I am a young lady of 37,and not yet married.Pls I want you to advice me on how to get a good man as a husband.

Describe yourself fully and honestly first. The good, the bad and the ugly. Then maybe you can get advice.

Ask from your pastor. Ur location

successbuilder: I am a young lady of 37,and not yet married.Pls I want you to advice me on how to get a good man as a husband.

young lady at 37?

coogar:

young lady at 37?

Anything wrong with that? Shes young, yes. Most people live past 80 these days. . She came for help, dont scare her away/

baby_123:

Anything wrong with that? Shes young, yes. Most people live past 80 these days. . She came for help, dont scare her away/

ok....i am also a young man @ 85 yrs

coogar:

ok....i am also a young man @ 85 yrs

Its all a thing of the mind. I seen on TV 80 something yr olds having 90 something yr old girlfriends.

If you have never dated or asked out by a guy, you certainly need a deliverance.

Though I doubt the authencity of your post.

k2039: If you have never dated or asked out by a guy, you certainly need a deliverance.

Though I doubt the authencity of your post.

why does she need deliverance? some women take their career seriously than to worry about men that would derail them. she's used her time judiciously to reach the zenith of her career and she's now ready for men - nothing wrong with that!

baby_123:
Its all a thing of the mind. I seen on TV 80 something yr olds having 90 something yr old girlfriends.

hahahahaha....i will have to pass!

Let's face it. Not every woman out there would get married. I know some couple above 40yrs who aren't. The bottom line is finding that great joy even without the man.

coogar:

why does she need deliverance? some women take their career seriously than to worry about men that would derail them. she's used her time judiciously to reach the zenith of her career and she's now ready for men - nothing wrong with that!



hahahahaha....i will have to pass!

I can tell you with all certainity that if she has never been approached by a guy in her life, then something is obviously wrong.

She needs to come out with her records, has she ever dated, has she ever been asked out by a guy, what is her definition of a husband(probabble he is looking for an ideal man that just doesnt exist) etc

@ op, i have these few points for u:
First of all, dont be desperate, if u are desperate, u may be blinded to settle for any man, which may be at d expense of your joy.

2ndly, be cool, calm and collected, dont because u want to marry, and start being anxious, through anxiety, u can not achieve anything.
Next, leave your age aside, be more friendly, more tolerant and more godly,all these, not for u to loose your confidence, but for u to maintain your peace and your posture.
Next, never compromise as regards d qualities u want in a man, if u do, u are putting ur everlasting happiness into jeopady.
Next, age is a matter of d mind, be young at heart, stop carrying and announcing your age, your priority for getting married should not be because u are of age, but should be because u find a man who can make u happy for d rest of your life, if u dont get your priority right, u are putting yourself into a big or a bigger risk.
Finally, what type of person are u? Are u loving, lovable, smart, intelligent, friendly, tolerant, disciplined yet humble?.......etc........ Work more on your person and d right man will be attracted to you, make yourself d good and d right woman to be with and d right and good man shall be attracted to u.
Goodluck!

@op we dont know how many boyfriends you have had in the past so we can know from which angle to tackle your problem.

Anyways,never lose hope. Get out from your closet and the good man will find you.

Your miracle is on the way.

Hope you arent one of the foul mouth ones here.

If so, desist or maybe you'll find someone who is also foul mouthed.

tpia1: Your miracle is on the way.

Hope you arent one of the foul mouth ones here.

If so, desist or maybe you'll find someone who is also foul mouthed.

^^see person wey dey preach...
Ironical!

successbuilder: I am a young lady of 37,and not yet married.Pls I want you to advice me on how to get a good man as a husband.

Ok, you have a second handle you are hiding- fair enough. I think we can help you begin to solve the problem with one basic question: Why do you think you are not married yet. Answer this and I think half of your problem is solved.

slimyem: ^^see person wey dey preach...
Ironical!

I think that is not a very nice comment. #Distasteful

slimyem: ^^see person wey dey preach...
Ironical!

And?

maclatunji:

I think that is not a very nice comment. #Distasteful

Have your fellow mod hide it if you're offended!

maclatunji:

I think that is not a very nice comment. #Distasteful

Is it a lie?
I also find it distasteful that she's advising one against the same thing she champions..

I know you've been spoiling for fight for a while now- you dont like being ignored, or maybe you want to be a mod.

So, pray tell, what are you blabbing and whining about ms foul mouth.

Yes, you know why you were hiding before but developed balls to post on the thread after you saw me.

tpia1: I know you've been spoiling for fight for a while now- you dont like being ignored, or maybe you want to be a mod.

So, pray tell, what are you blabbing and whining about ms foul mouth.

Yes, you know why you were hiding before but developed balls to post on the thread after you saw me.

Isn't the bolded your well-deserved title?
...or don't you want it no more?
Did the truth hurt too much?
I'm sorry,i didn't mean to hurt you ...i just couldn't look past the hypocrisy screaming in your post.
..and the rest of what you have up there is some funny nonsense..
swallow it!!

your grammar gets worse by the day.

what happened?

and what is "dont you want it no more?"

are you looking to impress visa officials or some mugu you have your eye on.



well, now we know what's going on with you, after this analysis.


i wanna wanna


better learn pidgin so you wont look so villagey.

tpia1:

Have your fellow mod hide it if you're offended!

Mac is a mod

Since when

Ujujoan:

Mac is a mod

Since when

Embarassingly,I am.

k2039:

I can tell you with all certainity that if she has never been approached by a guy in her life, then something is obviously wrong.

She needs to come out with her records, has she ever dated, has she ever been asked out by a guy, what is her definition of a husband(probabble he is looking for an ideal man that just doesnt exist) etc

of course, she would have been approached but she's too busy to listen to the drivel of those men......her record is clean...it must be very clean for her to think its possible to score at her age. do u want her or not?

maclatunji:

Embarassingly,I am.

No wonder . . . All you sabi sabi has finally paid off!

tpia1: your grammar gets worse by the day.

what happened?

and what is "dont you want it no more?"

are you looking to impress visa officials or some mugu you have your eye on.



well, now we know what's going on with you, after this analysis.


i wanna wanna


better learn pidgin so you wont look so villagey.

This is no grammar class and i just love my double negatives....so your comment on it is BLAH!
...and the rest of what you typed...BLAH!
Next time,don't try to remove the speck in someone else's eyes when you have one stuck in yours.
Goodday!

you live to post on nl,

i see!

good luck with your husband search, at least folks are aware now.

if your foul mouth is stuck with you for life, then i guess a foul mouth man will end up in your clutches.

birds of a feather, are foul mouthed together.

i just love my double negatives

i think you mean you want to be americana.

unfortunately, you still sound bush, something you need to work on.

tpia1:

i think you mean you want to be americana.

unfortunately, you still sound bush, something you need to work on.

BLAH!!!

This is really about the OP Tpia and Slimyem .