Parents,relations and friends usually recommended some girls for their loved ones based on some perceived character traits...and their marriages lasted for decades.Some never had any serious marital problems till they all died.Infidelity was also very rare then.Nowadays guys prefer to choose their spouses whom they believe they know better,and there seems to be more instability today,with many marriages crashing within months of take-off..Is it still fashionable or safe to marry on recommendation?Could it not be the solution to this confusion?.

intrepid: Parents,relations and friends usually recommended some girls for their loved ones based on some perceived character traits...and their marriages lasted for decades.Some never had any serious marital problems till they all died.Infidelity was also very rare then.Nowadays guys prefer to choose their spouses whom they believe they know better,and there seems to be more instability today,with many marriages crashing within months of take-off..Is it still fashionable or safe to marry on recommendation?Could it not be the solution to this confusion?

[size=13pt]marrying on recommendation worked in the olden days.. but then, children weren't disobedient to their parents and hmm they thought whatever their parents wants for them is the best.. There was no high tech then like you have now. Back those days, it was like Adam and Eve before they eat the forbidden fruit but these days, we all have had a share in the fruit and our eyes are wide Open i fancy marrying on recommendation but in a case whereby you and the recommended person do not click, I suggest you back out before you hurt each other [/size]