I'm just wondering why guys act different around there friends?

we act different around friends because u women take us seriously. my friends and i like talking rubbish when we're around each other. but i cant imagine talking rubbish when im with my girl friend. take note of the rubbish cos what we talk about ranges from what we did back in the days to whatever our fanatsies are. trust me it is nasty.

when a guy is around his madam, he needs to check what he says cos madam takes everything serious. i'd like believe thats the situation u find urself in

@poster
Is it not the same with ladies, cuz there is no way u can tell me that you don't have a clique where you try to present ur man like u're in control and that ur man cannot live without u in sight.

Its not only guys, the gals are equally guilty of the same so called offence. People takes things of life in their own way of understanding.

Well I have a guy who when im with him alone, he's pretty much the sweetest guy I know.
He doesn't even cuss around me.
But with his friends, lets say I text him, He'll reply with "asjnfdsjnfjsdnfjsdf" after like 2 texts.

I know he's not going to act how he does when were alone, but atleast talking to me.

So I was just wondering.
Thanks for the reply's

everyone acts different around their friends.

@ Busta - guys are special in this case

@ topic - cos they are a bunch of knuckleheads who are ashamed of their romantic/soft sides in the presence of their friends.

@Topic

Because they lack maturity and sense of character. Concerned with what others think of them instead of what they think about themselves.

A phase most never come out of as you can see around you.

@ almond joy
I agree, I know some guys that still do the whole mimic thing when someone turns around.
If you know what I mean

@ j-girl
If only they were more open

mjsrox, why did you suddenly change your age from 12 to 19?

I didn't?
I haven't even messed why my profile yet?

I'm just wondering why guys act different around there friends?

because thats how it'z supposed to be and thats how God has mandated it to be. . . . . .

because when they meet the girl, they're putting their best foot forward and forget to show the other foot after a while. so the girl only sees their 'front'. when he's with friends, there's no 'i gotta look good so she'll like me' plan or strategy. or as j-girl put it, ashamed to show their romantic side in front of their friends - but i seriously doubt that. nigerian guys do not have a romantic side - they only have romantic fronts, acquired since teenage years as a ploy for getting girls.

funny, i prefer to date a guy who has known and treated me like any of the other guys/friends. so i can cuss him to pieces if he starts forming infront of his/our friends

IICE
if i may ask,do u love colour purple that much that u type with it?
Jus curious if it aint prying that is>>>>

Ok
u tend 2 become popular with d way u light up pages,lyk purple mean Iice is around.
Its ok though
easy

thats right. me thinks the purple is kinda electrifying,

@iice: howdee, its bin awhile.

I have changed eye glasses every other week since u came to NL
*Kiddin*
Can i ask another Q?

I will see d optician soon to that effect!
hmm. . .
let me give it a shot,its very prim
whats ur ID about?

I will prefer 2 start up looking lyk dat and see how i end up

I knew u ll avoid d Q systematically but its ok was jus curious

HINT??i dnt get dat 1,as in hint of how i look??

as per finer qualities,it can confuse me so i wont even think about it,
I know u cool bt not sure if its as 'Ice'

ok

Ice block is ice 2 me
rigid,mean cold!!

Ohh
I now see why every1 is scared of u, .
Glaciers r even more dangerous.
At least i know u beta now^{nice exchanging words widya,i ll be off 2 read my book soon,i dont want dad 2 beat me}

@topic
Why becos they don't want their friends to see them as not being in control. Some like to act like they don't care to their friends. But that's being immature. I've realized even to any age they do it, the gravity just differs.

Tell u something, my self & my boo recently just got back together after a little separation. His mum called me to ask me what happened. I explained to her. She called her son and asked him he said "she wasn't calling me so i decided not to call back". His mum called me back to confirm this & i told her straight that he has begged me & told me it was ego & pride. His mum just laughed. See how our men can be.