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Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by baby124: 11:27am On Jan 10, 2013 |
bootstrap:Lol, and he talks about maturity! Pfft! Teacher, read book first before you try to teach something you are clueless about. You came out swinging, I swung back. Now you are trying to talk like a decent person. I have what I need and it has come to me. Do you? |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 10, 2013 |
Now lets go on with the discussion"STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN"....EVERYONE LETS DO THIS. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by baby124: 11:32am On Jan 10, 2013 |
Kzinne: wit d way u hav disgraced urself wit ur ignorant and distasteful posts, u shudn't b proud- u shud bow ur head in shame Disgraced myself how? Is there a crown for pretence or most eligible? You think I live to impress anyone?Little girl, you are still on the market. I know you are trying hard to get a husband. With the way you lost your mind, that is highly unlikely. You have tarnished your image you work so hard to build here. When are you going to enter the bush you came out of. Looney tart. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by bootstrap(m): 11:35am On Jan 10, 2013 |
debrief08: What is wrong with some of you? i do agree with u that every one is entitled to his or her opinion and that pples parents and villages shld neva be involved in augments and even quarrels. But... a wrong stand/opinion, tho the person airing it is entitled to it, doesnt stop it from being wrong. Nairaland is beginning to loose its sense of what is right. hw wld it not, when smone comes here to justify insulting ur spouse bcoz he "misbehaves or is possessed"? its akin to justifying a man beating d wife bcoz she insulted him, or justifying rape.... bcoz d girl is dressed indecently. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by shine12: 11:35am On Jan 10, 2013 |
I've been reading and following the comments of everyone from page 1 to page 3.Without been sentimental, baby_123 appears as someone who thinks she knows it all. Also, an African woman has never represented a door mat, every day thousands of women are abused across the world, In the UK alone, statistics says 2 women are killed every week in the UK due to domestic violence(Only God will help us). There are thousands of women that can be termed as "door mats" and have been living with abusive spouse for years in even the most modern part of the world. I grew up around women that were highly valued by husband, brothers etc in Nigeria. I am tired of the general opinion that an African Woman is a mugun and a door mat to Her husband. Baby _123, you can’t have an ethic of “I will abuse my Husband if He steps out of bound” there are sure other ways, also I will not condone a man that does not respect His wife. As we know light begets light, I think a woman should get a man that will conform to her way of life, but then again, there is no perfect Human being, your strategy can’t be “I will abuse my husband to the core as soon as he does what I don’t like. You can only be termed as a husband abuser. Maybe I took your points out of context. Also, you’ve been kind of rude on this thread. I’m sorry if I might have offended you. I don’t want to be insulted. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Nobody: 11:37am On Jan 10, 2013 |
@baby_123:Just ignore any reply u don't like and give others forumites the opportunity to contribute. PEACE IS THE WAY... |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by lolaluv1(f): 11:37am On Jan 10, 2013 |
debrief08: What is wrong with some of you? True. The way peeps here are ganging up on her (baby-123) reflects badly on them. She made known her opinion and you didn't have to insult her to disagree with her. Disagreements can be rationally made. You people are not married to her, neither are your brothers the one she's with. Her man saw her like she was, and went for her nonetheless. What is now your own? |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Nobody: 11:37am On Jan 10, 2013 |
@baby_123:Just ignore any reply u don't like and give other forumites the opportunity to contribute. PEACE IS THE WAY... |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by olyg: 11:37am On Jan 10, 2013 |
This topic looks funny to me.I would rather prefer saying STOP THE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN.In our society today,women are subject to all kind of sexual assault ranging from rape and marital dishonesty from men.I do not know why a man should molest a teenage girl of 15 years.why should a man leave his wife at home and go outside to sleep with another woman(this is atrocious)MEN ARE WICKED.they must be sexually disciplined.MEN STOP THE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Kzinne: 11:40am On Jan 10, 2013 |
baby_123:why not post ur pic so d whole world can know how ugly and dirty u are. sure u are one of those girls who live in d slum and den hide behind some silly phone to type rubbish. u stink asshole 1 Like |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by bootstrap(m): 11:42am On Jan 10, 2013 |
baby_123: do u have a short memory abi u just choose to be selectively forgetful? u made reference to my "village" remember? Thank goodness; " i try to talk like a decent person", which is smfin i cant say about you. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Nobody: 11:43am On Jan 10, 2013 |
Pls do not derail the topic,the fact that this is violence against women doesnt hide the fact that is violence against men also. LETS STICK TO THE TOPIC... |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Kzinne: 11:53am On Jan 10, 2013 |
lola.luv:birds (witches) of d same feather flock together. ingrates 1 Like |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Kzinne: 11:55am On Jan 10, 2013 |
oly g: This topic looks funny to me.I would rather prefer saying STOP THE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN.In our society today,women are subject to all kind of sexual assault ranging from rape and marital dishonesty from men.I do not know why a man should molest a teenage girl of 15 years.why should a man leave his wife at home and go outside to sleep with another woman(this is atrocious)MEN ARE WICKED.they must be sexually disciplined.MEN STOP THE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN.are u sick in d head? havent u heard of polygamy? |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by freecocoa(f): 11:57am On Jan 10, 2013 |
Its funny how most human beings are o. A person said she'd return the favor if someone insults her. You people just concluded she's an abusive person and start hurling insults at her, biko nu she wey talk say she go wait make person insult her first before she reciprocate and una wey just dey insult her for a comment, who is now the abusive one here? Nna eh people never cease to amaze me o. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by lolaluv1(f): 12:01pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
I will support that violence against ALL humans be stopped. We are always imploring victims to leave so I will go the opposite route by sending this to the abusers out there. It is not just the victim that is in danger, the abuser can end up being killed or maimed when the victim eventually snaps! If you rule your household by fear and intimidation, you will end up like your mentors: Saddam, Idi-Amin, Ghaddafi et al. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Kzinne: 12:02pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
freecocoa: Its funny how most human beings are o.birds (witches) of the same feather, flock together. ingrates 1 Like |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Michky: 12:06pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
baby_123: Let me share some wisdom with you. Look girl, life is about the strong and the weak . You'll definitely be oppressed if you're on the weak side of life. And since you know you're weak, its wise to not run your mouth unless you have the capacity to take what's coming. You're strong if you can fight by yourself or if you have those who'll do that on your behalf. You're weak if you have neither. Whichever of them is weaker should learn to act in accordance with the law of the stronger. Whether its man to man, or woman to woman or man to woman, the point is, if you run your mouth anyhow, and am stronger than you, then get ready to get slapped over and over again. Fini! Did i make sense? Well, am not a great teacher. 1 Like |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
freecocoa: Its funny how most human beings are o.The problem wasn't wat she said,its the manner with which she said it. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Kzinne: 12:10pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
lola.luv:u yoruba women hav to much wahala and its likely cos ur men giv u dat much a chance to make trouble. can u make dis trouble in the north? or in saudi arabia where women are not allowed to drive or in iboland where women hav issues as to inheritance. respect urself and dont come here blaring ur illiterate mind for d world to see 1 Like |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by freecocoa(f): 12:10pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
Kzinne: birds (witches) of the same feather, flock together. ingratesOkay why are you calling me a witch and what did you do for me that I'm ungrateful about? Take this as a warning, baby_123 is even being very mild and civil with you, if you try me I will insult the life out of you so you better face your front and mind your business cos the last time I checked, I didn't refer to you in particular. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Kzinne: 12:14pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
freecocoa: Okay why are you calling me a witch and what did you do for me that I'm ungrateful about?u such a slow poke and u must b an illiterate. if u lov trouble den u are nothin but a witch, pure and simple- no apologies given. u such an asshole wit no life at all, ugly thrash 4 Likes |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by freecocoa(f): 12:14pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
Xsolutions:And in what manner did she say it? No matter how you think she said what she said, it didn't warrant abusing her especially since you are supposedly against all forms of abuse in the first place. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by bootstrap(m): 12:15pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
OK oooo. I dont agree with abuse against men. freecocoa: Its funny how most human beings are o. the first quote ... was her first comment (she was first to comment). "insult d man alittle, becoz he acts possessed. who thinks that way? just like saying..... "beat d woman alittle bcoz she insulted or talked back at u". In a sane world, pple shldnt "always" insult back bcoz they are insulted. like smone i used to knw wld say.... "the man and d woman shld neva "get mad" at the same tym" |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by ejifranks(m): 12:18pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
Gambrosia: Glad to know 'Men' are now crying. . . .About time too!O Jesus see beating!!!!!! I wont abuse or insult a woman . i expect same from her or there will be trouble |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
freecocoa: And in what manner did she say it? No matter how you think she said what she said, it didn't warrant abusing her especially since you are supposedly against all forms of abuse in the first place.Nice reply...the thing is if u come up with an INSULTIVE disposition even if u are saying the right thing,u will be responded with insults too unless u are dealing with MATURE folks who no how to ignore the bad and imbibe the good. It's about human nature men! SO NOW LETS STOP THE INSULTS,FORGIVE ONE ANOTHER AND CONTRIBUTE MEANINGFULLY OKAY. COME ON LETS ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY ABEG!!! Peace. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by freecocoa(f): 12:27pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
Kzinne: u such a slow poke and u must b an illiterate. if u lov trouble den u are nothin but a witch, pure and simple- no apologies given. u such an asshole wit no life at all, ugly thrashAnd you that go about insulting people for simply having an opinion different from yours should be classified under what category? Sadist? Foolish? Sick? 2 Likes |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by freecocoa(f): 12:27pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
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Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Kzinne: 12:34pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
freecocoa: And you that go about insulting people for simply having an opinion different from yours should be classified under what category?and thats what u are, a witch. |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by freecocoa(f): 12:38pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
Kzinne: and thats what u are, a witch.You are obviously sick so need entertaining your folly. 1 Like |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by lolaluv1(f): 12:42pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
Kzinne: u yoruba women hav to much wahala and its likely cos ur men giv u dat much a chance to make trouble. can u make dis trouble in the north? or in saudi arabia where women are not allowed to drive or in iboland where women hav issues as to inheritance. respect urself and dont come here blaring ur illiterate mind for d world to see Lol. How did you arrive at your 'educated' guess that I'm Yoruba? How can you say, whether or not I'm not from the north? How do you know I'm not even your lecturer, yet you call me illiterate? How can you call others troublemakers when the evidence in this thread points right back at you? Wetin I don talk, wey your mouth dey rush like tap wey nor get control? Like mad woman wey just enter market? I'll maintain and I won't go down that route with you. You're so irrelevant that I won't do it... @freecocoa. Pls, ignore. It's not worth it. 1 Like |
Re: Stop The Violence Against Men!!!! by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
WOMEN...IF ONLY THEY KNEW WHO THEY ARE...THEY WOULD HAVE NO PROBLEMS... MEN...YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS NO MATTER WHAT ANYBODY AND ANYWOMAN DOES AND SAYS...IT'S ABOUT THE HIGHER PRINCIPLES OF LIFE AND DIGNITY IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD AND THE SPIRITS OF JUSTICE,FAIRNESS AND LOVE...BE STRONG NOW THEN..."STOP THE VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN" IN AS MUCH AS VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE TOLERATED |
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