give him obo and more obo daily - he'll forget.

can we know the content of the text message?

dont deceive us ok, all na lie. you are actually cheating on the guy

I wanted to send to my old friend but ended up sending it to,
Why do girls cheat & beg?

haywhy:

I wanted to send to my old friend but ended up sending it to,
Why do girls cheat & beg?

well does dis applied to girls only? becos boys sucks and cheat as well. so what differences does your post make, no sense at allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll.

something is not right here,this dosent just happen ,i dont think you are bein entirely truthful here,tell us the truth and we will be able to give you the best advice. where you thinking about the other guy dont worry it was a mistake abi.Keep o begging your boyfriend no one likes to stay heartbroken for long,sooner or later he will swing,your way or the other way,

First of all, shit happens, i dont see the big deal, guys send me lady sexually explicit messages and ladies send me the same, we look at it and laugh abt it, u should trust each other, shit happens

My dear girl, u should be labelled ''asewo'' . Why on earth must u do a thing like that? Pls keep on peading with ur Hubby to 4ive u or read th whole ''psalm '' on him.

If he forgives u, pls don't repeat such attitude again.

Olu-hak

eeya, try and approach him when he is in a good mood and sort thing out with him.just keep trying

Hey, Take That, ever heard the saying "Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive."?  Sounds to me that you've weaved one hell of a tangled web.  You got exactly what you deserve.  I just hope ur man--oops!  I mean ex-man--realizes that u are nothing but a cheat.  You said that u were hoping that the guy u sent the message to was going to flow with it so u could see how far it would go.  The question here is, just how far were YOU going to take it?  Seems to me that you were going to take it pretty far, if not all the way.  You're not sorry for what u did, ur sorry that u got caught.  Women such as yourself are the very reason that men such as myself--GOOD  MEN--find it hard to trust women.  I just hope that ur man, ex-man, sticks to his guns and moves on with his life.  By the way, Take That, u still haven't come clean and divulged what was in the text mexxage.

Were u cheating

@ poster

Please can u complet the story? what was written in the text?

girl u did nt tell us d kind of msg u sent, all d same no rush d guy am sure he must be really hurt.

Dis sounds too much of a coincidence 2 b true. Really how cld u possibly have drafted a "compromising" text 2 a friend and end up sending it 2 a guy of whom ur guy already suspects u of? 4 goodness sake u can only accidentally send a text 2 a number u frequently text. So d question is dis, why r u keeping such close contact wit a guy dat ur guy is suspicious of 2 d point dat u can accidentally send him a text message.

Pikin! Tell us the truth of the matter abegii.
So many experienced profs are in d house to help you. Your solution lies here waiting for you to say the right words wey go bring am out.
Waiting for your hidden truth

Una still dey wait for reply after 1 year?

WELL THE TEXT MESSAGE ISN'T BAD THOE BUT I THINK IF YOU NEED ADVICE EMAIL ME SO WE CAN TALK BETTER: SIDDON005@YAHOO.COM

Takethat, be careful, i am a man, ur explaination has contradicted itself 'intend sending to old friend and sent to one ur guy has been suspecting'

A man like me, such explaination worsing the case.

How truthful is this?

God will see u through according to ur honesty.

@twinstaiye
datz no gud way to live yur lyf o.tellin u d truth.if yu live yur life lyk dat,no relationship wud work.watz d sneak to do thingy about?mehn,dat lame.u nid to trust ur partner.it is d bedrock of a relationship.witout it,den am sori.nuttin can work.remember NOT EVERYONE CHEATS!!!maybe only u.

@poster
tell us the real truth(if yu are actually sayin a lie),so we knw how best we can advice yu.itz hapund to me before.i sent a mssg to ma boi instead of ma friend.ma boi laffd about it.he was lyk am obsessed.anywayz,urs is different man.jst be patient.si if it workz out.

@ takethat.

I strongly believe that you are cheating on your man. Well, it's your life and you've got to lead it the way you like. I really don't believe that crap of a story you got there. For your man to take the issue that serious, it simply means that he's got a good reason to suspect you. Perhaps he's caught you before.

Well, just pray he comes around, and if he doesn't, life goes on. Could you please tell us the context of the message please? This will throw more light on the issue.

Am sorry if am accusing wrongly. I just have to say it the way I feel.

Some story, though incredulous and 2 good to be true, i beleive u. Thats sometimes d case.

My inference
There's no activity in ur relationship with this guy, dats the reason for d suspicion and u looking elsewhere to harmlessly pep it up. Maybe u lik exchanging nasty sms. best advice do it with ur boo. Doing things 2 gether cements d bridges of relationship. its like u dont have anything in common cos if u pple share similar interest u will really get 2 busy 4 this kind of mistake.

Solution: If u cannot erase the doubt just know dat the relationship is doomed. My girl try but if e no work
send anoda nasty sms by mistake to , u sabi now

Q-Dog:

Hey, Take That, ever heard the saying "Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive."? Sounds to me that you've weaved one hell of a tangled web. You got exactly what you deserve. I just hope your man--oops! I mean ex-man--realizes that u are nothing but a cheat. You said that u were hoping that the guy u sent the message to was going to flow with it so u could see how far it would go. The question here is, just how far were YOU going to take it? Seems to me that you were going to take it pretty far, if not all the way. You're not sorry for what u did, your sorry that u got caught. Women such as yourself are the very reason that men such as myself--GOOD MEN--find it hard to trust women. I just hope that your man, ex-man, sticks to his guns and moves on with his life. By the way, Take That, u still haven't come clean and divulged what was in the text mexxage.

"Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive."? Er, is that Shakespeare??

How could you mistakenly send a message meant for another friend to a guy that your man has always suspect you with, haba, that dont add up, it is either what your man has been thinking is true, or you just playing your man and a playa got played, so apologize, but be real with yourself.

Well u can do what men do and blame him for looking in ur phone in the first place. Other than that what can i say? Ur on ur own, u did this too urself. Theres no way i would send any man a nasty message if i have a man already. What kind of old friend is this? Something is fishy here.

If youre in a relationship, I honestly dont see why you had to send a "suspected" guy, a nasty SMS. And of course most of us naija guys have
a degree of curiousity, he checked ur fone and saw,
Well sha, if ur story is true, just try gaining back his trust.

You can't eat your cake and have it.

if i were your boyfriend i will make you suspect me of cheating with another girl and send nasty SMS to her. then tell you all the nonsense you told him as your excuse.

i wonder what you would have done if you were in his shoes. will you believe him? be sincere

do you the psychologist SIGMUND FREUD? he talked a lot about slip of tongue and Little mistakes like this, that is if you are telling the truth. according to him, the mistake implies that you have been thinking of him somewhere in your mind, or you are really cheating on your boyfriend as he suspects.

be honest with yourself and all will b well with you.

You can't bambooze us on Nairaland. You mean a text message meant for your friends will be an issue with your man? Is the content of the text the issue or just who you sent it to? And you made no mistake sending credit to the man from your phone. You need to face public hearing b4 you say the truth.

@poster

was it a slip of finger that made u send the text to some other person

Say the truth and let the devil be ashame, Forgive your self first and accept full responsibility,may my guy will forgive you later. There is no true love any way.

You need a lawyer to pull this trick off!!(convincing him you ain't screwing someone else)

Jst keep on apologizing and believing he is going to have a change of mind if
he still loves u,but the truth remains that u'r not honest to him,because
if u were,there will be no room 4 nasty text to a friend not to talk of the one
he has been suspecting u with'
HOW NASTY IS THE TEXT?

Try this, Put yourself in his shoes!is the story that believable? Guess not!