ogugua88: Yep. 1, 5, and 10. No be crime.

na lie o! You never jam sha.

... and then there is one more.

Some have tasted what it means to love and just would not settle for any conditional union if it's not real. No amount of bling would they ever trade for love.

People are not married yet simply becos they are more focused on making money, wanna get a nice car, nice building/appartment just to show off..then wen dey are almost 50yrs dey start chasing anthing in skirt all becos dey nw want to marry..

Burger01: Kai!! O ma se o. None of the above. Still battling with genotype wahala. I can't let her go cos we love each other. Damn genotype, I just decided I'm gonna marry her. By my faith all will be well. Please, wish me well o...

Guy, i advise u dont create extraa trouble/ expenses for yourself because of emotions u call "LOVE". My brother is battling with two SS children right now dat drain his account when their crisis starts. Apart from the fact that you their parents will be troubled, wat about d pain the innocent kids u brought into the world wil b xperiencing.

The Only reason am not yet married is because I am yet to save enough to raise a family.

Am not yet maried because I gat no job for now coupled with d fact dat my babe is still in scul

dagr8:
Guy, i advise u dont create extraa trouble/ expenses for yourself because of emotions u call "LOVE". My brother is battling with two SS children right now dat drain his account when their crisis starts. Apart from the fact that you their parents will be troubled, wat about d pain the innocent kids u brought into the world wil b xperiencing.

OK. Thanks a mil. Appreciated. It's difficult though but I would try. Thanks.

brokoto: na lie o! You never jam sha.

For your mind.

omotolsy: wats ur definition of ugly ?

I was just being sarcastic. I think everybody has beauty.

Iam not a homosexual but i dnt like women iam comfortable in masturbating hahahaha i dnt want to get married

Burger01: Kai!! O ma se o. None of the above. Still battling with genotype wahala. I can't let her go cos we love each other. Damn genotype, I just decided I'm gonna marry her. By my faith all will be well. Please, wish me well o...

hmmmmm I feel for u o,this kinda love is very rare I pray Ūя FAITH doesn't work!when u start bearing sickle cell carriers u will now turn to spite God that he gave u problematic children, ah I tire for our belief and mentality o hun.

Money and the desire to only answer to myself. Yeah that's selfish but I like it that way. Will eventually give in someday sha when Konji eventually tries to kill me...cos I won't be able to stay a virgin forever

ogugua88:

For your mind.

dont worry sha. Soon you'll be singing a different song.

i finished service last year,came to lagos to look for job but could only see a teaching job that pay me only 24000 after tax and i just got a room apartment last 2months,Augus to be precise... So tell me how will i even dream of suffering my wife and kids all because of marriage? I have my ICAN exam and my Msc to save for befor thinking about marriage... I need a beta job first

Amya: None of the above is applicable to me. I'm not married simply because I've not met the person I want to spend the REST of my life with.

Are you the right person for someone else to spend the rest of his life with?

brokoto: dont worry sha. Soon you'll be singing a different song.

For your mind.

booqee: ^can i get a summarised version??

who knows if u are a victim already...learn to praise b4 condemning booqe!!

Smart jeezy: I don't know the one to pick out of my 12 girlfriends....

na die u dey so my brother

honestly i cant place my fingers on it....i guess deep down, av become scared of d whole setup , i see these days in marriage.

Forget about me and ask Seun why he is not married.

I'm not married because there's no deadline for marriage. I prefer God to lead me, rather than give in to some stupid pressure from every here and there.

didadavid: Forget about me and ask Seun why he is not married.

He is married to Nairaland

UmericanGirl:

He is married to Nairaland

That's is an over statement.

Burger01: Kai!! O ma se o. None of the above. Still battling with genotype wahala. I can't let her go cos we love each other. Damn genotype, I just decided I'm gonna marry her. By my faith all will be well. Please, wish me well o...

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Pls if its d AS -AS issue,my candid advise is u guys shd move on so u don't bring in kids who might suffer besides the emotional and financial struggle accompanied withe such kids usually take a toil on d union.gdluck all d same

the above summarized my situation. And it is common among self-employed graduates like me (or jobless graduates). If one can get a steady (& secured) source of income (no matter the level of the income) and get a good place to live in, then you'll be proud to propose. So money is the cause.

Burger01: Kai!! O ma se o. None of the above. Still battling with genotype wahala. I can't let her go cos we love each other. Damn genotype, I just decided I'm gonna marry her. By my faith all will be well. Please, wish me well o...

you already know, my friend u beter opt out now! She is neither d only one in ur little world nor you are d only man in her world. I will nt wish u anything! Better go back 4ur own benefit.

holly-pagan:
Iam not a homosexual but i dnt like women iam comfortable in masturbating hahahaha i dnt want to get married

Friend, you have not felt the pangs of loneliness. With time, With time...

Mynd_44: Too long. There is no way in hell I am reading that

Quit acting selfish & boyish pls. people make out time to read your long burning cold story, only for u to parade around threads derailing them with ur usual its too long, its this n that comments...y cnt u learn to stop derailing ppls threads, its not a must to comment, sometimes reserve it so ur cohorts dnt follow suit to derail the thread.



BTW, this is just a honest advice pls dnt tke to hrt rather take to brain

Born 2be Rich: People are not married yet simply becos they are more focused on making money, wanna get a nice car, nice building/appartment just to show off..then wen dey are almost 50yrs dey start chasing anthing in skirt all becos dey nw want to marry..

lol, u made a good point, but...

I wouldn't like people to jump into marriage cos others are getting married without being very very financially ready, to avoid Nigeria nurturing more poor children without clothes, home, good education, food, etc. We need people to stabilize their finances first before venturing into marriage so all these house boy, house girl thing will stop becos the few average Nigerians enslave the majority of poor children from poor families in d name of house helps. so if every parent can provide comfortably for their children & are able to send them to good schools, they would stop giving their kids out to either relations or whoever to be their house helps, and then poverty would reduce more in Nigeria, crime & this rampant student (university students especially) prostitution in Nigeria would then reduce too, cos its all becos most female students in Nigeria today come from poor families & for that, get coerced into prostitution to survive in school.


These are few of the results of marrying unprepared. so I would encourage more Nigerian youths to wait & get financially ready before jumping into marriage.


Another reason why more ppl are no longer getting married as before aside financial issues, is the fact that today marriages are not enticing at all like before. When I was a kid, I used to cherish married couples, I have some I admire including my parents, but today, Nigerian marriages are so scary; and I would also relate it to financial issues, how?


Nigerian ladies of today, though not all, but majority, jump into marriage with the wrong men they don't even like majorly for financial security & fear of poverty. so the marriage ends up unhappy when the lady finally gets the financial security she wanted. This also boils down to people marrying & having children without good financial stability.


Pls lets encourage ppl to be financially stable first before jumping into marriage. and ladies pls try & get something doing before accepting to be a man's wife, its for ur good & for the good of ur unborn children.


We need to fight poverty comot for we Nigeria by all means, say no to early marriage without financial preparation & stability. say no to poor children slavery in the name of house help. say no to student prostitution! Say no to marriage without financial stability! Goodmorning fellow Nigerians


Now, reasons for my still being happily single?

1. The news & happenings around existing marriages SCARES ME TO MY FEET! YES!!

2. Afraid of ending with someone after what they see and not for my person

3. Hvent yet acquired all the necessary gadgets to make my kids the happiest kids on planet earth, viz. a comfy privy jet for taking ma would be lovely kids on vac. (btw, do I need a privy jet to take them on vac? lol, kidding, bt they need enough financial security u knw?), a comfy home with nice tennis court, playground n green garden where they can feel free n enjoy nature at its peak (though that won't be long shaa by God's grace, winks).

3. Afraid of ending up marrying someone else wife as my wife...so scared of how today ladies live their lives; running around with diff. men, it scares ME a lot & makes me wonder what d would be wife must have done b4 meeting me. dnt need to pretend, it scares ME a lot.


Finally, I am still yet to believe in love aside the love God has for us humans & the love bw mother n child. I still believe that what we call love today is filled with selfish interests & wants. no disprove yet

I'm not married cos I'm yet to see a guy that will sweep me off my feet again. Yea, I wanna fall in love again first.

DailyNews:

Quit acting selfish & boyish pls. people make out time to read your long burning cold story, only for u to parade around threads derailing them with ur usual its too long, its this n that comments...y cnt u learn to stop derailing ppls threads, its not a must to comment, sometimes reserve it so ur cohorts dnt follow suit to derail the thread.



BTW, this is just a honest advice pls dnt tke to hrt rather take to brain

ON POINT!did u notice 2?