I really need some spice in my life. I'm starting to get boring. Whenever my friends invite me to go out, I always make up excuses not to go. Am I having a early midlife crisis I'm only 25 years. Don't know how to get back in the party mood. I'm becoming a house mouse

Partying is not all there is to life. Make friends with people who will motivate you to do better things with your time.

Look for something to do. You can take up a post graduate degree; it will get u busy or learn a job. It is better to b a stay home mouse than to be a street prosttitute.

tpacalipse: Look for something to do. You can take up a post graduate degree; it will get u busy or learn a job. It is better to b a stay home mouse than to be a street prosttitute.

I study and I'm working so that is not the issue.its like I'm losing my friends because I don't see them anymore and I'm blaming my self for that because I've rejected them many times

I feel the same way too. I've given up trying to fit in all that tho; I'm just concentrating on other things I can do alone.

Seun: Partying is not all there is to life. Make friends with people who will motivate you to do better things with your time.

I have great friends not the bad kind. But now I get left out on so many things. My friends and I know each other since college and now were are writing our thesis for our Msc degree so we know each other for 9 years now. And I hate my self for being to selfish to socialize

braine: I feel the same way too. I've given up trying to fit in all that tho; I'm just concentrating on other things I can do alone.

Hmmm I guess I have to do that too. But it is so hard too see my friends having fun without me. Its all my fault so I have to accept it

Why not try other engaging things? Try out sport you normally don't like or learn a thing or two outside your education which will be fun. Partying does not make you a fun person, it just hides your misery and loneliness

zoete: I really need some spice in my life. I'm starting to get boring. Whenever my friends invite me to go out, I always make up excuses not to go. Am I having a early midlife crisis I'm only 25 years. Don't know how to get back in the party mood. I'm becoming a house mouse

25 is too early to have a mid-life crisis. This may be signs of depression. Go talk to a shrink. Just an advice

Yeah... especially when you know how to condemn GIFTS...

www.nairaland.com/1138798/dont-know-how-tell-him

May be you've raised your shoulders and standards high above your friends'. May be you need to humble yourself....

You are fond of digging up people's previous posts and using that to judge their present character/decisions. You can't be too sure what her current state of mind is now, can you?

sauer: You are fond of digging up people's previous posts and using that to judge their present character/decisions. You can't be too sure what her current state of mind is now, can you?

TODAY's headache is a product of YESTERDAY's stress.

Psychologists & medics make use of the PAST & HISTORY to diagnose and treat a PRESENT condition.

Condemning gifts and looking down on people could lead to many things.. Remember, we all can only read Op's fonts in form of words on Nairaland, we can not see her mind.

E mi o le soro ju,Zoete,u can check those points down...e ma ba mi ka lo o
1. Be spontaneous.
Seize opportunities to do something interesting.For example;when a friend invites you for a drink or to the movies—don’t make any more excuses.Simply,say yes and go.Don’t turn down invitations to socialize when you know you have nothing better to do.
2. Visit a new place.
It’s a shame to not have gone anywhere else besides your little home;or seen anything else outside of your area.C’mon,there is so much to see.Drive,get on a bus or car,even bike and go see the world around.
3. Do the unusual.
Do something you have always wanted to do but never made time for.Go sporting,cinema,go to the museum/zoo,attend a concert,visit an old friend or do some voluntry tinz.
4. Plan a “spice up my life day” and commit to it.
Mark the date on your calendar for a special trip or activity,and invite your friends along.Plan for your special day and get ready to have fun.The more the merrier!
5. “Tune up” your attitude .
Give up the “I don’t do this and I don’t do that” attitude.Be willing to participate in new activities and embrace new things.Be open-minded,and have fun.You will be pleasantly surprised at what the right attitude can do for you!
6. Be fully present and in the moment.
What’s the point of going on trip/relaxation and then spending your relaxation time thinking about work,study and other stressful issues?You can’t really spice up your life if you are physically present and mentally absent.To enjoy yourself,be fully engaged in the moment— body,soul and spirit.
7. Leave your hang-ups at home.
When spending time with your friends…don’t let your pessimist outlook on life ruin the day. Remember that your friends are there to enrich yourlife and not to baby sit you.So,leave you high maintenance behavior at home,be a joy to others and have fun!
8. Change your environment.
Introduce inspiring elements into your surroundings.Change your house setup,paint your walls a different color,get urself some flowers.
9. Make new friends or foster existing relationships.
Technology has made it possible to connect with people faster and easily.Make friends with people from different cultures and learn something new.Contact a long lost friend and make plans to meet and catch up.Better yet,pay a surprise visit to a relative you haven’t seen in a while.
10. Be creative.
Opportunities present themselves in the most unlikely ways.Ask yourself,“What can I do right now,this week,this weekend…to spice up my life?” Think outside the box.
...Thanx 4 reading,do hope u get some dat will work for u,dear.

zoete: I really need some spice in my life. I'm starting to get boring. Whenever my friends invite me to go out, I always make up excuses not to go. Am I having a early midlife crisis I'm only 25 years. Don't know how to get back in the party mood. I'm becoming a house mouse

you clearly have no idea what a midlife crisis is

you're just seeking attention is all

Get "extra-curricular". Sewing, photography, baking, jogging, learning a language, travelling, babysitting... These are my attempts of the past 2 years to drive myself from a robotic life of work and sleep. You laugh at yourself when you do it all at once, but you don't feel as guilty for wasting precious lifetime .

Chill out though, you've nothing to prove to anyone, even yourself.

oyb:

you clearly have no idea what a midlife crisis is

you're just seeking attention is all

And I got yours

[quote author=acidosis™]Yeah... especially when you know how to condemn GIFTS...

www.nairaland.com/1138798/dont-know-how-tell-him

May be you've raised your shoulders and standards high above your friends'. May be you need to humble yourself....[/quote

If I think less of my friend they wouldn't be my real friend so don't talk about things you don't know i

There are lot of spices in the market

Maggi star
Curry
Nutmeg
Thyme
Ground pepper
Dawadawa
Crayfish
Etc...drink your favourite and get kicking real good

zoete:
If I think less of my friend they wouldn't be my real friend so don't talk about things you don't know i

sorry ma'am

U need to see a shrink!

Badosky's diagnosis... U gats isolation syndrome.

Idowuogbo: U need to see a shrink!

Badosky's diagnosis... U gats isolation syndrome.

Called my shrink he said I need to look for new goals in life pfffff

Fear not babes. It'll pass.. And wen it does, d real zoete will emerge.

babysnogls: Fear not babes. It'll pass.. And wen it does, d real zoete will emerge.

I hope so can't wait for it to happen

LastApostle: There are lot of spices in the market

Maggi star
Curry
Nutmeg
Thyme
Ground pepper
Dawadawa
Crayfish
Etc...drink your favourite and get kicking real good

Hahhahaha very funny what is crayfish btw

190-the-clown:
In 190's plain language - You need to-get laid


You need some d1ck in your life to-spice things up

Done that it doesn't help.

I fit send you one container load of curry

190-the-clown:
In 190's plain language - You need to-get laid


You need some d1ck in your life to-spice things up

Omg, here's my 5-star spice!

zoete:

Hahhahaha very funny what is crayfish btw