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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 2:04am On Nov 25, 2012
tpia1:
white guys on average stick with white women.

in addition, straight white guys are more likely to have other things going on in their lives besides just dreaming endlessly about s.ex and women's bodies. Meaning they're more driven to have achievements in other areas besides instant physical gratification. And, social standing/feedback matters a lot to them, more than their black counterparts.

until that changes, they dont mind being seen as disinterested in womanizing.

not saying there are no white guys who are just as s.ex addicted as black ones though.

@ the bolded - perhaps that's why loads of successful black men always end up with white women, no??

However, I disagree with your assertion that: "white men are more driven to have achievements in other areas besides physical gratification." White men are natural womanizers... I can also argue that they have a higher sex drive than black men...
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by MrsChima(f): 2:05am On Nov 25, 2012
Reggie Bush dumped Kim ho asz!

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 2:05am On Nov 25, 2012
Sybellah:
they repress their feelings because they scared of what people will think, and they are intimidated also by black girls lool
i have a couple of white/asian friends and many confide that they would be scared to ask black chicks out becuz we look intimidating grin

have u dated out of yo race before?

Nah, just flings with a couple of Asian and white chics - nothing serious...

I'm only attracted to black chics, anyway...

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by onila(f): 2:08am On Nov 25, 2012
shymexx:

Don't lie... I know a FOB naija chic that fell in love with my boy in uni just because he was mixed race... My boy just used to beat it like she was anything lol...

And you need to see how naija chics flock around my mixed race cousin... grin
mixed race guys, YES yr correct!
I am guilty of this
when I was younger, i used to be attracted 2 all my brothers mixed race Naija friends grin like i used to really trip for them

Mixed race Naija guys are seen as ``exotic`` in Nigeria because they are not many of them

just the way white men are more desirable to Nigerian women living in Nigeria
when i came abroad, i wasnt crazy about white men anymore

I aint attracted to light skinned guys especially light skinned igbo guys, its a turn off for me
most of the time, they kinda look gay
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 2:12am On Nov 25, 2012
onila: mixed race guys, YES yr correct!
I am guilty of this
when I was younger, i used to be attracted 2 all my brothers mixed race Naija friends grin like i used to really trip for them

Mixed race Naija guys are seen as ``exotic`` in Nigeria because they are not many of them

just the way white men are more desirable to Nigerian women living in Nigeria
when i came abroad, i wasnt crazy about white men anymore

I aint attracted to light skinned guys especially light skinned igbo guys, its a turn off for me
most of the time, they kinda look gay

Bwahahahahaha

I guess being light-skinned is a luxury in Nigeria... grin

Perhaps, that's why a lot of Nigerians bleach their skin smh...

We used to laugh at the naija chic that fell in love with my doozy because he's mixed race...
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by onila(f): 2:18am On Nov 25, 2012
shymexx:

Bwahahahahaha

I guess being light-skinned is a luxury in Nigeria... grin

Perhaps, that's why a lot of Nigerians bleach their skin smh...

We used to laugh at the naija chic that fell in love with my doozy because he's mixed race...

not light skinned but mixed race angry two different things, nigga! tongue

being a handsome mixed race Naija man is a luxury in Nigeria
my aunt is getting married 2 a half Nigerian and half german guy

she goes ard telling everyone, shes getting married to ``half cast`` grin

but the sad thing, most of the time Naija mixed race guys tend to marry mixed race Naija women
most of them grew up together in the mixed race Naija community

theres a Naija group called ``Niger wives`` for mixed race Naija kids that grew up together
theres lagos branch
abuja branch
calabar
portharcourt etc
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by Nobody: 2:19am On Nov 25, 2012
^^loool , i used to see everythin mixed race cute before, not the case anymore undecided
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 2:24am On Nov 25, 2012
onila:
not light skinned but mixed race angry two different things, nigga! tongue

being a handsome mixed race Naija man is a luxury in Nigeria
my aunt is getting married 2 a half Nigerian and half german guy

she goes ard telling everyone, shes getting married to ``half cast`` grin

but the sad thing, most of the time Naija mixed race guys tend to marry mixed race Naija women
most of them grew up together in the mixed race Naija community

theres a Naija group called ``Niger wives`` for mixed race Naija kids that grew up together
theres lagos branch
abuja branch
calabar
portharcourt etc

The bolded part is the Ni.gger syndrome smh...

Out here, mixed race and light-skinned nyggahs are basically the same people... grin

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by onila(f): 2:24am On Nov 25, 2012
Sybellah: ^^loool , i used to see everythin mixed race cute before, not the case anymore undecided

I still do

i still got love for my Nigeria mixed race guys tongue
fortunately i have access 2 them, I am gonna hook up with one of them soon tongue

but only Nigerian mixed race dudes tho not attracted to mixed race guys from other countries tongue I am racist like that
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by Nobody: 2:29am On Nov 25, 2012
onila:

I still do

i still got love for my Nigeria mixed race guys tongue
fortunately i have access 2 them, I am gonna hook up with one of them soon tongue

but only Nigerian mixed race dudes tho not attracted to mixed race guys from other countries tongue I am racist like that

between a not good lookin mixed guy and a black one, who will u date? grin both are rich like u like
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by onila(f): 2:32am On Nov 25, 2012
Sybellah:

between a not good lookin mixed guy and a black one, who will u date? grin both are rich like u like
the black man for sho cool

i no like wowo dudes
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 2:33am On Nov 25, 2012
I think tpia had the best comments on here.

As for shimmexx you are really blind, and have no idea what is going on in black womens head. Yea, they put out a front pretending they don't like white men but in reality they like white and lightskinned dudes just as much as we like white girls. (not me, o)

The only reason black women pretend they only like black dudes is because other races don't usually reciprocate their attraction. Now of course dudes like you are not gunna want to believe this because of your ego. You want to believe black women are these loyal chicks that only like us, but thats just not the case.

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by Nobody: 2:36am On Nov 25, 2012
onila: the black man for sho cool

i no like wowo dudes

lool
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by onila(f): 2:37am On Nov 25, 2012
pleep: I think tpia had the best comments on here.

As for shimmexx you are really blind, and have no idea what is going on in black womens head. Yea, they put out a front pretending they don't like white men but in reality they like white and lightskinned dudes just as much as we like white girls. (not me, o)

The only reason black women pretend they only like black dudes is because other races don't usually reciprocate their attraction. Now of course dudes like you are not gunna want to believe this because of your ego. You want to believe black women are these loyal chicks that only like us, but thats just not the case.

WRONG!

Black women aint attracted to WHITE MEN. .especially AA and caribbean women. I met white dudes who love black women that complain 2 me that black women dont like them

its only broke African ho`s in Africa that drool over white men

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 2:40am On Nov 25, 2012
onila: there is this indian man, my new housemate in my school apartment

always trying 2 flirt with me undecided touching my hair, touching my nose and all that crap

sometimes I just wanna push the brown nigga away angry

curry dude, i wldnt even f0ck u, even if you are related to donald trump
He lives in your dorm, or in your room? because that strange. Over here they have a girls floor then a guys floor ive never seen an actual co- ed room.

And BTW why do u let some random indian dude touch your hair and nose...they wouldn't even do that to their own women. half these dudes don't even respect black chicks
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 2:44am On Nov 25, 2012
onila:

WRONG!

Black women aint attracted to WHITE MEN. .especially AA and caribbean women. I met white dudes who love black women that complain 2 me that black women dont like them

its only broke African ho`s in Africa that drool over white men
Will you atleast admit that you like light skinned men? grin i don't want to snitch, but i have a light uncle who has literally 3 wives around the globe. black women fall all over this man
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by onila(f): 2:46am On Nov 25, 2012
pleep: He lives in your dorm, or in your room? because that strange. Over here they have a girls floor then a guys floor ive never seen an actual co- ed room.

And BTW why do u let some random indian dude touch your hair and nose...they wouldn't even do that to their own women. half these dudes don't even respect black chicks

its a university apartment not dorm
a little house that has 10 rooms for students. .many apartments like this in my school area

when I told him to stop it, he said I lack trust
that what hes doing is romantic and friendly and NOT sexua..l grin

I just try to respect him because hes an older guy
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by onila(f): 2:48am On Nov 25, 2012
pleep: Will you atleast admit that you like light skinned men? grin i don't want to snitch, but i have a light uncle who has literally 3 wives around the globe. black women fall all over this man

mixed race handsome Nigerian men yes but not really light skinned guys. .my preference

i especially dislike light skinned african men, I dont know why

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 2:55am On Nov 25, 2012
onila:

its a university apartment not dorm
a little house that has 10 rooms for students. .many apartments like this in my school area

when I told him to stop it, he said I lack trust
that what hes doing is romantic and friendly and NOT sexua..l grin

I just try to respect him because hes an older guy

poor onila tongue

onila:

mixed race handsome Nigerian men yes but not really light skinned guys. .my preference

i especially dislike light skinned african men, I dont know why
i can understand that
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by ektbear: 4:22am On Nov 25, 2012
Black women for the most part are ride or die chicks.

You can be wanted for murder and they won't abandon you.

This is one thing I love about them...extremely loyal.

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by tpia1: 4:23am On Nov 25, 2012
shymexx:

@ the bolded - perhaps that's why loads of successful black men always end up with white women, no??

by more sensitive to social standing and feedback, i mean white guys place more value on the surrounding input when it comes to relationships, than black guys.




However, I disagree with your assertion that: "white men are more driven to have achievements in other areas besides physical gratification." White men are natural womanizers... I can also argue that they have a higher sex drive than black men...

white guys have other interests as a whole, besides s.ex. Eg keeping an eye on the competition [china, etc].

black guys on average tend to elevate s.ex above everything else.

generally speaking.

a white guy can just get bored with s.ex- a black guy would jump through hoops before he'd say the same.


however, you can argue all these are the cumulative effect of not being a minority and so not under pressure.
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 4:53am On Nov 25, 2012
ekt_bear: Black women for the most part are ride or die chicks.

You can be wanted for murder and they won't abandon you.

This is one thing I love about them...extremely loyal.

+100000

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 4:57am On Nov 25, 2012
tpia1:
by more sensitive to social standing and feedback, i mean white guys place more value on the surrounding input when it comes to relationships, than black guys.

Laughable... grin I bet the trailer park trash and slum dwelling yobs who spend most of their time in pubs also do this smh...

white guys have other interests as a whole, besides s.ex. Eg keeping an eye on the competition [china, etc].

And they do this by getting white-boy-wasted every friday immediately after work, no?

Arguing with you is like arguing with a brick, you have low self-esteem issues... undecided

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 2:36pm On Nov 25, 2012
Lol tpia is right... Black men value se.x more than anything else, Everyone knows this. What other race do you see that looses all its money to baby mommas and child support? The majority of black athletes today end up broke because they waste all their money chasing women.

Just compare rich and powerful black men like Tiger Woods (kinda black) or MLK Jr. to Bill Gates or Donald Trump. The black dudes were both se.x maniacs.

And they do this by getting white-boy-wasted every friday immediately after work, no?

Arguing with you is like arguing with a brick, you have low self-esteem issues...
They do this by chasing money before a$$.
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 2:56pm On Nov 25, 2012
pleep: Lol tpia is right... Black men value se.x more than anything else, Everyone knows this. What other race do you see that looses all its money to baby mommas and child support? The majority of black athletes today end up broke because they waste all their money chasing women.

Just compare rich and powerful black men like Tiger Woods (kinda black) or MLK Jr. to Bill Gates or Donald Trump. The black dudes were both se.x maniacs.

Nah, compare Malcolm X, Michael Jordan, Bill Cosby, Denzel Washington etc. - to let's say: Bill Maher, Colin Farrell, Anthony Weiner, or Gen. David Petraeus. Perhaps, I can also argue that white guys are se.x maniacs using your simplistic point-of-view, no?? Maybe, I need to throw the racial demographics of most paedos in there as well Stop making blanket statements!

They do this by chasing money before a$$.

And black men don't chase money, no?? Just because some black men are careless during sex - thus, procreating at an alarming rate don't mean black men chase ar.se before money... Heck, we coined the phrase: "Money Over Bytches(M.O.B)." Most black men chase money before women, however, attraction and human se.xual instincts overrides that sometimes... But that doesn't negate the fact that we're natural born hustlers... Perhaps, you're making your assertion because we don't really have much to show for it... However, we've more to deal with naturally in the grand-scheme-of-things in the global world than any other race of men...

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 12:09am On Dec 14, 2012
Nah, compare Malcolm X, Michael Jordan, Bill Cosby, Denzel Washington etc. - to let's say: Bill Maher, Colin Farrell, Anthony Weiner, or Gen. David Petraeus. Perhaps, I can also argue that white guys are se.x maniacs using your simplistic point-of-view, no?? Maybe, I need to throw the racial demographics of most paedos in there as well Stop making blanket statements!
Compare that to the thousands of black college and pro athletes who year after year get their lives ruined chasing women. Its happens every friggin year dude! It has gotten so bad that they actually have classes teaching these men to be more carefull, yet they still get skrewed over. You dont see this happening to white men. (Its not all the black mens fault though, black females are much more predatory than other races of women)

But that is no excuse. If the famous examples aren't enough get this: 40% of black men in jail were put there by women/sex related issues; child support/alimony, domestic disturbances, restraining orders and another other huge chunk were indirectly put there because of women related isssues: killing another man over a girl, fighting to impress a girl, robbing to impress a girl etc. How is that 'putting money over bytches'? They only reason niggas even peruse money is to impress byches, throwing it all over the club like a fuckin coon

Black men are the thirstiest creatures on the planet, they see all the dangers of wanton sex yet they do it anyway!
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by shymexx(m): 2:27am On Dec 14, 2012
pleep: But that is no excuse. If the famous examples aren't enough get this: 40% of black men in jail were put there by women/sex related issues; child support/alimony, domestic disturbances, restraining orders and another other huge chunk were indirectly put there because of women related isssues: killing another man over a girl, fighting to impress a girl, robbing to impress a girl etc. How is that 'putting money over bytches'? They only reason niggas even peruse money is to impress byches, throwing it all over the club like a fuckin coon

Black men are the thirstiest creatures on the planet, they see all the dangers of wanton sex yet they do it anyway!

Basically every man out here regardless of race who strives everyday to achieve something in life, or lead a good life - does so either subconsciously or consciously for women... However, black people are more prone to crime to achieve this status due to their status/level in the society... When you give stats and make assertions always factor in the primary causes of whatever you want to base your assertion on... There are more poor black people out there than other races of people and when you put societal pressure into meeting the status quo into consideration - you'll see why most black people try their best possible to make ends meet by any means necessary...

But, black men aren't the thirstiest creatures on this planet and our sex drive isn't even as high as that of the average Caucasian...

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by Nobody: 1:58pm On Dec 15, 2012
ekt_bear: Black women for the most part are ride or die chicks.

You can be wanted for murder and they won't abandon you.

This is one thing I love about them...extremely loyal.

its because black men rule.
the world knows this. smiley

if i were to date a "non-black man"
he would at least have to have some in him. tongue but my preference is in black men.
The father of my future children, i pray, will be a black man. smiley

onila:

mixed race handsome Nigerian men yes but not really light skinned guys. .my preference

i especially dislike light skinned african men, I dont know why

lol

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Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by somalia9: 5:57am On Dec 16, 2012
shymexx: Personally, I agree with this write-up... I think black women(Somalis included) are the most loyal race of women on this planet - except for probably only Pakistani women(not Indians, Punjabi women love white men and they have colour problems/consciousness)...

We can also throw the assertion that most men of other races are not naturally attracted to black women in the mix..




LMAO AT THE BOLD

somali women would never give any nigerian, bantu, african america the chance of day. If you think somali women are loyal to black men, then why dont the thirsty nigerian men on nairaland who talk about somali women ever get a chance. lmao


you made my day with this quote.
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by morpheus24: 4:47pm On Dec 16, 2012
^^^^^

TROLL ALERT!!!
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 11:30pm On Dec 16, 2012
Warya you fool. He meant Somali women are loyal to their own race of of men. Meaning men from Somalia, not black american men

BTW i'm still wondering how somalia manages to get brought in every other topic on this site.
Re: Loyalty In Relationships: Are Black Women Too Loyal To Black Men by pleep(m): 11:41pm On Dec 16, 2012
shymexx:
But, black men aren't the thirstiest creatures on this planet and our sex drive isn't even as high as that of the average Caucasian...
seriously?

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