I actually walked up to a lady after the usual Sunday service and asked her hand in friendship and it was very difficult even getting her to chat along...i have been used to getting ladies to play along easily until dis one...so i felt maybe the timing was not right...so the question is...
do you think the timing has anything to do with it and when do you think it is the right time to ask....
reasonable contributions and experiences are welcomed from both guys and ladies...

Huh?

you asked for her hand in friendship??
well forget about the time,probably the venue wasn't ideal.Play cool,don't miss church , until an attraction naturally develops then she will come around.
If she doesn't respond start chaTting another girl and observe her reaction
But please don't act desperate.

Theres no yardstick for all those things. @least personally. U guys jst dint click bt as d lady don suggest u can follow her advice.

you asked for her hand in friendship??
well forget about the time,probably the venue wasn't ideal.Play cool,don't miss church , until an attraction naturally develops then she will come around.
If she doesn't respond start chaTting another girl and observe her reaction
But please don't act desperate.
hmmm...thanks for the tips...esp dat 'another girl' part... but i guess i have to be careful before gbede burst for my head