My boyfriend of over a year has been pestering me recently for my younger coz phone number who is 18, according to him she jists better than me. I refused giving it to him cos I'm not comfortable with the way she is around guys. In addition, I always allow talk to him when he calls but recently I noticed she hides everything about her own relationships from me.

The problem is dat my boyfriend says I'm hiding something from him and that I dont trust him with her. Its adding tension to the relationship. Should I give in and give the number?

I feel that it might lead to something else

Are you sure you are 24? Anyway, if that is the whole story then I dont see anything to worry about, except if you and your cousin have had problems ith Boyfriends previously. I am even more confused than you are, because
1, I dont understand why your boyfriend would want ur cousins number because she gists better than u
2, Your girlfriend would not want her boyfriend to have your number
3, Your Boyfriend will think you are hidding something.
If you were all a bunch of teenagers i ould understand but it seems you are all grown so am really confused

na small pikin thing be this. shouldn't u be ashamed of taking time out to type this out? besides, how did u piece all this bits and bobs together?
o girl, handle ur bizniss. ur cousin is 18. i wonder why u feel threatened by her

To the lookof things just the way u posted it here, it seem that u always leave your cusin with ur guy. because little girls of now adays always like to play with guys especially wen dey know the guy tru friends or their sisters. u dont hv to blame your cusin, she may not hv that in mind but ur guy. SEE WAT U WILL DO, JUST CALL BOTH OF THEM TO PUT A STOP TO ALL THIS. DAT THEIR CLOSENESS AND GISTING TOGETHER  IS TAKING ANOTHER DIMESION, THAT U DONT WANT IT ANY MORE. if you dont talk, then get eady to loss ur boy friend for ur causing.

erm. . . . . where is this convo coming from doesn't make sense at all.

Seems like someone wiped off the topic

binary thanks for ur advice.

Busta:

Seems like someone wiped off the topic

hahahahahah. i thought as much. who knows what going through the persons head?

Your boyfriend is a dog!

No even any respect for you?

God! Where did you meet him

ewo! not until i scrolled down did i realise the poster must have repasted the body of the topic back on. LOL!!!!

@ poster

na ur fault Period. If you respect yourself your cousin will respect yuo. You allowed come too close to your boyfriend!

look him square in the eye and say NO. its as simple as that. if he asks you why say . . . .  because I TOLD YOU SO.

Some people will deal with anything/anoyone just to avoid being single

It's quite sad

Let them both know how u feel and stop letting ur cousin into ur bizness.

Your boyfriend is playing smart, be smarter!

The dude dig your sister, aint nothing to it than that. If you want him to double-dip, go right ahead and hand it to him, and she will be smiling the way you smile prety soon.
Or may be your sis make a good buddy than you do, you just never know,
Trust me, He wants her, and I can't blame a brotha for test driving on the same parking lot,

Ths s nt really cool bt at d same time s free world
Dont cal dat tin a relationship, its just a child's play
Coz dr s no sign of maturity in neither u nor girlfriend
o' girl go get matured hen, and ur guy too
learn d rules of game , no be for all

@ Topic.

Dont give your her to your bf, but Silly can have her

sillyboy:

@ Topic.

Dont give your her to your boyfriend, but Silly can have her

guy try yarn well ehn d babe confuse nomean make u confuse her d more

@poster,the guy doesn't want you dear.he simply wants your younger cousin.there is nothing you can do abt it than let go of the boy.perharps he only used you to have access to your cousin let him go and pretend hes a mistake in the first place and move on with your life.there is surely a man for you out there .
be strong !

This is confusing, grow up, please, you don't sound very mature, I couldn't even make sense out of the topic.

belive me both of them don do, only ur b/f na bad guyssssssssssssssssssss

believe me that guy doesn't ve any atom of love 4 you.

he is still with u maybe u satisfy him very well in bed.

he is a dog.

dont allow him to come 2 ur house again cos he might start going after ur mother.

your boyfriend is a love-vendor so girl watch it.dont trust anybody be it your boyfriend or even your self.thats the secret of survival

it obvious that ur guy wants ur sister, is written clearly

Big red flag!!!! He wants you cuz and he wants her now!!! If ur cuz is already hiding her relationship from u, be rest assured there's something going on behind your back.

Dump his ass! But b4 you do, ask for his bestfriend's no, or his brother, whichever one he'll feel most threatened with (single or player would be preferrable). You better start flirting with others when you r around him. It will keep him in line