@ all

my girlfriend just broke up with me, i know i caused everything, because of my big loud mouth, but sometimes is saying the truth always a problem?

i love her so much, dont reli think i can see someone else, we've been apart for a month now, tried hooking up with 3 new girls all i do is just diss dem, tried sleepin with some of my "lays", but i dont feel anythin (NOT TO TALK ABOUT HAVIN SEX WITH THEM).

i'm losin my head and its affectin everything around me, pls i need help

Cam down. . . why don't u go back n sort things out wt her? She might understand.

@poster
when you should be thinking of how to make up with her you were busy looking for babes to lay. .nawa 4 u oh.your problems re ernomous.please can you tell us what about her you are actually missing. .

as for saying the truth,maybe you said an inconvenient truth.did you remind her of how ugly she is or something? .give us the full gist so we can search for solution.all the same ,I hope u make up with her sooner than later.

no commit suicide oh.

hansibone:

@ all

my girlfriend just broke up with me, i know i caused everything, because of my[b] big loud mouth,[/b] but sometimes is saying the truth always a problem?

i love her so much, don't reli think i can see someone else, we've been apart for a month now, tried hooking up with 3 new girls all i do is just diss them, tried sleepin with some of my "lays", but i don't feel anythin (NOT TO TALK ABOUT HAVIN SEX WITH THEM).

i'm losin my head and its affectin everything around me, please i need help

You just broke up a month ago and have been busy looking for a replacement already?  Well, it looks like it is not only a "big loud mouth" you have.  I see the reason why you are in the position you are currently.  What you need is a time out.  Definitely not one for any serious relationship.  I am so proud of your ex-girlfriend.  I hope she stays that way for ever!

You go deal with your issues--for they are not only myriad, but multifaceted.

^ooooooooooh

@poster

efuah:

Cam down. . . why don't u go back n sort things out wt her? She might understand.

you shld really consider this

@ Almondjoy!
Ododo Oro!
I really agree with you on this!
@Poster!
Give yourself a break and take some timeout.

@poster

If na truth you tell am then she no fit take am make she go.

broken heart always mends in time.

@hansibone

are u fucking nuts!!!!!
why should u be killing yourself about your ex when there are hotter girls out there than her.

my advice. take some time of, get your love-vendor game right then hook up another chick u can bone (as your name implies).

or, u could go to ambassadors hotel at ikeja and pick a prostitute to lay.

it will clear your head.

@ Poster

Dont worry you'll b ok Evryguy guy will go through this @ 1 stage in his life,

better forget about her or be ready to die soon, but for ur girlfriend am sure she is not ready to come back to u. because u don't deserve her.

Rushing into another relationship is never a cure, especially if u still have deep feelings for someone. Get back to her & tell her how u feel. Perhaps u both need the break.

i like guys that admit their fault. . . big loud mouth . . . interesting

@ all

thanks for your replies but jeez some females actually nailed me to d cross witout listening to the whole story

(ALMONDJOY)

almondjoy:

You just broke up a month ago and have been busy looking for a replacement already? Well, it looks like it is not only a "big loud mouth" you have. I see the reason why you are in the position you are currently. What you need is a time out. Definitely not one for any serious relationship. I am so proud of your ex-girlfriend. I hope she stays that way for ever!

You go deal with your issues--for they are not only myriad, but multifaceted.

(ty4real)

ty4real:

@ Almondjoy!
Ododo Oro!
I really agree with you on this!
@Poster!
Give yourself a break and take some timeout.

(talk2sulta)

talk2sulta:

@poster
when you should be thinking of how to make up with her you were busy looking for babes to lay. .nawa for you oh.your problems re ernomous.please can you tell us what about her you are actually missing. .

as for saying the truth,maybe you said an inconvenient truth.did you remind her of how ugly she is or something? .give us the full gist so we can search for solution.all the same ,I hope u make up with her sooner than later.

no commit suicide oh.

and bro, really don't want 2 go that way.

heres a brief history.

STORY STORY

i've been seeing BEAUTY (NAME CHANGED) 4 like 5 months, just as a pure business client, she comes over to my work place and i help her with some of her problems (I'm a system analyst). for these months i did not notice her because i was havin problems wit my ex and i did not want 2 jump in2 a new relationship, so after 6 months of abstinence i noticed one day that jeez BEAUTY was damn beautiful. we actually had our first non-business conversation that day.

one faithfully Tuesday morning she called me and said her system was bad, i told her 2 go to my work place, but she beged saying that i she please help her out, so i told her to bring her system down 2 my house which she agreed and, she came down 2 my place 8am. i told her to leave her system and go on wit her daily activities that i would see 2 it and she should come back in d evening. she simply told me she wanted 2 stay. . we stayed togeda from morning till around 7pm and den nepa did their thin (WAS NOT THRU WIT THE SYSTEM BECOS OF NEPA), all this while i noticed she was uneasy, and i knew what she wanted, but i did not want 2 take that advantage, so i waited till 7pm, we both layed on my bed waiting 4 nepa to bring dere lite, so i touched her and she did not tell me to stop, GOD i did not believe my eyes and JEEZ that is why i LOVE her, because she was herself and she did not lie, but we notin that day.she loved me (LIKE SHE SAID) because i was a BAD boy and i did not hide it.that was how we started.

to cut d long story short, she had a boyfriend and she promised she would be breaking up wit him(EVERYTHING NA LIE), actually belived her, but i knew from the very begining the end of the story, but i thought i could change thins, my mummy told me 2 run from her, my friends told me 2 just Bleep and den run, but i loved not d passion 4 d moment, but 4 eternity. while i was loving her, she was fcukin her boyfriend, and i was not cheatin and d stupid thin is that i know it before she does it and i tell her before she tels me. we had little quarrels because, she later told me that we should av a secret affair, i told her no, that we should just forget or b real.

d whole problem came when i told her the truth, she's a graduate of industrial arts, and my girlfriend just eats, sleeep and watch nigerian movies every day, GOD nowadays guys her lookin 4 independent woman. just told her 2 do somethin wit her hands and not end up depending on someone, even compared her to my mum. she just went up in flames. dbreak started like that, i begged my head out 4 3 weeks, i became miserable, tried everythin 2 forget her, but i couldn't, my friend tried hookin us up, when all my PAC life failed,

GUESS WAT SHE DID, she told one of her boyfriend 2 call me wit her phone and tell me that i should stop disturbing her (Bleep HIGHEST INSULT) at first at thought it was a joke, i called her and she was just laughing with her friend, makin jest of me. guess what i did, i called her back and TOLD HER DAT SHE SHOULD TELL HER BOYFRIEND THAT I HAVE bleeped HER MORE THAN 10 TIMES, that Y IS HE FRONTING A CHICK DAT I HAV BEEN HAVIN (GOD I REGRETD DAT WORD"I BELIVE IN FEMALE SUPREMACY" i did hurt her, but i'm hurting more because i love her, but i have to keep my ego and carry on and i'm not going back to her. d affair just lasted 4 2 months and guess what i sent her 400 sms under these months

that is y i need help to go through this PAIN

love triangle or better still love polygon since you wrote she told "one of her boyfriends to call you".

AIDs is real .

your story is not sweet at all. You dont deserve each other, cheating and helping to cheat. move on and do better with the next person you meet, it might just last longer.

@ Poster,
How old are you? You are here crying over split milk? Are you seeking for sympathy on this forum? No one here would empathize with you on your matter. It is those who reside in the pit that will continually seek for pity.

Better carry your mattress and go look for a better and comfortable bed to sleep on. However, you really need to give yourself time.

Love is not something you rush into and rush out only to rush into another one again.


Better luck with your search in life.

Thats just part of life.
We love and we hurt.

You have no choice other than to get back on ur feet.
When we are heart broken, we always try to get replacements quickly (rebound) but that doesnt work because we arent emotionally ready. Someone said at least wait like 6 months after u have ended a relationship before going into another.

If she has gone away from u for a whole month, then maybe she is serious. Keep ur heard up, u wont die - u will just become stronger.

hmm sorry, but sounds like u migh thave gotten what u deserved. Change ur attitude, because the only way i think she migh ttake u back is if u prove to her that u are a changed man, best of luck

@ poster,
have u tried ota pia pia?
it would help u clear ur head
and relieve u of ur troubles.
all the best.

@ adeboo

thanks for ur advice, would stick 2 urs

nd 2 some odas like pahtahkee and finemocha i tink u girls av serious problems wit males, was wit the age thin? jeez did u read my story, get a grip on urself and god, i wont seek advices from people lik u

Well, why not have JESUS as your friend both spiritually, financially, emotionally, and physically. THE CHOICE IS YOURS. MAKE THAT WISE CHOICE!!!

*Not again, pls!*

Another sick and silly story!

Go back and apologize to her, tell her she is the best thing that ever happen to you, make her know you cant live without her, she means the world to You , And be fast about it before someone else beats you to it

cybersleek:

Another sick and silly story!

LMAO

Go jump inside water then. . .abi?

chai!! the night workers don arrive.

well, judging by your short but revealing story,
i can help u.
i have got the right girl for u.

let me give u a brief profile of the said chick.

All the guys on my street ,(last time i counted they were just 13), have F**ked her.
She is currently in a university, to graduate sumtime dis year,
she stays off campus, in a guy's room,
but don'tworry, they are just rooms mates.

she usually have closed door meetings with only the male lecturers after exams,
but b4 results are released.
she had never had any carry over,
dat means she "mo way well well"
she is very fine, sweet and homely.

am sure u guys will jel like glue,
perfect fit, rite?


oh, as per d guys on my street, i didn't count myself,
cos i did it with her just once,

holla me, i will hook u up
and u will never have anoda emotional breakdown

if u kill urself cos of a babe, na u sabi.

LOL.

sorry dude. the girl do u chop and clean mouth. and u entered into it knowingly. if u cry finish, u clean ur tears, u hear?

just relax and look for a girl.