A player is a sleek, smooth and supposed perfect guy. To the eyes and sometimes the mind he is the epitome of perfection, but if only you will listen to your brain, then you will discover that what stands before you is a certified player.
To him, his entire goal is to get you on your back not once but at least (3-4times).

In the mist of his friends he is an authority in the field of messing with peoples mind, in his mind every girl that have fallen for his subtle personality lives on like a trophy won by a football club.
So the question is how do you spot or identify a born player. Note: not every guy that fall in this category is confirmed player, but just be careful and let your brain work instead of your heart, players work on the heart and mind of their victims.

1- His weapon is his appearance and persona. Most times he is blessed with a body to die for, a lips to kill for. He is fully conscious of all these mouth-watering qualities, so he puts it to judicious use. Most players knows it all, in terms of how to look and what to wear at the right time. He is 90% conscious of how you see him from the outside, even though the real him has been covered up.
He knows the perfume that can shut down a train station, he doesn’t mind spending his last penny on very outrageous clothes, because most times that is what he uses to shield and camouflage who he really is. Not every guy that likes to dress well is a player though but most times players take it to another level. He could appear so cooperate, simple, hippy, rugged or creative, but just have it at the back of your mind that he could actually be a player.

2- Every player till date are good with words, they most times are smooth talkers. They know what you want to hear because you are not the first neither will you be the last. Their words are so convincing and reassuring; it could make you jump in front of a moving train without thinking. Quickly and swiftly like a 4G connection they appeal to your emotions, compassion and ideology.
They flow with time and they are never caught off guard. So be warned, most players are smooth talkers.

3- A player is so quick to use these words “I LOVE YOU”, “I WANT TO MARRY YOU”, “YOU ARE MY SOUL MATE”, “WITHOUT YOU I CAN’T CONCENTRATE”,”AM SORRY”, “IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN”, and so on. The ease at which they use these words makes any one fall so fast. With light speed.

4- They ooze out some unbelievable confidence. Sometimes you even think he is superhuman. He looks you deep in the eyes and lie to you. They hardly stutter or miss words, they are very good Hollywood actors. Just give them the script and they play any character of choice.

5- Most players are sociable; they thrive in the atmosphere of conviviality. They never get tired of meeting people, always looking for the next catch.

6- They use reserves psychology to the best of their abilities. They know every rule in the book, so that makes them an excellent choice; with ease they play the mind game.

7- A player would not want you to leave any of your things behind when you go visit. Even if you did, he will remind you and get it for you as quick as possible.

8- He will tell you to always call before you come over, they hate surprise visits.

9- A player’s home/room most times is always well arranged, like that of a presidential suite. You just find out that everything is in place. A player’s room is his altar, so he keeps it so clean, cosy and comfortable, it helps facilitate is quest for glory, if you know what i mean. But most of the ladies think otherwise. Some even fall in love at the sight of a beautiful room/house.

10- Most players are so protective over their sisters, and they love their mothers, surprisingly. Don’t mess with a player’s sister, he could kill you. Why, is because he sees every other guy that comes his sister’s way as a potential player. So watch out, even though it is good to watch over ones sister, but it gets annoying when you try to control her life.

11- Watch out, if he picks your call, he may not talk for long and he may not disclose to you his rightful location at that point. Their rule is, hide your location to foster you mission.


12- Check their contacts, they save phone numbers in a very funny way, a way no one else except them can decode. They hardly use full names to save numbers, especially female contacts. They are so careful with their phones, for you to handle it; they must be at sight to know what and what you are checking.

There are so many things that one can use to spot a player, like they say “NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD”. Also the more you see the less you know, the more you look for ultimate perfection, the quicker and easier you fall into the hands of a player.
ALWAYS REMEMBER NO MAN IS PERFECT, SO WHEN YOU SEE A SO CALLED PERFECT MAN, BE CAREFUL AND PUT YOUR SIXTH SENSE TO USE. Don’t say you never knew because that is no excuse..

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Op thanks and what a timely post.

Phew!

lovingsoul: A player is a sleek, smooth and supposed perfect guy. To the eyes and sometimes the mind he is the epitome of perfection, but if only you will listen to your brain, then you will discover that what stands before you is a certified player.
To him, his entire goal is to get you on your back not once but at least (3-4times).

In the mist of his friends he is an authority in the field of messing with peoples mind, in his mind every girl that have fallen for his subtle personality lives on like a trophy won by a football club.
So the question is how do you spot or identify a born player. Note: not every guy that fall in this category is confirmed player, but just be careful and let your brain work instead of your heart, players work on the heart and mind of their victims.

1- His weapon is his appearance and persona. Most times he is blessed with a body to die for, a lips to kill for. He is fully conscious of all these mouth-watering qualities, so he puts it to judicious use. Most players knows it all, in terms of how to look and what to wear at the right time. He is 90% conscious of how you see him from the outside, even though the real him has been covered up.
He knows the perfume that can shut down a train station, he doesn’t mind spending his last penny on very outrageous clothes, because most times that is what he uses to shield and camouflage who he really is. Not every guy that likes to dress well is a player though but most times players take it to another level. He could appear so cooperate, simple, hippy, rugged or creative, but just have it at the back of your mind that he could actually be a player.

2- Every player till date are good with words, they most times are smooth talkers. They know what you want to hear because you are not the first neither will you be the last. Their words are so convincing and reassuring; it could make you jump in front of a moving train without thinking. Quickly and swiftly like a 4G connection they appeal to your emotions, compassion and ideology.
They flow with time and they are never caught off guard. So be warned, most players are smooth talkers.

3- A player is so quick to use these words “I LOVE YOU”, “I WANT TO MARRY YOU”, “YOU ARE MY SOUL MATE”, “WITHOUT YOU I CAN’T CONCENTRATE”,”AM SORRY”, “IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN”, and so on. The ease at which they use these words makes any one fall so fast. With light speed.

4- They ooze out some unbelievable confidence. Sometimes you even think he is superhuman. He looks you deep in the eyes and lie to you. They hardly stutter or miss words, they are very good Hollywood actors. Just give them the script and they play any character of choice.

5- Most players are sociable; they thrive in the atmosphere of conviviality. They never get tired of meeting people, always looking for the next catch.

6- They use reserves psychology to the best of their abilities. They know every rule in the book, so that makes them an excellent choice; with ease they play the mind game.

7- A player would not want you to leave any of your things behind when you go visit. Even if you did, he will remind you and get it for you as quick as possible.

8- He will tell you to always call before you come over, they hate surprise visits.

9- A player’s home/room most times is always well arranged, like that of a presidential suite. You just find out that everything is in place. A player’s room is his altar, so he keeps it so clean, cosy and comfortable, it helps facilitate is quest for glory, if you know what i mean. But most of the ladies think otherwise. Some even fall in love at the sight of a beautiful room/house.

10- Most players are so protective over their sisters, and they love their mothers, surprisingly. Don’t mess with a player’s sister, he could kill you. Why, is because he sees every other guy that comes his sister’s way as a potential player. So watch out, even though it is good to watch over ones sister, but it gets annoying when you try to control her life.

11- Watch out, if he picks your call, he may not talk for long and he may not disclose to you his rightful location at that point. Their rule is, hide your location to foster you mission.


12- Check their contacts, they save phone numbers in a very funny way, a way no one else except them can decode. They hardly use full names to save numbers, especially female contacts. They are so careful with their phones, for you to handle it; they must be at sight to know what and what you are checking.

There are so many things that one can use to spot a player, like they say “NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD”. Also the more you see the less you know, the more you look for ultimate perfection, the quicker and easier you fall into the hands of a player.
ALWAYS REMEMBER NO MAN IS PERFECT, SO WHEN YOU SEE A SO CALLED PERFECT MAN, BE CAREFUL AND PUT YOUR SIXTH SENSE TO USE. Don’t say you never knew because that is no excuse..

bro why now? boohoo you should have at least waited for the festive period to be over now why spoil biz for us.

Op,quit hating! You c..ock blocker!!

treasureboy09:

bro why now? boohoo you should have at least waited for the festive period to be over now why spoil biz for us.

Lmao! for your mind now you be player abi? .

@op
nice piece.

cindyrella:

Lmao! for your mind now you be player abi? .

@op
nice piece.

When it's yours sis turn you will understand.

This post gat me thinking if am a player because am guilty of 70% of the characterestics above

Seriously!!! vhiz musn't go 2 d front page.W.T.F

Nice... I really love this... Reminds me of someone...

@Op, stop misleading others wit ur generalisation of ur personal opinion because I hav all dis qualities but not a PLAYER for once... discipline nd good upbringin differ!

@ Op: u're a liar! how to spot a player is this: it has buttons for play,fastforward,rewind,pause,record n stop.

It's no greater deal spotting players, except for the men holding the flag, and the one running on the pitch with a whistle and running away from the ball, all others who either kicked or stopped the ball are called players.
U see, so easy. What's d whole epistle for?

treasureboy09:

When it's yours sis turn you will understand.

Taaaaaa! abeg make i hear word joor!

@Op, you tried sha but no matter how much you reveal here, some girls will still fall for players, even some who read this.

Wait oo. What is a player?

Good to be wary of some of those, but I wouldn't necessarily call a guy with some of those characteristics a player.
Sometimes they can be so obvious, sometimes not.
Then again, that's why instincts exist.

Is this 'player' quality gender limited? Cos all i see is 'he','his','him'...plus am sure there are girls who play.at least 2 of female friends are certified players.

binger: Is this 'player' quality gender limited? Cos all i see is 'he','his','him'...plus am sure there are girls who play.at least 2 of female friends are certified players.

Start one for female players then

Mynd_44:
Start one for female players then

Not necessary.plus i don't have time to compose epistles.

binger: Not necessary.plus i don't have time to compose epistles.

Smart guy

Mynd_44:
Smart guy

Not smarter than u are*grins*

binger: Not smarter than u are*grins*

Huh?

Mynd_44:
Huh?

Ehh?

after reading this,i guess i was born a player.

while i agree with the lying and camouflage part. i don't agree with the looking good and having a nice apartment part. that a guy has a well polished apartment, drives a sleek car, or has a good dress sense does not make him a player.