blandish: I totally agree with you....I met a guy and one week later he was already referring to me as MRS :::::::::::. and talking about our unborn children blah blah blah......he was not interested in knowing me tho...or even been friends with me first (friends first so that the so called married will not be based solely on pillow talk but on true freindship). My guess is that he thought by calling me mrs and talking about children that I will gladly open my toto....TUFIYAKWA!!!!!!

When he saw that there was no way he could wak this puni....he bailed out.

Expecially Yoruba guys in london.....they meet you today morning, there lyrics is that they wanna marry you today evening...I have met 3 like that now and it is very annoying and disgusting and a total insult on my intelligence.

GIRLS KNOW AND RESPECT YOURSELF....OR YOU WILL END UP SELLING YOUR GROUNDNUT TO EVERYONE AND YET NO GENUINE MARRIAGE OFFER!!!

GUYS HAVE BEEN INUNDATED WITH THIS FREE TOTO EVERYWHERE THAT THEY NO LONGER HAVE RESPECT FOR WOMEN!!! MTCHEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWW

C me o: I cannot blame ur friends. firstly, it could be that those girls are trying to play smart with ur friends becos my experience with Nigerian ladies are that they like multiple income stream. i.e. they may like to stick to other guys becos of what they will get. They like the sense of having a fiance who wont stop them from doing another parole.

It may also be ur friends are not extending much financial support to them as expected by those ladies becos i discover recently that most Nigerian women perfer to go for a very low income earners who give them cash or spend on them unconsciously to a rich banker/man with a promising life or more conscious spending.


No doubt, some typical 9ja woman will bash me, but me i no send.

pak:


Et tu Tunji ? Don't tell me you also have issues.

Upon all your popularity on NL , I expected you to have done better.

With all these opportunities coming your way daily, don't tell me you've been missing the goal.

maclatunji:

I don't know about popularity, but I do know that finding/choosing a wife is a big decision for any man and there are several issues/factors to be considered if you want to get it right. Personally, I am not very bothered with where I am "relationship wise". It's extraneous variables that cause problems. God's guidance will see me through.

coogar:

what's so big-dealish in choosing a wife?
be friends with her, get to know her, talk to her.....love her!
what else?

maclatunji:

Ok, you just pick a random female and do all of the above? Wow! I must be foolish or something.

12 inches!:


Like this babe I told I would marry just to knack am. She actually believes me. Do I even look like someone who looks ready to marry. I dey knack I'm steady. She wan get bele for me to seal the deal. But I cnt marry her. She wants to move in with me.

packman:

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LIKE EMEKA AND WALE....

EVERY MAN WITH HIS CHARACTER.........[/size]

coogar:

there can only be two reasons

• your friends are still playing the field - even if they meet mother theresa right now, nothing would come out of it because they are simply not ready to walk the aisle with anyone yet.

• they are searching for the perfect woman - having slept with hundreds of them, they are lured into a false belief that there's a much better woman out there for them so they continue to search for her. the reason they promised marriage to the other ones is because that's the password to sleep with majority of naija babes! without the m-word, you are not touching their goldmine!

blandish: I totally agree with you....I met a guy and one week later he was already referring to me as MRS :::::::::::. and talking about our unborn children blah blah blah......he was not interested in knowing me tho...or even been friends with me first (friends first so that the so called married will not be based solely on pillow talk but on true freindship). My guess is that he thought by calling me mrs and talking about children that I will gladly open my toto....TUFIYAKWA!!!!!!

When he saw that there was no way he could wak this puni....he bailed out.

Expecially Yoruba guys in london.....they meet you today morning, there lyrics is that they wanna marry you today evening...I have met 3 like that now and it is very annoying and disgusting and a total insult on my intelligence.

GIRLS KNOW AND RESPECT YOURSELF....OR YOU WILL END UP SELLING YOUR GROUNDNUT TO EVERYONE AND YET NO GENUINE MARRIAGE OFFER!!!

GUYS HAVE BEEN INUNDATED WITH THIS FREE TOTO EVERYWHERE THAT THEY NO LONGER HAVE RESPECT FOR WOMEN!!! MTCHEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWW

ITbomb: The more u sleep with different girls the less ur chances of trusting a girl even the nice one are grouped together with the bad

naijathings: i have furked so many pussyies wey i no even remember d name of the owner seff and i never ever promised anyone marriage to furkk. love and marriage are words i dont say easily and i dont like to hear it anyhow either. i dont know why guys do that shiet. I used to have a pal that would even knee down and beg you and tell you all sorts of marriage talk just to furk. haba. me i no fit do that kain thin oh. i nova eva beg woman for toto seff or make promises if you no wan furk then no be by force. and how come seun forgot to censor "toto"

12 inches!:


Like this babe I told I would marry just to knack am. She actually believes me. Do I even look like someone who looks ready to marry. I dey knack I'm steady. She wan get bele for me to seal the deal. But I cnt marry her. She wants to move in with me.

blandish: I totally agree with you....I met a guy and one week later he was already referring to me as MRS :::::::::::. and talking about our unborn children blah blah blah......he was not interested in knowing me tho...or even been friends with me first (friends first so that the so called married will not be based solely on pillow talk but on true freindship). My guess is that he thought by calling me mrs and talking about children that I will gladly open my toto....TUFIYAKWA!!!!!!

When he saw that there was no way he could wak this puni....he bailed out.

Expecially Yoruba guys in london.....they meet you today morning, there lyrics is that they wanna marry you today evening...I have met 3 like that now and it is very annoying and disgusting and a total insult on my intelligence.

GIRLS KNOW AND RESPECT YOURSELF....OR YOU WILL END UP SELLING YOUR GROUNDNUT TO EVERYONE AND YET NO GENUINE MARRIAGE OFFER!!!

GUYS HAVE BEEN INUNDATED WITH THIS FREE TOTO EVERYWHERE THAT THEY NO LONGER HAVE RESPECT FOR WOMEN!!! MTCHEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWW

coogar:

what's so big-dealish in choosing a wife?
be friends with her, get to know her, talk to her.....love her!
what else?

maclatunji:

Ok, you just pick a random female and do all of the above? Wow! I must be foolish or something.

thorpido: I tried these for many years.I be good guy and the girls like me for that.When you ask them to marry you,na dat time you go know say,'be friends with her,get to know her and love her no dey enough for Nigerian babes.

thorpido: Abi o.Some people have it work for them easier but it's a big tasl for others.I see people who married their classmates or someone in the same office etc.when i became friends with a colleague hoping something might come out of it,she chose 'Olorunsogo' like most ladies.It's not easy for a man getting a wife in this generation.

coogar:

you have to complete "other duties" as well.....you can't just be a good guy and think a woman would get high on your goodness. some of the rich boys taking the girls from you are good too, if not better! one thing you must understand is there's a competition out there, a very fierce one if i may add. treat a girl right, make her laugh and she is all yours(by default)!


you need to step your game - maybe you were "too good" for her.....you can't be "too good" or "too soft"....too much of everything is bad and most chics dont like men that are sissies. strike a balance between being good and being firm!

coogar:

you have to complete "other duties" as well.....you can't just be a good guy and think a woman would get high on your goodness. some of the rich boys taking the girls from you are good too, if not better! one thing you must understand is there's a competition out there, a very fierce one if i may add. treat a girl right, make her laugh and she is all yours(by default)!



you need to step your game - maybe you were "too good" for her.....you can't be "too good" or "too soft"....too much of everything is bad and most chics dont like men that are sissies. strike a balance between being good and being firm!

filani:

@ coogar

All good and well. In line with ur comment can it not also be argued that the ladies also do not meet up with 'other duties' expected of them and as such they too do not make the cut?
Ladies with fine face , fine body , flashy clothes etc full ground for naija, what else are they bringing to the table? Just as you advised guys, ladies should also realize that competition is stiff and as such they need to raise their game or miss out

maclatunji: Money or position doesn't equate to emotional maturity. They are just not mature enough to identify quality wife material and go for them.

Harmony-emerald:




you mustn't really have to be poor to date but one mistake guys do is flaunting their so called wealth around, when they do this, they attract the artificial gold-digging types, men should learn to limit their expectations, rich guys always go for the flashy, artificial ladies who will be like a trophy to show off to their friends, when a guy is surrounded by this kind of girls, how does he expect to get the 'good wify material' that he seeks. cut down on the number of girls with brazillian hair, bb, iphone, colour blocking clothes and the rest of them, from their appearance alone, a wise man can tell a lot about a lady, the flashy ones needs cash to continue looking flashy

thorpido: Those 'other duties' have to do with financial capacity.I no go steal or do yahoo yahoo to meet up.I can only spend what I have while I work hard to improve.It's not enough to be good and firm.

thorpido: Those 'other duties' have to do with financial capacity.I no go steal or do yahoo yahoo to meet up.I can only spend what I have while I work hard to improve.It's not enough to be good and firm.