(First and Foremost, I will like to apologize to the Moderators and everyone for posting this here. I sure know where I would have posted it but due to the maltreatment and derailing of my thread in the Romance Section, I have decided to put it here.)


How Easy Is It Falling Inlove With Someone You Once Disliked.

I have this very good friend of mine who I couldn't just date because we had so many opposite things as a couple but very close as buddies.

There was a guy who desperately wanted to date her but all what she used as a yard stick to measure the guy were from my characters (some). She referred to the guy as being irresponsible, a smoker, a drunk and an unserious fellow who in her own words, "Over my dead body will I have date Mr T not to talk of marrying him".

Most times she cut his calls or doesn't pick them when she is with me and shows me his text messages and mock him how he is begging her to at least honor a date with him.

To cut long story short, lo and behold we got talking today and guess what? She is now dating that same guy she once hated and is now singing a new song of how "he is ready to change to be a better person" and "I am getting to love and accept him for who he is. Knowing no one is perfect".

My question is, how easily can some people swallow their puke (vomit). Could it be out of desperation because she is fast running of marraiageable age or could it be due to not having another option?

People, have you dated someone you once hated or have you ever been considered by someone who once hated you?

They are still going to move you back there..

That one go be serious torture as well as totally killing the thread.

With this testimony of yours,this gives me hope that all my crush who refused to date me and decided to hate me as a result will definitely come back.I will be waiting.

That's only gonna happen after you don hammer oh! All the while this lady was hating the guy he was on a meager salary of about N35,000, now he earns N123,000 after tax. She didn't mention the salary aspect but I only just thought deep and knew that might also be a factor why the sudden love.

acidtalk: (First and Foremost, I will like to apologize to the Moderators and everyone for posting this here. I sure know where I would have posted it but due to the maltreatment and derailing of my thread in the Romance Section, I have decided to put it here.)

acidtalk: How Easy Is It Falling Inlove With Someone You Once Disliked.

Yes I believe its possible.

acidtalk: I have this very good friend of mine who I couldn't just date because we had so many opposite things as a couple but very close as buddies.

There was a guy who desperately wanted to date her but all what she used as a yard stick to measure the guy were from my characters (some). She referred to the guy as being irresponsible, a smoker, a drunk and an unserious fellow who in her own words, "Over my dead body will I have date Mr T not to talk of marrying him".

Most times she cut his calls or doesn't pick them when she is with me and shows me his text messages and mock him how he is begging her to at least honor a date with him.

To cut long story short, lo and behold we got talking today and guess what? She is now dating that same guy she once hated and is now singing a new song of how "he is ready to change to be a better person" and "I am getting to love and accept him for who he is. Knowing no one is perfect".

Definition of a miracle.

acidtalk: My question is, how easily can some people swallow their puke (vomit).

When she starts getting old and less attractive

acidtalk: Could it be out of desperation because she is fast running of marraiageable age or could it be due to not having another option?

Yes...

acidtalk: People, have you dated someone you once hated or have you ever been considered by someone who once hated you?

Nope, but I'm looking forward to that.

Thanks for analyzing it one after the other. As for the first paragraph, you sef know say I no dey lie.

I ve learnt nt 2 write ppl off cos anytin could happen.

Wrong section mate.

What bearing has this thread of yours got on family issues? Tgirl, abeg carry this Nollywood thread go Romance Section.

larrymoore: I ve learnt nt 2 write ppl off cos anytin could happen.

It might not really have to do with writing anyone off. Maybe one just felt he/she is not and cannever be compartible and as such don't feel the need of even given a chance in the first place.

Back to romance lol

And oga acid has done it again

Yeah. It is easy andd funny moreso if it ends in marriage. the point of hatred ll be the strong chord binding them.

It always happen like that. May be the guy earn more income or the girl av no other choice.

Mynd_44: Back to romance lol

Hmmm!!!

abdullkabar: And oga acid has done it again

Wetin I do oh?

Love is having the greatest good of someone in mind

Na Money things.. You know if money grows like tree ''woman go marry monkey'' *-*

My brother, na dem way. Simply put u can never understand why women do certain things.

i 0nce d!slykeD my eX

Francheezy: i 0nce d!slykeD my eX

Please what made you to eventually date her? Want to hear from people like you.

This topic reminds me of my best female friend when I was in secondary school.We were enemies when she first joined the school.She would abuse, eye and hiss at me at every given opportunity.A day came she needed something which I had, at first she was afraid to ask but after a while she asked for it and to her suprise, I gave it to her without hesitation.We became friends that day to everyone's astonishment and got closer day after day.

To topic:
It can be easy.It only takes a step from either of you.

Became your friend when she needed something you had. If there wasn't ever a need, do you think she would ever be friendly with you?

Happened to me,well nt like i hated him bt never tot I'd date him,nw 6 yrs later,we dating n he's acting funny.[

Yin-yin:
Happened to me,well nt like i hated him bt never tot I'd date him,nw 6 yrs later,we dating n he's acting funny.[

Please can you be a little elaborate on how you guys initially dislike eachother, how you started dating, and what you mean by him acting funny.

I can't date somebody I don't like, no matter how much i try..
Because there must be a reason why i never liked him...

Your worst enemy can be your best friend. Hatred can sometimes be love in disguise.

Persistence! Resilience

This is not uncommon at all. Any time a woman is showing you messages from a man she "detests" you better open one of your eyes. She was already involved with him, but he was not where she wanted him to be just yet. Once he improved himself she said "Thank You" and ran into his arms.

acidtalk: That's only gonna happen after you don hammer oh! All the while this lady was hating the guy he was on a meager salary of about N35,000, now he earns N123,000 after tax. She didn't mention the salary aspect but I only just thought deep and knew that might also be a factor why the sudden love.

Rit on point man.

acidtalk: Became your friend when she needed something you had. If there wasn't ever a need, do you think she would ever be friendly with you?

Seconded.

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