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15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 7:44pm On Jan 07, 2013
1) If you believe strongly that you must always
have the last say in an argument, you’re not ready
for marriage.
2) If you don’t like anyone invading your space,
you’re not ready.
3) If you’re a lady, and you don’t cook or don’t like
to, your marriage is not likely to be easy or funny.
4) If you always say things exactly how they come
to your mind not caring who is hurt, you’re headed
for a rocky and ultimately likely to crash marriage.
5) If you believe that you’re who you are and no
one can change that, you’re not ready.
6) If you think about others only when you’ve fully
sorted yourself out, you’re not ready.
7) If you are so good at holding a grudge and you’ll
only let go when you feel like, stay unmarried.
8 If you’re a man and you’re not engaged in
ventures or a process in time that can financially
take care of your immediate family and beyond,
you need to give yourself a few more years to be
ready.
9) If you believe that women at best should be
good in bed and kitchen affairs only, you’ll end up
having a bitter and subdued wife; stay away.
10) If your mind can’t conceive the thought of
having a more successful wife, even if it’s
temporary, then you have a little growing up to do.
Welcome to the real world, stuff happens.
11) If as a man, you’re easily swayed and
pressurized to do things against your wish, you’re
not ready for marriage.
12) If you have no confidence in your capability
and your future, you have no business taking
someone else with you.
13) If as a man, you don’t have a mentor or leader
you follow, listen or defer to, you’re not going to be
able to lead your family.
14) If you can’t have a wedding ceremony within a
budget you can personally afford, give yourself
more time. Who says you can’t have 20 guests or
less at your wedding? Cut your coat according to
your cloth and take responsibility. As a man, you
can define how small or large you want your
wedding ceremony to be and be able to handle it.
15) If you have an anger problem such that you
can destroy things when you’re angry, get a
therapist to help you through managing it.
Otherwise, engage God’s help for the change you
seek. With anger issues, you’re disaster waiting to
explode.

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Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by oseiwe(m): 8:04pm On Jan 07, 2013
It brings us to dsame prob, wat prompts pple to marry?
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Burger01(m): 8:10pm On Jan 07, 2013
With this (smh) I still have a lonnng way to go.. Hmmm I pity my parents..
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 8:10pm On Jan 07, 2013
oseiwe: It brings us to dsame prob, wat prompts pple to marry?

Which kind question be this na? You wan become father??
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 8:13pm On Jan 07, 2013
Burger01: With this (smh) I still have a lonnng way to go.. Hmmm I pity my parents..

Our parents time don pass....... We are the leaders of tomorrow
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jan 07, 2013
Ijele-igbo:


Hahahahahahaha....... Acidosis where you get this ya statistics? Na lie ohhhh!
Every NL girl wants to get married and be a mother!!
If I'm wrong let all ma single ladies prove me so

broda, it is evident in their numerous posts... the matter tire me sef...
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Adaeze003(f): 8:24pm On Jan 07, 2013
16. If you're a feminist you aint ready wink
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 8:30pm On Jan 07, 2013
acidosis™:


broda, it is evident in their numerous posts... the matter tire me sef...

No think am ma guy! If you got a source of income and live alone, you're all good to engage any NL chick and with speed she go respond "I do"
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:34pm On Jan 07, 2013
@ No. 14. Plan a moderate wedding else, you ll still be paying loans months after your wedding.
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 8:47pm On Jan 07, 2013
Adaeze003: 16. If you're a feminist you aint ready wink

undecided *coughs* emmm.... Ada baby, please discuss more on your comment
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 8:49pm On Jan 07, 2013
Okiki_Oluwa: @ No. 14. Plan a moderate wedding else, you ll still be paying loans months after your wedding.

Brother, wedding na one day things but marriage na long tin!
You're on point!!!
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by oseiwe(m): 9:13pm On Jan 07, 2013
Ijele-igbo:


Which kind question be this na? You wan become father??
I still dey fine tune. I'm ready for marriage sha, honeymoon has been planned, wedding date is yet to be fixed cos I'm still searching.
Ur list is incomplete by d way.
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 9:38pm On Jan 07, 2013
oseiwe:
I still dey fine tune. I'm ready for marriage sha, honeymoon has been planned, wedding date is yet to be fixed cos I'm still searching.
Ur list is incomplete by d way.

Your contributions to make the list complete will be highly appreciated
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Enegod(m): 10:31pm On Jan 07, 2013
Guys,If you find your missing rib and there is love&compatibility,marry her!
Re: 15 Ways To Find Out If You Are Ready For Marriage by Ijeleigbo(m): 5:24pm On Jan 08, 2013
Enegod: Guys,If you find your missing rib and there is love&compatibility,marry her!

Word!

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