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Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by dewize01(m): 7:31pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Peeps, I have been wondering if this can be regarded as part of being open to your partner. So i need your views on this |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by k2039: 7:32pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Ofcourse my wife should know how much I earn and I should also know how much she earns 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by icequeen22(f): 8:17pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Wives should know our much their husbands are getting or at least have a general idea so they dont over strain their husbands pockets. Thats my opinion anyway 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by mataz(f): 9:00pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
She must know and u must know how much she earns so u know how much u can spend and save 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by dewize01(m): 11:27pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
I just wonder what the case wud be like if one happened to have a greedy wife. Dont you think she'd be thinking of what fraction of your earnings to be spent on her while she plans to keep hers? 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by MrsChima1(f): 11:35pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
dewize01: Peeps, I have been wondering if this can be regarded as part of being open to your partner. So i need your views on this I disclose my earnings to my husband and he does the same to me. We have a joint account that is for the house and we both contribute 50 percent since both of us are employed. Anytime a spouse hides their finances...it is fishy and shady! 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Mrs..Chima:exactly! |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Mynd44: 6:25am On Oct 13, 2012 |
I see no problem telling my WIFE how much I make. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Nobody: 7:28am On Oct 13, 2012 |
I am not married yet, but sure i will disclose it. That shouldn't be a secret |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by dewize01(m): 12:34pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Mrs chima,that aspect of you both contributing is amazing. I wonder how many women would allow that and still not feel that authority be shared between the two of them in the house. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by cindyrella(f): 12:53pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Why not? You are team mates na! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by ikachi1: 2:20pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Why not? They will eventually find out anyway. The question should have been "Should there be a joint account"? In this case, my answer is a NO! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by AkinDavid2: 2:21pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Omo you've got to declare cos marriage is all about being naked and no shame! |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Not necessary. What if it's hard to determine how much I will earn? |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by dsmartj(m): 2:22pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Not all earnings. But atleast my basic salary, she will know 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Olhar: 2:24pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Well, it's a good thing to know each others pocket so u can both know your limits......cos if my husband no tell me his earnings, I will keep demanding as much as I can cos I will believe he has enough but if he does the whatever he has and I also have we will budget on it......if he decides not to tell me.....I also won't disclose my earnings ....... |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Ganys: 2:24pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
If You can tell ur wife u are broke, and beg her to manage, I think she deserves to know if ur earnings get boyant 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by dsmartj(m): 2:25pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
k2039: Ofcourse my wife should know how much I earn and I should also know how much she earns dsmart j: Not all earnings. But atleast my basic salary, she will know cindyrella: Why not? You are team mates na! dsmart j: Not all earnings. But atleast my basic salary, she will know |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by obicentlis: 2:28pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Akin-David:No be small unclad oo |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by HayZee06(m): 2:30pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
I'm nt yet married bt 2 me I dnt think its a good idea 2 let my spouse knw hw much I earn.... |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by cindyrella(f): 2:30pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
mbatuku2: Not necessary. What if it's hard to determine how much I will earn?And how is that? |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
yes.....if it's fine by you! |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by pingo(m): 2:37pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Disclosure is ok! but giving her access to it is something that should be given a second, third and forth thought to! |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
cindyrella: it's only easy to know how much you earn if you are salaried. |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Nosyke(m): 2:43pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
I think its a good idea when married, but my question is what of when dating?? |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by ikdpal(m): 2:44pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
i doubt a man can sincerely disclose his real earnings because of the nature of a woman...man has multitude of issues to commit his money to which may not allow a kind of peace when a woman discover such expences, so a man violets this idea to ensure he meet up with this responsibilities. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by dammytosh: 2:54pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Yes she can know how much my constant K earnings are (slary etc). As for the variable (conrtracts, projects ) , i will keep it to my self and surprise her at will with anything i wanna give her from it. - My Opinion 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by joncom(m): 2:55pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
sexkillz: I am not married yet, but sure i will disclose it. That shouldn't be a secret...yea, true talk. :-) https://www.nairaland.com/1073320/what-keeps-u-company-toilet |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by greall1: 2:57pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
I dey laugh. Mrs..Chima: |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
In as much as I will love her to know, but I sometimes dont know how much I make since am in business. No fixed income. So whoever that woman is, when the time comes, she will need to bear with me. |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by jeezybuck: 3:23pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Use to have huge savings before the very month I disclosed my salary and that was the end of my savings. She eats about 65% of my income now |
Re: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by MrsChima(f): 3:26pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
greall1: I dey laugh. |
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