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Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by chinnyonwu(m): 7:05am On Oct 23, 2012 |
I'm a baby man. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:06am On Oct 23, 2012 |
so u mean all real men would av undergone d player stage before, i dont believe dt...falsehood ni yen joor....i av solid examples to prove u wrong on dt, anyway, u might be talking from ur own little knowlege... |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by LadyAble: 7:12am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Human beings hav developmental mile stone..... For a boy to become a man, he must pass through these stages of Boy:Player: Real man...... D Regression amd Fixation Occurs when one abnormally or mistakenly skip a stage; hence I encourage men not to forget dat to b a man is not a day job and to work hard so as to b A Real man and every woman's dream... Good morning #-members |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by JoelFelix(m): 7:16am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Real man, that is me 4 real. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by noskyboy(m): 7:41am On Oct 23, 2012 |
the inferences i can make from the above tread, is that being a boy or player is a natural process of growing up, so players and boys are not to be blamed cos they are moving in accordance with nature. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:42am On Oct 23, 2012 |
^^ i agree with you based from observations |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by salt1: 7:43am On Oct 23, 2012 |
codeine123: [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]a man is generally designed to be promiscuous.Being a player to a man is as natural as breathing to the human race.[/color][color=#990000]Says who? Some of you are insisting that if you were never a player you won,t have acquired the necessary experiences to be a real man. That is like saying you must have contacted a disease to be immune. What crap! Many wise ones (many I say) are not dissipating resources and emotional energy and risking their health and future well being acting players. It is only fools that need advice. The wise don't need it because they know |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:43am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Arrowman: A BOYsharaaaaaaaap u wrote all trash with no basis, where did u get this shit from? Was it from experience, did som1 write somtn on it? Must u spew trash 2 show dat itz only cobwebs dat is in ur brain. Not dat you stupidly said dat every1 must pass 2ru d player stage, anoda hopeless animal added dat if u didn't pass 2ru dat stage dat no woman will find u attractive. Am annoyed cos I know my life and am very very sure dat weda am in ur supposed boy stage or matured man dat I've never and will never be a player in this life...ah ah ah ah ah ah ah!!! Wat trash.. Must u use ur own life dat u have no self control to generalize others, since I started dating itz been only 1 girl at a time and during that time other girls dat I meet don't move me so stop generalising trash.. We ar not same. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by quicksylva(m): 7:48am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Both genders are culpable of such act. A man won't waste his entire life being a player or a boy. I have been there, done that, messed around, all is just vanity. Being a REAL MAN is simply the best. That's my opinion. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:57am On Oct 23, 2012 |
well, though i am not a player. We men are hardwired to be players, accept it or leave it. The description you made of a real man is simply that of a man who has made up his mind not to play anymore. it require a very strong determination. a real strong one like that to see a very attractive woman and take your mind off her simply because you are in a "happy" relationship. The temptation is another and overcoming it everytime it comes take same skill, Determination. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 8:01am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by karpentar: 8:05am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Ejiné: My understanding too. lol!!!! By the way, I love love. Am I a player, boy or real man? |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 8:13am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Movingcoil: sharaaaaaaaap u wrote all trash with no basis, where did u get this shit from? Was it from experience,bros no vex jare, d guy thinks everybody is like him...trash...poo..nonsense & ingredients... |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by wissezy: 8:41am On Oct 23, 2012 |
A Player thats me for now, and am enjoying it. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by ameer2: 8:53am On Oct 23, 2012 |
BrutusOj: I'm proud 2 be a player, atleast no girl go form efizzy 4 meNaso ooooo |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Emmaville(m): 8:56am On Oct 23, 2012 |
[size=16pt]tnks to d guys dat refuse to dull in dis post. n shame to d guys claiming anti_players respectively. actually, by default man is a player. so u choose to explore ur skills n talents or to tame/curtail it. many a guys had good hearts, bt gals dnt like it, so we gats b player to make it work............n of cos gals like it too. me, am nt jst a player, am a striker, a skippo, a point man, a finisher. i dey hot. its players dat settle down to b real men if dey want n d gal melow finish. odawise, inter_continental players sef dey make way...............*dontdullursef[/size] |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 9:06am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Somehow...i find the op's post on point. ...but then real men as in the context hardly exist.. Boys and players abound!! |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 9:12am On Oct 23, 2012 |
honeric01: RUBBISH! (especially the player bla bla bla)No,its not...especially the player part.i can relate to it to the dot! ...why e dey pepper you btw? Are you a player?? |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by honeric01(m): 9:16am On Oct 23, 2012 |
slimyem: No,its not...especially the player part.i can relate to it to the dot! Here's the part i find silly. "A man who doesn’t go through this stage before settling can be very dangerous and reckless later in life" The OP is saying that if you're not a player, you'd be reckless in the future? this is like saying, if you haven't stolen before, you stand the chance of stealing later in life. Of what use is double dating? |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by SELFWORTH: 9:27am On Oct 23, 2012 |
kulboy: I should into the 3 categories depending on the lady I'm dating.I agree . 98% of Nigerian men are none of the above . Most are aliens!!!!!They are simply confused about their identity and that explains the reasons for a lot of their actions. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Emmaville(m): 9:38am On Oct 23, 2012 |
SELFWORTH: I agree . 98% of Nigerian men are none of the above . Most are aliens!!!!!They are simply confused about their identity and that explains the reasons for a lot of their actions.[size=28pt]shattttttaaaaappppp!!!!!!!!!![/size] |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 9:41am On Oct 23, 2012 |
honeric01:...okay.. That part of his post is ridiculous! Scratch it...! The other part are true though.. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by kavey10(m): 9:52am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Arhhh! I can't believe I was dumb enough to read this thread to the 2nd page! Kai! It was just too pointless... Gbaguan just full everywhere. MODs please note to always put a BULLSHIT ALERT at the top of topics like this so one can avoid it. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by honeric01(m): 10:02am On Oct 23, 2012 |
slimyem: ...okay.. Didn't care to read the rest after that part. A real man can't be defined on paper on the internet. You should know that a real man to woman A can be a wussy to woman B. not definite definition when it comes to that. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 10:10am On Oct 23, 2012 |
honeric01:the op's points might have a few pluses or minuses but the general overview is true even to subjectives. My post below is still my deduction with the buts slimyem: Somehow...i find the op's post on point. |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by 2chains1(m): 10:25am On Oct 23, 2012 |
What is the criteria for a topic to be on the homepage? |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by honeric01(m): 10:32am On Oct 23, 2012 |
slimyem: the op's points might have a few pluses or minuses but the general overview is true even to subjectives. Your opinion which i have no objections to as i have also made my opinion known too. we cool slimmee |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Sike(m): 10:39am On Oct 23, 2012 |
kkkkkk |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Orikinla(m): 11:33am On Oct 23, 2012 |
Arrowman: A BOY[size=18pt] ANOTHER SCRIPT. THERE ARE NO REAL LAID DOWN RULES TO GO SHOPPING FOR A SUITABLE MAN. A REAL MAN WHO CANNOT PAY HIS BILLS AND WHO DOES NOT ADD MUCH TO THE GDP OF HIS COUNTRY IS STILL A SMALL BOY IN MY BOOK.[/size] |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Equila(f): 12:17pm On Oct 23, 2012 |
i l love this part"[i]A real man will love you genuinely and prove his love to you.He will be sensitive to your needs He will be allergic to your tears and treats you like queen" |
Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 12:27pm On Oct 23, 2012 |
@Op nice write up...haha mehn guys are not smiling...look at the way they are defending themselves Lol... |
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