is,t proper to date some living in thesame compound with and do u think it can lead to marriage

Not the wisest thing to do but yes it could work and lead to marriage.

I'm yet to find where it's written that it is a taboo to date someone you living in thesame compound with.
Until I find it,I see nothing wrong in dating someone you live in thesame compound with and I see no reason why it shouldnt lead to marriage if both of you are committed to getting married

Yes and No.

Why not

If you are not ready to take it to the next level. Dont.
Over time, If it didn't work out, you would have no space to manueveur.

Okay, why is it wrong?

There are no rules against it so I am counting it as right

@eliznkiru
notin wrong with it and it can still lead to marriage
but personally i can't

If d 2 agrees.....u can date, fling, marry or just be friends. Others are 3rd party.

Op

Yes if u re gonna be faithful 2 each other

But
No if u re planning 2 cheat & count census

If both of you are gainfully employed, and she's decent and responsible, why not....

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CrazyMan: If both of you are gainfully employed, and she's decent and responsible, why not....

must she be a worker Oga?

Wislet: must she be a worker Oga?

Why not...I can't date a jobless girl.

CrazyMan:
Why not...I can't date a jobless girl.

Tell why

Mynd_44:
Tell why

So you don't know why...alright I'll tell ya

1. A jobless girl has all the time in the world to hang out and fork different guys...hence the saying "an idle mind is the devil's workshop"

2. A jobless girl has nothing to offer her guy apart from sex...so with time, he'll get fed up with her.

3. She can be very frustrating to maintain cos you'll be the one to pay her rent, pay her fees (if she's a student) give her pocket money, make up money, money for hair, take her out for shopping...etc. And what do you get back in return...lies, deceit, unfaithfulness...etc.

Experience?

Guy, you go burn your cable if you try it. Unless you dont want to be wooing another girl, coz you cant keep only that your compound gal, ur own don finish be dat. Check am well shaa

CrazyMan:
So you don't know why...alright I'll tell ya

1. A jobless girl has all the time in the world to hang out and fork different guys...hence the saying "an idle mind is the devil's workshop"

2. A jobless girl has nothing to offer her guy apart from sex...so with time, he'll get fed up with her.

3. She can be very frustrating to maintain cos you'll be the one to pay her rent, pay her fees (if she's a student) give her pocket money, make up money, money for hair, take her out for shopping...etc. And what do you get back in return...lies, deceit, unfaithfulness...etc.

U r right bro