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Must Read For Ladies!!! How To Tell If A Guy Loves You by bjstardom(m): 7:58pm On Jan 05, 2013
How to Tell If a Guy Likes You.
It can be really confusing (and at times
just plain annoying) to tell if a guy likes
you or not. One moment he treats you
like a princess, the next moment he
pretends you don't even exist. So, are
there some signs that can help you
know if he really is interested? Of course!
Here they are!
We've all heard about the sparkle in the
eye and the magical smile and the rest
of the clichés that claim to be
guaranteed ways to find out if a guy
likes you. But do these actually work?
Well, yes and no. While some guys are
forthright and may easily admit that
they like a girl, some guys keep their
feelings to themselves for quite some
time before they make them known.
These guys however, do exhibit some
telltale signs that they're interested in
you. These signals, though not sure-shot
ways of identifying if a guy likes you or
not, will definitely provide you some
hints in the direction. So girls, keep your
eyes and minds open. If he's doing a
majority of the things mentioned below,
chances are he likes you but is waiting
for you to make the first move.
The Omnipresent
He has eyes only for you
He has eyes only for you!
He will always be exceptionally glad to
see you, wherever, whenever. He'll give
you a huge smile that will reach his eyes
when he sees you.
He'll touch your arm, or even put his arm
around you.
He'll lean towards you while having a
conversation.
Even when you are in a group, he will
face you and sit or stand.
No matter how many people are present
you will have all his attention.
He'll put his arm on the back or the arm
of the chair that you're sitting on.
He'll always want to hug you when he
meets you.
No guy can ever disguise his feelings if
you look him straight in the eye. If he
likes you, he will always try to make eye
contact with you.
A rather shy guy might look away if you
catch him looking at you.
If he's the playful and mischievous kind,
he might even sneak in a wink or two
when you look at him.
The Perfect Gentleman
He's always glad to see you
He's always glad to see you!
When a guy likes a girl, he's generally at
his best behavior around her.
Chivalry is not dead girls. If he likes you
he will open the door for you and hold
out your chair if you go out.
He will pay or insist on paying if the two
of you go out.
He will try to refrain from using any kind
of profanity and swearing at anyone/­
anything when he's around you.
He will be protective about you and will
look out for you while walking.
He will hold your hand while crossing the
road and will most probably stand up
when you enter the room.
The Avid Listener
He pays attention to what you like and
dislike
He pays attention to what you like!
Girls only think guys don't listen to
them. Trust me, if a guy likes you, he
will make sure he pays attention to
every word that comes out of your
mouth.
He will keep in mind what you like and
what you don't.
He will bring you what you like and steer
away from things you don't, even if he
may like them himself.
In fact he may even say that he likes
something that you like (even if he
doesn't) just so you both have
something to talk about.
He will take interest in the things you do
and talk about. He will watch the shows
and movies you watch, he'll sing the
songs you sing, he'll read the books you
read.
The Shoulder to Cry On
He'll be there for you
He's always there for you!
As much as guys deny it, they're all
suckers for a damsel in distress. It's a
chance to protect, soothe, and be the
shoulder to cry on. And if it's a girl they
like, then nothing can stop them.
If he likes you, he will drop everything
and rush to you if you need anything.
Time and distance become mere
numbers. He will come to help you out
whether it's just a flat tire or an accident.
If you ask him for something, he'll make
it a point to get it for you, whether it is
easy for him or not.
The Attention Seeker
He's nice, even to your pet
He's extra nice, even to your pet!
The guy will go out of his way to
entertain you. He will want to make you
laugh.
When in a group, he will try to grab your
attention by cracking a joke or passing a
silly comment.
He has to show how much importance
your opinion has in his life, so he will ask
for your opinion about every little thing,
be it what tie to buy or what car.
If he has a problem, he will come to you
for a solution, whether you may be able
to help him or not.
One of the most common tactics (for lack
of a better word) that he will employ to
gain your attention is shower you with
compliments. Whether you think they're
true or not, you can be sure that if he
likes you, it's a sincere one, no matter
how offhand or random.
Some guys may even resort to being
playful and tease the girl that they like.
He may irritate you just so he can make
it up to you by giving you something
that you like (and they say women's
minds work in devious ways).
The Honest Companion:
Gives you random compliments
He gives you totally random
compliments!
He is himself when you are around,
which means he is really comfortable
with you.
He truly appreciates the good in you and
subtly hints at the not-so-good.
He celebrates his achievements with you
and comes to you for encouragement
when he feels dejected.
He supports you and encourages you in
every important task you undertake.
He shares his deepest desires and
darkest fears with you.
So, if the guy on your mind is giving you
these signals, and you have feelings for
him too, what are you waiting for? Go
ahead and make his life easier by just
telling him you how you feel. On a
parting note, bear in mind that while
these are the signs that most guys give
when they like a girl, they might not
hold true for every guy because
everyone handles their emotions in a
different manner.
Re: Must Read For Ladies!!! How To Tell If A Guy Loves You by UjSizzle(f): 9:22pm On Jan 05, 2013
How to tell if a guy 'likes' you.

Pretty much obvious signs except the one where he constantly gets on your nerves...pity he gets himself hated most times.
Re: Must Read For Ladies!!! How To Tell If A Guy Loves You by bjstardom(m): 9:32pm On Jan 05, 2013
Dondav: Question: Does the BJ in your name stand for BL0W J0B?
My own BJ means Bolaji (Rise up with wealth)
Re: Must Read For Ladies!!! How To Tell If A Guy Loves You by Kyle1(m): 9:37pm On Jan 05, 2013
All this 'rumors' u are spreading will still make them oblivious of a guy's true feelings towards them...why? They forget easily
Re: Must Read For Ladies!!! How To Tell If A Guy Loves You by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jan 05, 2013
Dondav: Question: Does the BJ in your name stand for BL0W J0B?
lmao!

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