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Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:18am On Jan 05, 2013 |
1. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement. 2. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage. 3. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home- keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life? 4. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady. 5. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn't want you to marry before them or to marry the best man? 6. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself? There is no gainsay that some guyz are just difficult to please. Every rule has its exceptions. Be decent, be modest. Men love Simplicity and Sincerity. Boys love Flambouyance and Extravegance. Don't be gullible by the foreign culture on the media. Be a Lady that attracts Men,not Boys. |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Nobody: 11:23am On Jan 05, 2013 |
u tried in ur points. But 'most ladies' end up single cuz they thot their flower wil continue to blossom forever, so, when their man annoy them d dnt try to hold on 2d r/ship or beg him but easily move 2anoda one. B4 she realize it, shez already 36 n single. They're d type dat say, i cant do this n that because of a man. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:55am On Jan 05, 2013 |
mawojuuche: u tried in ur points. But 'most ladies' end up single cuz they thot their flower wil continue to blossom forever, so, when their man annoy them d dnt try to hold on 2d r/ship or beg him but easily move 2anoda one. B4 she realize it, shez already 36 n single. They're d type dat say, i cant do this n that because of a man. Once a single lady enters her early 30's, she becomes desperate to get married and have kids and at this stage, she's ready to get married to anyone whether poor or old, rich or young....... 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by seunfly: 2:25pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Most ladies also remain single because the get lost in mist of trending event, this is what other girls do which i must also do. |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by True2myself24(f): 2:27pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Mmm a topic that just won't go away. |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by xynerise: 2:46pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:she got me with this. . Simple and humble |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Numbers 3 and 4 are the most realistic of them all...if only ladies would avoid those, there won't be spinsters at age 30. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by mushona(f): 6:24pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
most ladies remain single because statistically there are more women than men in the world. Therefore we cannot all end up married. As I read through that ridiculous list I almost peed myself laughing. Its so chauvinistic its unbelievable. As a married woman I say men marry women with whom they are compatible. Her taste or lack there of of make-up is hardly a make or break deal. You say nothing of character. Your whole list is superficial stuff. Your topic should be called " MY PERSONAL REASONS FOR NOT MARRYING SOME WOMEN" 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 7:52pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
mushona: most ladies remain single because statistically there are more women than men in the world. Therefore we cannot all end up married. As I read through that ridiculous list I almost peed myself laughing. Its so chauvinistic its unbelievable. As a married woman I say men marry women with whom they are compatible. Her taste or lack there of of make-up is hardly a make or break deal. You say nothing of character. Your whole list is superficial stuff. Your topic should be called " MY PERSONAL REASONS FOR NOT MARRYING SOME WOMEN" How do you prove your statistics of the number of women greater than men? |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 8:19pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
True2myself24: Mmm a topic that just won't go away. Because we want all our beautiful ladies to get married....... We care! |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by alfredo4u(m): 9:11pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
They end up single becos dey end up single |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by True2myself24(f): 10:01pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: Mmm hmm sure 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by tpia5: 10:10pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: True that! But some of them arent ready to get a husband although they say they want one. |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:48pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
tpia@: True! And that's why we need to educate our ladies especially the younger ones so they won't make mistakes..... |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by tpia5: 11:05pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Hmm, would be nice but unfortunately in this life, making mistakes is easier than not making them. |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
In addition to no.3 Keep your body for your husband... Your body is not a sex machine... Sex is not a necessity before marriage.. absence of food and water can kill but abstinence from sex can not. Do not cross your horizontal line of confidence by trading your body for currency..! Wait for your husband! |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:28pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
acidosis™: My brother, sex after marriage is outdated! Its very rare you see a relationship where sex is absent 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:yup....true but sex after marriage is not outdated! we are only trying to cover our evil acts with sweet words |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:43pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
acidosis™: Yeah but we have to face reality! Every guy wants to taste his package before purchasing!! Can you be in a relationship without having sex acidosis? In a world where general level of sexual libido is at a high rate...... |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Nobody: 12:05am On Jan 06, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: I don't need to taste a package before purchasing. The only thing you can taste in the market without purchasing is g a r r i. Been in a relationship is not the main reason people have s£x, familiarity/closeness is! If I lock you in a room for a duration of 3 weeks with a sick 'dirty' ugly girl... I tell you bro, you'll sleep with her. can you sustain a relationship with sex? no! commitment, trust and love are the key for a lasting relationship. Morever, most guys sleep with their gfs cos they feel her ex did same countless times... Ever wondered why most guys keep their virgin babes till marriage? |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 12:11am On Jan 06, 2013 |
acidosis™: I wouldn't prefer to be with a virgin either.... My honest opinion! |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Nobody: 12:16am On Jan 06, 2013 |
Stop giving your number to every "Joystick" and Harry? |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by MrsChima(f): 12:20am On Jan 06, 2013 |
I taya. Smh. |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 12:22am On Jan 06, 2013 |
HQ: Stop giving your number to every "Joystick" and Harry? Its meant to be "every dickkk and Harry" all thanks to Nairaland censorship system |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 12:23am On Jan 06, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: Hmmmm..... My sweetheart, happy new year! I miss you!! |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by mushona(f): 7:15am On Jan 07, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: http://www.indexmundi.com/world/demographics_profile.html among many other studies!!!! familiarize yourself with what happens around the world |
Re: Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:25am On Jan 07, 2013 |
mushona: Wow! Then Men all over the world should be having more than one wife! |
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