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Love Or Something Like It? by xcalzy(m): 8:24am On Oct 18, 2012
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How do we show true love. How can you tell someone really loves you for real.

The truth remains, everybody needs love either in one aspect or the other. There is no single person on earth that can deny the existence of love in his or her life either in a positive or negative way. LOVE is ultimate! What many cease to know is: Love is an activity not just a feeling. A life without Love is a life without Joy. The feelings we get is what makes us put it into action.

So many still claim they are in “love” yet they also fail to practice it… what deceit! Now you begin to wonder why there are so many heartbreaks, so much hurts, so much infidelity around. Maybe because we fail to fulfill the commandment of genuine love – Therefore let love be in action not just in mere words. Let us seek to do good to others; its a habit of love. Whatever you don’t wish for yourself, likewise don’t wish for others.

Two people meet each other. They fall in love, few years or many months later they get married. Their principle becomes based on the fact that they married their ‘love’. But do such statement sound true? How infallible are we humans! How we crave for perfection yet our imperfection reveals its unclothedness. You begin to wonder what happened to the said love such couples had initially. The issue of divorce becomes prevalent in our society today. Couples are breaking up; couples are uniting in married. Few will last long, most will end up in divorce. What are world! Whats really the cause for divorce these days? Some may say misunderstanding between couples, some may say its “Lack of trust”. Every couple have their own story. Whats your story?

No matter the story, if love is involved it should be a “For better For worse” thing. In a marriage, unfaithfulness is for worse, lack of finance is for worse, even in terms of child birth isn’t it for worse? Yet why do we flee when such arise in our marriages. Likewise, good job or a promotion at work is for better, children are for better, honesty and trust are for better. Let us stick to our vow: For better For worse. Though we may not have the perfect spouse, but we shouldn’t call it quit at the slightest provocation. Let P be P!

Youths & teenagers are the most liable people that tend to express and crave for love especially during adolescent. Teens when not guided well tend to exhibit the wrong/false type of love towards those around them. They tend to be they ones with most heartbreaks and disappointments especially the naive ones. Our sex crazed society now worsens the situation. Their are some that only “love” because the want to have SEX. Yea, that’s all they seek. Young girls fall prey to this like a sheep for slaughter. Then the situation changes: they see love as “lies”, they believe they cant be loved. Lust increases which gives birth to rape, incest and “one night stands”. Pornography which is the younger brother to lust becomes prevalent. Help us Lord!
Why wont your boyfriend or girlfriend cheat on you when they LUST you. It could be they are attracted to you because others are, or because you are cute or beautiful, or maybe you are financially stable to provide their needs. Don’t be deceived! True love is indeed very hard to find. Some don’t even believe it exist. Some call it FALLACY. They way you see it creates your attitude towards it. Mind who you say you love!!

As LOVE still becomes the topic for the day, lets show genuine love to ALL. Lets not compromise our love especially to those around us. Be faithful to your partner, do not cheat. Do not cause hurt to others because you too wont like to be hurt. Though temptation MUST come, you should always try to avoid it, not because you want to but because you love him/her. Such beautiful things like: Joy, Happiness, Satisfaction, Peace of mind & prosperity will surely be yours. No wonder the bible talks a lot about it.. its real. Show love today! God bless.

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Re: Love Or Something Like It? by DExplorer1: 9:24am On Oct 18, 2012
Two things i saw in your post: you write abit below average and your blog link. Nothing to discuss here my friend.
Re: Love Or Something Like It? by xcalzy(m): 4:17pm On Oct 19, 2012
D-Explorer:
Two things i saw in your post: you write abit below average and your blog link. Nothing to discuss here my friend.

Yea, thanks for the compliment. Still "growing" in my writing skills. Hope to perfect soon by Gods Grace. Also hope you got the "message" in my post.
Re: Love Or Something Like It? by 190theclown: 11:32pm On Oct 19, 2012
this post must be about 190 and his girlfriends shocked shocked
Re: Love Or Something Like It? by Nobody: 9:34am On Oct 20, 2012
Too long. Are u a speech writer??
Re: Love Or Something Like It? by xcalzy(m): 7:01pm On Oct 20, 2012
booqee: Too long. Are u a speech writer??

Lol, didn't mean 2 make it long. Am a writer dear... a prolific one. Anytin dat involves writing count me in. Did you like my write up?[b][/b]
Re: Love Or Something Like It? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Oct 20, 2012
xcalzy:

Lol, didn't mean 2 make it long. Am a writer dear... a prolific one. Anytin dat involves writing count me in. Did you like my write up?[b][/b]
yeah i did..but shorten it. Ok?

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Re: Love Or Something Like It? by xcalzy(m): 7:04am On Oct 22, 2012
booqee: yeah i did..but shorten it. Ok?

It depends dear. Anywy am glad u enjoyed it.

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