I am attracted to this girl at my place of work. she is nice and we have become quite"friendly''. well, i invited her to my place and she told me that two of my bosses had made advances at her.one of them even promised to make her his second wife.Ha!  (can u believe that).Now am faced with two options. its either I go out with the girl or  risk getting into trouble with my bosses. I like the girl but I don’t think I have reached a point of sacrificing my career  for a feeling that has not been tested. I work with an  oil exploration company. It’s a small company but the pay is pretty good. Rumours and false innuendo can jeopardize one’s career in this place and am not ready for that. so here is my dilemma- should i continue or give my feelings a quick burial and forget about the girl. your advices and opinions are welcome!

Your career is obviously more important. I'd advice you to shelf the gir for now -- when things calm down around her maybe you can have a go.

If you desperately need the job forget this girl as I can smell your termination!
My friend! bosses are in their own class and never try to compete with them for love!
Its you who will lose!
That girl might be genuine or she is telling you about the boss to show you that she is above you!
Read between words pal not even lines before its too late for you!
Thats the nature of us girls we fall for the more previledged more often than it happens with those commanded!

forget it man, ur job is at stake here and you don't even know how she truely feels about you(a feeling that is not reciprocated is a waste) so why throw away ur job over nothing.

Follow your heart.

Do you like her so much that you can marry her? If not ,then sacrificing your job is not worth it.

This is not too tricky. Date her and dont be obvious about it in the office. Before they know what's up, you must have fetched buckets of water in that pleasurable well and it will be up to the girl to keep you or lose her job!

"fetched buckets of water in that pleaurable well"

focus on ya job!

Nope, focus on da gurl!

This is serious, Pal.But the problem is that we don't know how much this girl loves U. better still, never let it cross ur mind about quitting ur job because of a girl because ur career should B mor inportant 2 U and U should remember that [s]"Ladies r very delicate 2 trust when various men r after them".[/s] And if U know that U cant 4get about her, start looking 4 another job without making any close contact with her in the office.


LUV U ALL !!!

@ebony9ja     If u know wat is good for u, make a living 1st. Cos if them sack u, she wouldnt want to have a jobless guy as a temporary man So, wisen up

nodoby is likely 2 refuse a free box ofchocolate
2 can play the game.
on ur part,decide wt u want 2 stick 2 (ur job or get the girl)
on her part,she shd choose who she wants n wt she wants.
dnt 4get 2 convince her knw u want her

JUST DO WHAT U CAN AND LET IT,

emmeno:

   If u know what is good for u, make a living 1st. Cos if them sack u, she wouldnt want to have a jobless guy as a temporary man So, wisen up

hmmmm, words of wisdom my broda.

you have concluded the whole matter,

from what you wrote, You love this girl
but you dnt want to loose ya job because of her
so better bury you feelings and do your job.

hey!! they didn't employ you to be a girl snatcher,

Bosses Plural Beware@poster

Op
Just go ahead & nyash her•

it amazes me how fooli.sh awon bois can be this days oh! A girl will neva giv such an idea a tort talkless of nursin it, e be like say some bois brain dey use battery! Na wa!