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Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by drlaykay(m): 10:59am On Dec 21, 2012 |
Just want to know if its proper to put on the clothes of a deceased sibling or friend. Hope it can't affect one psychologicaly? for the spiritual ones;hope it has no adverse effect on the person putting it on? |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Rapmaestro(m): 11:03am On Dec 21, 2012 |
me i cant wear it o........ My frnds nd families will grow old o nd urs too o as well as we too o.. Amen 4 Likes |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 11:33am On Dec 21, 2012 |
I can/can't |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 11:35am On Dec 21, 2012 |
Friend NO Sibling YES. |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by drlaykay(m): 11:59am On Dec 21, 2012 |
acidosis™:When can u? When can't u? |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by HumbledbYGrace(f): 12:12pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
I can,though not of siblings but I still put on ma moms stuff on In our culture the clothes must be worn till they wear off. 1 Like |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: I can,though not of siblings but I still put on ma moms stuff onLoL, what culture is that?? @op: It has no "spiritual" effect but could have psychological effect. No, I won't. It's just weird |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by HumbledbYGrace(f): 3:48pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Shollypopz:did u have to laugh out loud before u ask a question |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: did u have to laugh out loud before u ask a questionLoL...yes, I do. Moreover I won't laugh if I don't find ur statement funny or absurd |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by HumbledbYGrace(f): 4:42pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Shollypopz:not all of us r nigerian Nxa |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by ba7man(m): 7:35pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Personally, i can't do it....but some people no send u. The sibling or friend isn't deceased and they already draggin outfits wit them. Their passing away will only give em licence to raid their luggage. |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: not all of us r nigerian[size=13pt]Duh!![/size] That doesn't change anything or my question "What culture is that" doesn't in anyway show that I'm assuming you're form Nigeria. If u can't answer the question, just ignore my post and stop typing sh1t like an illiterate |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by ifyalways(f): 11:40pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Friend? NO way. Family? Yes! In igbo land, once a mother dies, her wrappers, Georges, trinkets etc are shared either between the daughters or handed over to the youngest/eldest/favorite girl. |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by drlaykay(m): 4:51am On Dec 22, 2012 |
ifyalways: Friend? NO way.Yeah!I understand.I tink in almost all cultures,d wearing of a deceased parent's clothes is encouraged(even normal reasoning permits it).but dnt u think its unreasonable wen its a brother's or sister's who died prematurely? |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by HumbledbYGrace(f): 6:48am On Dec 22, 2012 |
dr.laykay:It may depend on ur belief Shollypopz:Here we go again,if u don't know what I wrote there just ask the meaning but I don't mind being called an illitrate just to give u the pleasure of the insult. Iam sotho,from the basotho tribe |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by PAGAN9JA(m): 9:44am On Dec 22, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: It may depend on ur beliefHere we go again,if u don't know what I wrote there just ask the meaning but I don't mind being called an illitrate just to give u the pleasure of the insult. ah you are Sotho! what is your religion, if i may ask |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by ifyalways(f): 1:56pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
dr.laykay:who sets the standard for what can be defined as "reasonable" ? I bet there must be a reason for such actions. Some might argue that keeping and using personal effects of dead siblings keeps them closer to them, evergreen memories. I'd be very heartbroken personally to do so. I prefer total closure and that would entail burning or burying their personal effects. Each man to his convictions. |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Gboliwe: 7:12pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
It is a personal conviction act |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by HumbledbYGrace(f): 10:16pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
PAGAN 9JA:christian,born again christian |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by cheesekiss(f): 3:47pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
Chukwu ajukwa!!!!! Can't even imagine doing it |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
I can wear it |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by jimctu: 3:52pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
I would do it... |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by huninaija(f): 3:53pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
Only a mad person would put on the clothes of a deceased person whether friend or sibling! When i haven't even finished wearing my own cloth self i will now wear dead person's cloth! Na wa for this type of question sha! 1 Like |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Ndoz(m): 4:03pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
cheesekiss: Chukwu ajukwa!!!!! Can't even imagine doing itmumu na ur type do am pass |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
I can wear my sibling,but I pray none of them die now,or nearest future. For a friend,I don't wear my friend's stuff when alive,muchmore when dead. I don't pray for any of my friends to die,and all nairalanders too. 2 Likes |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Ndoz(m): 4:04pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
huni_naija: Only a mad person would put on the clothes of a deceased person whether friend or sibling! When i haven't even finished wearing my own cloth self i will now wear dead person's cloth! Na wa for this type of question sha!u talk sh1t its not funny |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by freecocoa(f): 4:07pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
I've not lost any close friend nor sibling and I don't pray to. I wear and use my late mum's stuff, her favorite wristwatch is mine now. |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
I still wear some of my late father's clothes. Its been some years since he passed. I miss him a lot. 1 Like |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by huninaija(f): 4:11pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
Ndoz: u talk sh1t its not funny Sharrap! |
Re: Can U Put On The Clothes Of A Deceased Sibling Or Friend? by slimyem: 4:18pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
I would never wear a friend's clothes dead or alive!! For family,maybe I can or betterstill give them out if i can't I wore my mums clothes after she was gone and i still use one or two of her wrappers.Doesn't affect closure in any way! |
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