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Am In Tears Avised Needed by globasalient: 10:13am On Dec 29, 2012
I got married 2010,I really love my wife and will do anytin for
Her and she loves me too with all her life,april 2011 I fell
Sick to a mysterious sickness everytin I ad worked for gone,
The sickness became too much pple were already given up,
Mention were ave not been too spent a lot she was always there
By myside I needed to b taken to my mother village she was
Pregnant and she had to go over to her parents place,still om
My sick bed she gave birth but lost one of the baby, whn I
Came back to lagos the sickness got worsen remebered that day
She held my hand and cried I shld not leave her.
EVerytime I reach a point of giving up d ghost her words echos
In my head and I fight again she bleeded for almst a year afetr
Given birth,she still stood by me times I ave this dreams telling
Me I won't make it and I kept tlling God he should spare my life
For my wife and son sake, I receive starnge calls tell me am I
Still alive all sort of strange tins but I kept fighting and
Praying to stay alive for d woman I love and today am getting better
Still holding on unto God but stroy turnd arund she aveing strange
Drms telling her she will die if she doesn't end d marriage and
Dat wht she wants to do now my life is crashing my marriage on d
Line and everyday I ask God wht my sin of been a good person I gave
Shoulder to everybody I wipe tears frm pple eyes I opened my hrt
To pple I gave to d detriment of myself I gave to pple dat needed
Help whether I knw u or not I paid pple skool fees today nobody
Is there to lean on nobody to wipe my tears and d only source of
Joy and happiness I ave abt to crash I might just ave to end it
All cos it too much for me.
Am in tears
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by Nobody: 11:23am On Dec 29, 2012
chai sry sir, really feeling sad for u but ur main focus shud be on ur health. like u said that u r getting better pls hold on until u fully get well then u can think of how to resolve ur wife's issue. it is well with u. life is a lesson and i belive that u hv learnt urs. never rely on anyone but ur God cos he is the source of our living et all.
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 29, 2012
What is medically wrong with you?
Seek Medical Intervention and know what is actually wrong before you know the solution.
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by Callotti: 12:58pm On Dec 29, 2012
What a difficult. . . . . . .

READ! cry

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Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by CrazyMan(m): 1:14pm On Dec 29, 2012
I'm really sorry for all you've gone through, and I wish you a speedy recovery.

However one doesn't just wake up and starts threatening her husband with divorce just because of a dream she had.

Recover fully, and then ask her why the sudden change in attitude. Cos I see no reason why a woman who loved you so much that she lost a child in the process and bleed for about a year on your behalf would be advocating a divorce.

Something is wrong somewhere.
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by dlight1(m): 1:30pm On Dec 29, 2012
I really sympathize with you but I think at this point all you need to do is to keep trusting God for quick recovery because the bottomline of what you are facing currently has to do with fallen health. Keep trusting God in prayer and he'll definitely see you through
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 29, 2012
Oga you no tell us wetin dey sick you.meanwhile get a medical attention first,save your life and leave your wife matter for now abeg!
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by 2goodbobo(m): 2:43pm On Dec 29, 2012
Believe in God and be prayerful. He alone can wipe away your tears. Just have faith cos with Faith, impossible is nothing.

What you are going through now is just a phase. Is a bend and not the end. Keep praying for God to touch her and also heal you. It shall be well with you bro.
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by chromoTop: 2:52pm On Dec 29, 2012
man u're gone!
You still had the energy to post on this forum.
undecided
Get up and move on (if your story is true), otherwise park well, naija is already overpopulated. cool
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by 2goodbobo(m): 4:04pm On Dec 29, 2012
chromoTop: man u're gone!
You still had the energy to post on this forum.
undecided
Get up and move on (if your story is true), otherwise park well, naija is already overpopulated. cool

How will you feel if someone speaks like this to you? Your comment is so so unfair considering what the OP is going through.

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Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by aadetoyin(f): 5:23pm On Dec 29, 2012
Ur story was very difficult to read but rather touching. Try to focus on ur health and retrace ur steps to God because he is the only one that can save. U also need to find out the nature of ur sickness because there are times when we mistake medical conditions for spiritual. So be sure of the nature of sickness and try to get well.
Na person wey dey alive fit work out him marriage Ooº°˚ ˚°ºoo
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by allout: 8:59pm On Dec 29, 2012
Hmmmmn! The story got confusing along the line but I surmised that your loving wife is also getting fed up of your situation, quite pathetic! Well, you got your life to live, at least for your child. Enough of the pity party, focus on God. He does miracles by the second. Holdfast to your faith and let him lead you.

Whenever sickness is termed mysterious (and you've exploited all medical avenues) you know you're in a battle with principalities, its God that can salvage you as it is.
Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by donchris369: 9:04pm On Dec 29, 2012
chromoTop: man u're gone!
You still had the energy to post on this forum.
undecided
Get up and move on (if your story is true), otherwise park well, naija is already overpopulated. cool

God! Are people these mean? Is this what you can advise him, to park well that naija is overpopulated. Hmmmmmmmm. You need to beg God forgivenes cos i strongly believe that you have been killing people in these country because of your stupid reason of overpopulation. You must be a yoruba man i guess. Your damn wicked and need help asap

@ TOPIC: Please leave your wife for now and try to face you health issues. Dont add emotional trauma to what you are going through, it wont help. May almighty GOD heal you in jesus name. Amen

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Re: Am In Tears Avised Needed by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 29, 2012
donchris369:

God! Are people these mean? Is this what you can advise him, to park well that naija is overpopulated. Hmmmmmmmm. You need to beg God forgivenes cos i strongly believe that you have been killing people in these country because of your stupid reason of overpopulation. You must be a yoruba man i guess. Your damn wicked and need help asap

@ TOPIC: Please leave your wife for now and try to face you health issues. Dont add emotional trauma to what you are going through, it wont help. May almighty GOD heal you in jesus name. Amen

Pot calling kettle black. How dare you tribalize the issue by asserting the the guy must be Yoruba? Has any Yoruba killed any of your family member?

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