i got mad and asked for a break up and she wept profusely i mean non stop that i can't do this to her. She said i should trust her that she has nothing to do with the guy. She said she doesn't know how to tell the guy that he should leave her alone because he has health issues. Then i collected the number and call the guy that he should stop disturbing my girlfriend that he is trying to break us apart. And he sent this message to my girlfriend 'can't imagine you doing this to me after all your promises when we both spoke last. Why did you have to give him my number, you know this is between me and you. You now put me back into another dillema abi? I just want you to know that i don't deserve this from you if you can still remember the past. Tell the guy that i will get back at him i promise. Good day' stop feeding your ego, some times you need to free matters like this and hope that the girl will love you based on what you'e done. when you start whining like this then you are insecure and an average frustrated chump. |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 9:09am On Sep 24, 2012 |
Akin1212: Guys i thank you all for your contributions. She has taken a stand long before i posted this, and i understand the way you guys sees everything but please let's look at it from the other part atleast a coin has two sides. Fine i understand that she may still love the guy on one side on the other what if she doesn't? The promises the guy said in the text was just about talking to him normally because she doesn't. It pained me when she referred to me as someone like that, but she admitted she was wrong and for the yorubas i hope you still remember the saying....... Eni ti o bati mo ese re ni ese ko ni pe lori ikunle. Where did you guys put the forgiveness part.hw swit |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 9:17am On Sep 24, 2012 |
Akin1212: you're on point on the maturity line, she'll be 20 next monthpls b undastandn.dnt push ha.jus b calm nd gentle 2wards ha bt nt timid.u guys musnt remember d oda guy.jus mk ha hapi,and try 2 mk ha 4get,reassure ha of ur lv,always b dere genuinely nd pls b mature.a bird always finds its way bk 2 its nest 2 rest,jus b a nest,a warm 1 nd she wuld cm around.dats al.u nid do she would chuz.i knw wat am sayn k..it workd on me ,. |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Akin1212(m): 9:31am On Sep 24, 2012 |
dota: pls b undastandn.dnt push ha.jus b calm nd gentle 2wards ha bt nt timid.u guys musnt remember d oda guy.jus mk ha hapi,and try 2 mk ha 4get,reassure ha of ur lv,always b dere genuinely nd pls b mature.a bird always finds its way bk 2 its nest 2 rest,jus b a nest,a warm 1 nd she wuld cm around.dats al.u nid do she would chuz.i knw wat am sayn k..it workd on me ,.thank you, you're very much appreciated |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by 190theclown: 9:36am On Sep 24, 2012 |
dota: pls b undastandn.dnt push ha.jus b calm nd gentle 2wards ha bt nt timid.u guys musnt remember d oda guy.jus mk ha hapi,and try 2 mk ha 4get,reassure ha of ur lv,always b dere genuinely nd pls b mature.a bird always finds its way bk 2 its nest 2 rest,jus b a nest,a warm 1 nd she wuld cm around.dats al.u nid do she would chuz.i knw wat am sayn k..it workd on me ,. Story If d OP wanna get her he shud invest 500K on her I bet u in 2days she'l flee from dat ex of hers like satan himself |
Re: I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 6:41am On Sep 28, 2012 |
Onegai: She doesn't really like you. You're the guy around her helping her to heal over her ex. Women lose to possess things, there is NO way a woman who loves you will describe you as "someone like that". Women care when you change your fb status to "in a relationship", yet this girl is saying she went to see "someone" and "someone like that" after over a year of dating?! Your chances of getting hurt is steadily getting higher, and she'll probably move onto another guy. If she stays with you, it's not that she loves you, it's because she knows she has the upper hand. Tears come easy for 90% of women, shey you know? If you like, play a tight game and talk to her "like a man" or "beg", she'll stay for now. But remember, women can marry you and NOT love you and you will NEVER know. Though most likely in her case, she may end up with a new guy, not the ex (have seen your situation before, you may end up breaking up with her after wasting your time). Tell her to leave you and make up her mind, no contact for a month, and you, stop chasing waterfalls. And oh yeah, stop loving her virginity. Really. As a woman, it's an excellent tool for controlling men, because we know it trips guys. It doesn't make me a good person more than the next (I can show several virgins who will make your life hell, and several virgins who are sweet). God bless you. You just gave me a new direction. Am greatful |
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