Please I need ur sincere advice: I'v been dating this girl for the past 2 months, her dad is a Bishop and her mom a pastor.
Am actualy her 1st love and have been in a hygenic relatnship with her (No sex).She's the kinda girl I want to settle down with,and that's the main reason why I haven't deflowered her till our wedding night.
The issue now is that: we made the relatnsp very obvious,we did pics together and uploaded on facebook, she used my pics as her dp on bbm. Her mom too is on facebook and bbm. she saw all but didn't comment,till she came to Nigeria few weeks ago.She still kept quite untill last 2weeks she ceased my gf's phone in the mid nyt. I and the girl are in same school,even tho we rarely see because she's in the medical school.Our communication now is very poor and am afraid that the luv might gradualy die.I luv the girl rly much cos she brought luck to me.She's indirectly blaming me for what happened,because her mom read our pings and series of sms I sent to her.
Pls wat advice can u give to me?!?
NB: she's tinking of getting another fon to use wenever she's in skl and probably drop it wenever she's going home on weekends.

Moderate pls make this front page!!! I need ppl's opinion badly!
Thanks

egbeman1: Moderate pls make this front page!!! I need ppl's opinion badly!
Thanks

Frontpage ko,back page ni,if this poo makes it to the frontpage,I wont visit nairaland till Dec 2,2013

Your gf is actually more sensible than you,she already solved your problem in the last sentence.


Actually this thread is just not necessary.

k2039: Your gf is actually more sensible than you,she already solved your problem in the last sentence.


Actually this thread is just not necessary.

Won't it look rude?!? Cos her mom will surely get to find out

k2039:

Frontpage ko,back page ni,if this poo makes it to the frontpage,I wont visit nairaland till Dec 2,2013

LMAO

Go buy her another phone

k2039:

Frontpage ko,back page ni,if this poo makes it to the frontpage,I wont visit nairaland till Dec 2,2013

me too!
By the fucck, either u or your girl are teenagers that shld be so discouraged from any serious committment. History has proven dt most end up leaving one of the party whom has actually falling in love with his/her head in a bad psychological state. That party end up failing in school, loose focus of initial vision and dreams, becomes rebellious to parents whom he/she has alwys respected, take rash detrimental decisions and so fuckin on!
It is apparent that the parents, sensing this will be the end has taken tragic measure to save their child before she's drawn into the psychological abyss that might leave a scar forever!
Get a life..,
my finance's parents will ask of me if i didn't show up in a month, mine will do so too. Wait for your time, you're definately doing this at the wrong time of your life!

She must be a teenager!

Toddler dating embryo...rubbish is I c dis shit @ d front page ehnn? Make I quiet first

Buy her a phone and use it to communicate with her. It's not that hard.

Bishop and Pastor you said?

Hygienic relationship you claimed

Were u both sexting? Cos just because u ain't physically pounced on the girl does not mean u ain't Pounced.

Anyhow I will be worried about the kind of prayer the mum is sending your way, you had better face your studies squarely.

what's the meaning of egbeman?

are you for real?

egbeman1: Moderate pls make this front page!!! I need ppl's opinion badly!
Thanks

Front what? Is like ur high on sometin. How can dis make d front page? If u posted sumtin lyk dis in 2005 definately it will make d front page, but dude dis is 2012!!

There should ßƺ age limit Ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̲̅ starting up topic here....The rate at which little children post gabbage here is really pissing ♏Ε̲̣̣̣̥ off. @OP ßƺ of age before Ɣ☺ΰ start any relationship.

egbeman1: Please I need ur sincere advice: I'v been dating this girl for the past 2 months, her dad is a Bishop and her mom a pastor.
Am actualy her 1st love and have been in a hygenic relatnship with her (No sex).She's the kinda girl I want to settle down with,and that's the main reason why I haven't deflowered her till our wedding night.
The issue now is that: we made the relatnsp very obvious,we did pics together and uploaded on facebook, she used my pics as her dp on bbm. Her mom too is on facebook and bbm. she saw all but didn't comment,till she came to Nigeria few weeks ago.She still kept quite untill last 2weeks she ceased my gf's phone in the mid nyt. I and the girl are in same school,even tho we rarely see because she's in the medical school.Our communication now is very poor and am afraid that the luv might gradualy die.I luv the girl rly much cos she brought luck to me.She's indirectly blaming me for what happened,because her mom read our pings and series of sms I sent to her.
Pls wat advice can u give to me?!?
NB: she's tinking of getting another fon to use wenever she's in skl and probably drop it wenever she's going home on weekends.

k2039: Your gf is actually more sensible than you,she already solved your problem in the last sentence.


Actually this thread is just not necessary.

Everyone go home. Thread over

Mynd_44:
Everyone go home. Thread over

Lmao

k2039:

Frontpage ko,back page ni,if this poo makes it to the frontpage,I wont visit nairaland till Dec 2,2013

Lmaooooo!!!!! SECONDED!!!!!!!!!
See the yeye boy o! The mother is trying to protect the daughter from your main-market english... "Hygenic relationship"..
Op face your studies, this tom-foolery will NEVER end in marriage. You are young and naïve. Wait till wedding night khoor! "U love her really much" ni!
Jeez! You really came on here expecting people to comfort and sympathize with your poor, love-filled heart. My friend go and read your books!

Pls someone help me ask dis idiota how old is d gal, cos for her mother to cease d phone shows she's a teenager,
Poster u had berra stop molesting our young teens, and it is ur type dat will go ranting dat dey are not virgins anymore, BOZO

If you claim to be in school & you cant spell "seize" then you definitely, absolutely and surely cannot date the girl.
No pun intended.

Chei.... See bashing!!. Leave the poor boy alone na, agbayas!.

Βουκέφαλος: Chei.... See bashing!!. Leave the poor boy alone na, agbayas!.

Abi o, agbayas dem. Leave the boy alone.
@OP, face your studies boy.

Βουκέφαλος: Chei.... See bashing!!. Leave the poor boy alone na, agbayas!.

He is lucky I did not send him a slap sef

We are doomed in naija,see so all of you here claiming to be adults cant give constructive advice without insulting or demoralizing the young poster.All of you spitting hullaboo thrash are why our country has lost its value system..mtchew boring adviserz

^^
And your point is?

Mynd_44: ^^
And your point is?

you are damn BORING MAN

Emzybrown:

you are damn BORING MAN

Okay. Sorry

KINGwax: me too!
By the fucck, either u or your girl are teenagers that shld be so discouraged from any serious committment. History has proven dt most end up leaving one of the party whom has actually falling in love with his/her head in a bad psychological state. That party end up failing in school, loose focus of initial vision and dreams, becomes rebellious to parents whom he/she has alwys respected, take rash detrimental decisions and so fuckin on!
It is apparent that the parents, sensing this will be the end has taken tragic measure to save their child before she's drawn into the psychological abyss that might leave a scar forever!
Get a life..,
my finance's parents will ask of me if i didn't show up in a month, mine will do so too. Wait for your time, you're definately doing this at the wrong time of your life!

sometime I just wonder what is wrong with some people... at age 22 sef I never dey reason I wan find girl... Yeah I admire them those days, but that is where it ends...

Only thing I want to ask is how old are u guys(u n ur girlfriend)? Ur story sounds like u guys are still infants...

hw old are u guyz? note dat wat will be will be

@ poster for her mom to seize her phone,it shows you guys are still teens or too young to date.at my age,i cant imagine any of my parents seizing my phone.the last time i saw my parents was during this xmas season and she has been pestering me to bring a man home or is anxious for me to have a guy and this is the same woman several years back that never wanted to see me with a guy or let any guy come and greet me at home.there wasnt even cell phone back then.the bottomline is that there is time for everything under the sun.for her mom to seize the phone,i can only imagine you both are teens or she is a teen moreso its natural for me to assume that going into a relationship without both parents approval and hapiness will do you more harm than good.i rememmber in my former place of work,i learnt that a 1oo level student of about 17 drank harpic because her boyfriend of 18 dumped her for another girl.many teens cant handle emotional issues,you dont see beyond the physical.i asked a teen girl why she loves or is dating the guy she is dating,you will hear because he is tall cute,drives a car,calls me everyday,takes me to mr biggs,i just know he loves me when he smiles at me.ask a boy of that same age you will not hear anything reasonable or substantial,you will hear,i love her hips,the way she walks,her voice,her complexion,shes so romantic and some ridiculous stuffs like that

Hi guys I've serious problem in my relationship. I Am A South African dating a Nigerian man who lives here in South Africa. Please Nigerian men help me understand how to be in a relationship with a man like him. He is very cultured, wants to be the man in the relationship sort of thing. South African men are very different from Nigerian men. I just want to know what to do to make this man happy because he means a lot to me and I live him very much. He doesn't seem to trust me and that's a huge problem. Any Nigerian man out there who can tell me what to do to make this man happy
I have trouble letting him talk about his problems and its affecting our relationship.
Any advice on how to be a great girlfriend and potential wife will be gladly appreciated.