l am 26 yrs but part of my new yr resolutions was to av a stable relationship rather than keeping girls for sex only which has been my motive for evry date.i ran into this girl sm wks back but what shocked me was dat she is in SS3 and just 17yrs old.the confident she posses is something else but guys do u think i should consider her for a serious date.she cooks vry well .atleast l av a vry good job so looking forward in settling down vry soon.am in a fix wat do i do.

I will sincerely advice you to allow the girl in question to seriously face her studies cos she is still too young to be drag into courtship. Look for other girls out there who are already through with their secondry school education or better still concentrate on those who are of age. You may have a good intention, but you will end up deceiving or ruin the girl's future. Take my word, ok? Only be casual friends with the girl based on plutonic love. Surely your miss right will come one day.

Encomium i dont think there is anything wrong for dating a in ss3, as the poster said he is just 26 you dont expect him to go marry 26 yrs old also. The girl in question is 18 yrs and why the poster is 26yrs, 26 -18 = 8. u can see is just 18 yrs different. Pls stop that african man mind set. Pls carry on with her. BUT MAKE SURE U ALLOW HER TO GET EDUCATION. make u nor give am belle OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

@poster

You're looking for a wife--------- she's in secondary school.

I don't think she'll be ready to settle down. from the sounds of it you are looking to do so. Basically the next lady you get involved with will be a potential.

at 17 i don't think 'settling down' will be on her top 5 priorities.

am not saying; do not go for her. you need to be aware that she may not be thinking along the lines as you.   she's still young and may still want to explore _{thats if she hasn't started already}

I am looking for a wifey, I am looking for a wifey

@topic,
Let the girl face her studies . . . besides, that should be her number one priority rather than pressure for some relationship or before u go and get her knocked up!

She is too young to be wife material that is not ready for settle down yet! She still studies in education and not yet to explore new things out there first before settle down later.

You better waiting for her to have her complete education FIRST! NO HURRY! You have a plenty of time!

You are 26 and she is almost 18, 8 years difference, i don't think it does not bother you to wait bit longer for her to finish education!!! LOVE CONQUERS ALL!!!

have u eva heard of the word STATUTORY RAPE go and check the meaning in the dictionary.

larekey: have u eva heard of the word STATUTORY RAPE go and check the meaning in the dictionary.

he hasnt said he is molesting the girl.

^so u cud nt get a new thread to contribute 2, u decided 2raise a 4yrs+ thread frm death.

ikuoma4rea: l am 26 yrs but part of my new yr resolutions was to av a stable relationship rather than keeping girls for sex only which has been my motive for evry date.i ran into this girl sm wks back but what shocked me was dat she is in SS3 and just 17yrs old.the confident she posses is something else but guys do u think i should consider her for a serious date.she cooks vry well .atleast l av a vry good job so looking forward in settling down vry soon.am in a fix wat do i do.

huh? 17yrs old?? Bro are u a Peterfile? In Britain, You be locked up (no oofeinsese)

O ma ga .... shes not even 18 yet.
26+17=CHILD ABUSE!!!

ikuoma4rea: l am 26 yrs but part of my new yr resolutions was to av a stable relationship rather than keeping girls for sex only which has been my motive for evry date.i ran into this girl sm wks back but what shocked me was dat she is in SS3 and just 17yrs old.the confident she posses is something else but guys do u think i should consider her for a serious date.she cooks vry well .atleast l av a vry good job so looking forward in settling down vry soon.am in a fix wat do i do.

Agbaya! abeg lef am elone!

What does a 17-year-old girl know?! She's way too young abeg. Pls let her be and find someone close to your age bracket. This girl may not be ready to settle down in d next five years and since that's in your immediate agenda, the relationship might now work.

if u have a 17 yr old daughter b sincere hw wld u feel if a man comes 2 ur house nd asks her hand in marriage?...leave d smally jare

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Ask kanu Nwakwo!
And besides, dt guy will by now be 30yrs. He probably wld have impregnated d girl now, marry her or used and dumped her so eat your advice it's no more useful!

This guy is a real cradle robber. The father of the girl should use his cutlass on you