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Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by chinnyonwu(m): 7:05am On Oct 23, 2012

I'm a baby man.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:06am On Oct 23, 2012

so u mean all real men would av undergone d player stage before, i dont believe dt...falsehood ni yen joor....i av solid examples to prove u wrong on dt, anyway, u might be talking from ur own little knowlege...

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by LadyAble: 7:12am On Oct 23, 2012

Human beings hav developmental mile stone..... For a boy to become a man, he must pass through these stages of Boy:Player:
Real man......
D Regression amd Fixation Occurs when one abnormally or mistakenly skip a stage; hence I encourage men not to forget dat to b a man is not a day job and to work hard so as to b A Real man and every woman's dream...
Good morning #-members

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by JoelFelix(m): 7:16am On Oct 23, 2012

Real man, that is me 4 real.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by noskyboy(m): 7:41am On Oct 23, 2012

the inferences i can make from the above tread, is that being a boy or player is a natural process of growing up, so players and boys are not to be blamed cos they are moving in accordance with nature.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:42am On Oct 23, 2012

^^ i agree with you based from observations

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by salt1: 7:43am On Oct 23, 2012

codeine123: [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]a man is generally designed to be promiscuous.Being a player to a man is as natural as breathing to the human race.[/color][color=#990000]

Says who? Some of you are insisting that if you were never a player you won,t have acquired the necessary experiences to be a real man. That is like saying you must have contacted a disease to be immune.
What crap! Many wise ones (many I say) are not dissipating resources and emotional energy and risking their health and future well being acting players.
It is only fools that need advice. The wise don't need it because they know

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:43am On Oct 23, 2012

Arrowman: A BOY
Whoever dates or marries must b very patience,because a boy will always be a boy regardless of his age.Age has nothing to do with brain.growing up and growing old is never the same.
A boy care less about what makes you happy as a woman.He knows nothing about putting a home together and he is not ready to know.Its d wife or the girlfriend who will be doing the thinking and taking decisions.It will be hard for him to part with the things he is used to as a teenager.He will be less concerned about his mode of dressing or his reputation.

A boy is loose,he will kiss and tell openly and talks about everything in his relationship to everybody and openly condemn his woman. A boy will make his mum or sister his next of kin even when he is happily married with kids.

A boy never worry about the future because he never wants to grow.A boy knows nothing about respecting or how treat a woman,

A boy will beat his woman and care less about her pains..

A boy can make his woman,s life miserable not because he’s wicked but because he’s a child.He will rather play video games or hang out with his home boys rather helping his kids with their home works.When a grown woman marries or dates a boy she automatically becomes a girl.she will change from a peaceful matured woman to a nagging young girl and people will think she has gone insane its because she is dating or got married to a teenager.

A PLAYER
Its better to be single than dating a player.Game playing is a stage in every mans life where he will date more than one woman and hide them from one another.A man who doesn’t go through this stage before settling can be very dangerous and reckless later in life.Whoever refused to stop or leave this stage of his life is a called a PLAYER.

A player is the closet thing to a boy that’s why they call themselves BIG BOYS..A player is a smart but confused,wicked,selfish and inconsiderate male,who can never stay faithful to one woman. Its easy for players to date any woman because they appears very attractive,clean,and dress very smart and presentable..

A player can be rich, famous, popular,tall, handsome,romantic, or posses any quality that many women wants in a guy.A player tells you what U want to hear and show U what u love to see to make U belief he’s real and then put ur life on hold…

A player can make any woman develop a heart attack.No woman can stop a player from playing games until he decides to stop.No woman can win a game with a player apart from material women who never dates for love.Any time or efforts you spend with a player can end up in vain.

A player can put your life on hold. A player will display a make believe behavior and make any woman got carried away so much she will give testimonies in church as if GOD has answered her prayers.

A player will make you promises that will make you feel on top of the world.A player will spend any amount of money and efforts to get between your legs when he accomplish his mission his story will change.

Players are allergic to delay.If he couldn’t get what he wants on time,he will leave U and move on to D next victim.He will always give you excuses when you bring up the issue of marriage.

A player,s heart has no space for love,He will only marry a potential victim for material benefits and continue his games after settling down.He will tell terrific stories about his innocent wife just to get another woman to bed.

A REAL MAN
A real man is a grown up matured man(regardless of his age) that is done playing games and ready to commit to just one woman and be faithful and honest with her. .most women say there is no such thing like a real man…but the truth is there r still many real men…ts only that no man is real until he is ready to grow up and done playing games.

A real man is the best gift any woman could get n life.
A real man will love you genuinely and prove his love to you.He will be sensitive to your needs He will be allergic to your tears and treats you like queen.

He can never be complete without you.He will make promises and keep to them.You will be his best friend, his next of kin and he will confide in you.you will never fight for his attention.He will gossip with you,laugh with you and cry with you.your pasts will never bothers him.whatever brings you happiness and joy will be his priority in life.

He will refuse to function when you are down and be on top of the world when you are happy.

He will love whatever concerns you and connected to you.when there’s conflict he will never raise either his voice or his hands.He will peacefully make you understand his point or view.
He will carry u along whatever he plans to do.If you disagree with him he will never take offense
He will trust without fear and give without expect.

WHICH CATEGORY DO YOU FALL INTO, MY FELLOW MEN?

sharaaaaaaaap u wrote all trash with no basis, where did u get this shit from? Was it from experience,
did som1 write somtn on it? Must u spew trash 2 show dat itz only cobwebs dat is in ur brain. Not dat you stupidly said dat every1 must pass 2ru d player stage, anoda
hopeless animal added dat if u didn't pass 2ru dat stage dat no woman will find u attractive. Am annoyed cos I know my life and am very very sure dat weda am in ur supposed boy stage or matured man dat I've never and will never be a player in this life...ah ah ah ah ah ah ah!!! Wat trash.. Must u use ur own life dat u have no self control to generalize others, since I started dating itz been only 1 girl at a time and during that time other girls dat I meet don't move me so stop generalising trash.. We ar not same.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by quicksylva(m): 7:48am On Oct 23, 2012

Both genders are culpable of such act. A man won't waste his entire life being a player or a boy. I have been there, done that, messed around, all is just vanity. Being a REAL MAN is simply the best. That's my opinion.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 7:57am On Oct 23, 2012

well, though i am not a player.
We men are hardwired to be players, accept it or leave it.
The description you made of a real man is simply that of a man who has made up his mind not to play anymore.
it require a very strong determination. a real strong one like that to see a very attractive woman and take your mind off her simply because you are in a "happy" relationship. The temptation is another and overcoming it everytime it comes take same skill, Determination.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 8:01am On Oct 23, 2012

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by karpentar: 8:05am On Oct 23, 2012

Ejiné:

Summary: Osama Bin Laden is dead.

That's what I understood from the article

My understanding too. lol!!!!
By the way, I love love. Am I a player, boy or real man?

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 8:13am On Oct 23, 2012

Movingcoil: sharaaaaaaaap u wrote all trash with no basis, where did u get this shit from? Was it from experience,
did som1 write somtn on it? Must u spew trash 2 show dat itz only cobwebs dat is in ur brain. Not dat you stupidly said dat every1 must pass 2ru d player stage, anoda
hopeless animal added dat if u didn't pass 2ru dat stage dat no woman will find u attractive. Am annoyed cos I know my life and am very very sure dat weda am in ur supposed boy stage or matured man dat I've never and will never be a player in this life...ah ah ah ah ah ah ah!!! Wat trash.. Must u use ur own life dat u have no self control to generalize others, since I started dating itz been only 1 girl at a time and during that time other girls dat I meet don't move me so stop generalising trash.. We ar not same.

bros no vex jare, d guy thinks everybody is like him...trash...poo..nonsense & ingredients...

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by wissezy: 8:41am On Oct 23, 2012

A Player thats me for now, and am enjoying it.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by ameer2: 8:53am On Oct 23, 2012

BrutusOj: I'm proud 2 be a player, atleast no girl go form efizzy 4 me

Naso ooooo

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Emmaville(m): 8:56am On Oct 23, 2012

[size=16pt]tnks to d guys dat refuse to dull in dis post. n shame to d guys claiming anti_players respectively. actually, by default man is a player. so u choose to explore ur skills n talents or to tame/curtail it. many a guys had good hearts, bt gals dnt like it, so we gats b player to make it work............n of cos gals like it too. me, am nt jst a player, am a striker, a skippo, a point man, a finisher. i dey hot. its players dat settle down to b real men if dey want n d gal melow finish. odawise, inter_continental players sef dey make way...............*dontdullursef[/size]

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 9:06am On Oct 23, 2012

Somehow...i find the op's post on point.
...but then real men as in the context hardly exist..
Boys and players abound!!

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 9:12am On Oct 23, 2012

honeric01: RUBBISH! (especially the player bla bla bla)

No,its not...especially the player part.i can relate to it to the dot!
...why e dey pepper you btw?
Are you a player??

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by honeric01(m): 9:16am On Oct 23, 2012

slimyem: No,its not...especially the player part.i can relate to it to the dot!
...why e dey pepper you btw?
Are you a player??

Here's the part i find silly.

"A man who doesn’t go through this stage before settling can be very dangerous and reckless later in life"

The OP is saying that if you're not a player, you'd be reckless in the future? this is like saying, if you haven't stolen before, you stand the chance of stealing later in life.

Of what use is double dating?

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by SELFWORTH: 9:27am On Oct 23, 2012

kulboy: I should into the 3 categories depending on the lady I'm dating.

I agree . 98% of Nigerian men are none of the above . Most are aliens!!!!!They are simply confused about their identity and that explains the reasons for a lot of their actions.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Emmaville(m): 9:38am On Oct 23, 2012

SELFWORTH: I agree . 98% of Nigerian men are none of the above . Most are aliens!!!!!They are simply confused about their identity and that explains the reasons for a lot of their actions.

[size=28pt]shattttttaaaaappppp!!!!!!!!!![/size]

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 9:41am On Oct 23, 2012

honeric01:

Here's the part i find silly.

"A man who doesn’t go through this stage before settling can be very dangerous and reckless later in life"

The OP is saying that if you're not a player, you'd be reckless in the future? this is like saying, if you haven't stolen before, you stand the chance of stealing later in life.

Of what use is double dating?

...okay..
That part of his post is ridiculous!
Scratch it...!
The other part are true though..

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by kavey10(m): 9:52am On Oct 23, 2012

Arhhh! I can't believe I was dumb enough to read this thread to the 2nd page! Kai! It was just too pointless... Gbaguan just full everywhere.
MODs please note to always put a BULLSHIT ALERT at the top of topics like this so one can avoid it.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by honeric01(m): 10:02am On Oct 23, 2012

slimyem: ...okay..
That part of his post is ridiculous!
Scratch it...!
The other part are true though..

Didn't care to read the rest after that part.

A real man can't be defined on paper on the internet.

You should know that a real man to woman A can be a wussy to woman B. not definite definition when it comes to that.

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by slimyem: 10:10am On Oct 23, 2012

honeric01:

Didn't care to read the rest after that part.

A real man can't be defined on paper on the internet.

You should know that a real man to woman A can be a wussy to woman B. not definite definition when it comes to that.

the op's points might have a few pluses or minuses but the general overview is true even to subjectives.
My post below is still my deduction with the buts

slimyem: Somehow...i find the op's post on point.
...but then real men as in the context hardly exist..
Boys and players abound!!

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by 2chains1(m): 10:25am On Oct 23, 2012

What is the criteria for a topic to be on the homepage?

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by honeric01(m): 10:32am On Oct 23, 2012

slimyem: the op's points might have a few pluses or minuses but the general overview is true even to subjectives.
My post below is still my deduction with the buts

Your opinion which i have no objections to as i have also made my opinion known too.

we cool slimmee cool

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Sike(m): 10:39am On Oct 23, 2012

kkkkkk

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Orikinla(m): 11:33am On Oct 23, 2012

Arrowman: A BOY
Whoever dates or marries must b very patience,because a boy will always be a boy regardless of his age.Age has nothing to do with brain.growing up and growing old is never the same.
A boy care less about what makes you happy as a woman.He knows nothing about putting a home together and he is not ready to know.Its d wife or the girlfriend who will be doing the thinking and taking decisions.It will be hard for him to part with the things he is used to as a teenager.He will be less concerned about his mode of dressing or his reputation.

A boy is loose,he will kiss and tell openly and talks about everything in his relationship to everybody and openly condemn his woman. A boy will make his mum or sister his next of kin even when he is happily married with kids.

A boy never worry about the future because he never wants to grow.A boy knows nothing about respecting or how treat a woman,

A boy will beat his woman and care less about her pains..

A boy can make his woman,s life miserable not because he’s wicked but because he’s a child.He will rather play video games or hang out with his home boys rather helping his kids with their home works.When a grown woman marries or dates a boy she automatically becomes a girl.she will change from a peaceful matured woman to a nagging young girl and people will think she has gone insane its because she is dating or got married to a teenager.

A PLAYER
Its better to be single than dating a player.Game playing is a stage in every mans life where he will date more than one woman and hide them from one another.A man who doesn’t go through this stage before settling can be very dangerous and reckless later in life.Whoever refused to stop or leave this stage of his life is a called a PLAYER.

A player is the closet thing to a boy that’s why they call themselves BIG BOYS..A player is a smart but confused,wicked,selfish and inconsiderate male,who can never stay faithful to one woman. Its easy for players to date any woman because they appears very attractive,clean,and dress very smart and presentable..

A player can be rich, famous, popular,tall, handsome,romantic, or posses any quality that many women wants in a guy.A player tells you what U want to hear and show U what u love to see to make U belief he’s real and then put ur life on hold…

A player can make any woman develop a heart attack.No woman can stop a player from playing games until he decides to stop.No woman can win a game with a player apart from material women who never dates for love.Any time or efforts you spend with a player can end up in vain.

A player can put your life on hold. A player will display a make believe behavior and make any woman got carried away so much she will give testimonies in church as if GOD has answered her prayers.

A player will make you promises that will make you feel on top of the world.A player will spend any amount of money and efforts to get between your legs when he accomplish his mission his story will change.

Players are allergic to delay.If he couldn’t get what he wants on time,he will leave U and move on to D next victim.He will always give you excuses when you bring up the issue of marriage.

A player,s heart has no space for love,He will only marry a potential victim for material benefits and continue his games after settling down.He will tell terrific stories about his innocent wife just to get another woman to bed.

A REAL MAN
A real man is a grown up matured man(regardless of his age) that is done playing games and ready to commit to just one woman and be faithful and honest with her. .most women say there is no such thing like a real man…but the truth is there r still many real men…ts only that no man is real until he is ready to grow up and done playing games.

A real man is the best gift any woman could get n life.
A real man will love you genuinely and prove his love to you.He will be sensitive to your needs He will be allergic to your tears and treats you like queen.

He can never be complete without you.He will make promises and keep to them.You will be his best friend, his next of kin and he will confide in you.you will never fight for his attention.He will gossip with you,laugh with you and cry with you.your pasts will never bothers him.whatever brings you happiness and joy will be his priority in life.

He will refuse to function when you are down and be on top of the world when you are happy.

He will love whatever concerns you and connected to you.when there’s conflict he will never raise either his voice or his hands.He will peacefully make you understand his point or view.
He will carry u along whatever he plans to do.If you disagree with him he will never take offense
He will trust without fear and give without expect.

WHICH CATEGORY DO YOU FALL INTO, MY FELLOW MEN?

[size=18pt]
ANOTHER SCRIPT. grin

THERE ARE NO REAL LAID DOWN RULES TO GO SHOPPING FOR A SUITABLE MAN.

A REAL MAN WHO CANNOT PAY HIS BILLS AND WHO DOES NOT ADD MUCH TO THE GDP OF HIS COUNTRY IS STILL A SMALL BOY IN MY BOOK.[/size]

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Equila(f): 12:17pm On Oct 23, 2012

i l love this part"[i]A real man will love you genuinely and prove his love to you.He will be sensitive to your needs He will be allergic to your tears and treats you like queen" grin

Re: Difference Between A Boy, A Player And A Man In A Relationship. by Nobody: 12:27pm On Oct 23, 2012

@Op nice write up...

haha mehn guys are not smiling...look at the way they are defending themselves Lol... cool

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