my boy frnd wants to have sex wit me, although we luv each oda nd i dnt want dat because am still a virgin. Pls wat do i do?

Let him no U̶̲̥̅̊ want to kip Ɣ☺ΰя virginity..if ☺•⌣•hë truely love U̶̲̥̅̊,☺•⌣•hë wl kip to It̶̲̥̅̊..

he threatens to quite if i dnt, nd am not ready for any sort of heart brk

bencharmy: he threatens to quite if i dnt, nd am not ready for any sort of heart brk

ok. den let him burst d bubble!!






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[color=#770077][/color] seems am just gonna let go!

bencharmy: [color=#770077][/color] seems am just gonna let go!

of d guy or your bubble??

d guy

Don't worry, you will get someone else who would wait till you are ready!

Be careful out there and in here(nairaland)

How old are you and the guy
No disrespect pls
I will tell you how to handle him

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Let go of the guy jare. #drop him like its hot! Lol.

I think you peeps aint ready for marriage so you might still end up on his chain of ex'z.

NB. Sex won't guarantee your staying with him,it won't save you from heart break either so give in @ your own peril. Me half cent.

@bencharmy is dat u on ur profile? if yes I swore if I were 2 be ur Boyfriend I would wait until u are ready. in fact I do put a Ring in ur finger.. but D problem is if u do be faithful wit me and not go and allow anoda guy do it first. I would not also Blame ur guy because most guys are afraid their Virgin Girlfriend would lose it 2 anoda guy.. so many guys have been in dat situation dey chose to be Patience wit their Girlfriend hoping dat dey would be the first person 2 eat D fruit but @ end one thing may lead 2 anoda and D girl in question open D door for anoda guy who just came. so it's so painful.

DO NOT DO IT.

Find some kinda compromise, give him head maybe? but i would advise you not to have sex till marriage, be one of the few good ones

silvertuke: @bencharmy is dat u on ur profile? if yes

O boi , I no bin check the pix
I no go advise u anything
Any guy here wey go tell u make u no give am to d guy na big hypocrite.
The guy knows as much as I do that if he no collect , another go soon collect. If you luv am , give am d thing and keep am.
I dey tell u , ur kind face dey attract lions, wolves and foxes. If u miss a true luv , u may make a lot of mistake before u get another one
*wish the guy could read this, I deserve two bottles of burnt barley*

@silvertuke ALERT! ALERT! stop tripping over the lady that posted her problem here. why are going through her profile pics?
If you have a girlfriend or wife? be monotonous. good for the health. no pun intended.

At op, keep away from guys that ask 4 such. They want to hit, and go and will probably dump you for the next available girl.

@Smuthx is she ur sister, I just said D truth, if I have a girl like dat as my GF I would not hesitate to padlock her pussy if she don't allow me 2 eat it Fruit.

Yea, there was nothing wrong with what silvertuke said.. hes right.

ITbomb:
O boi , I no bin check the pix
I no go advise u anything
Any guy here wey go tell u make u no give am to d guy na big hypocrite.
The guy knows as much as I do that if he no collect , another go soon collect. If you luv am , give am d thing and keep am.
I dey tell u , ur kind face dey attract lions, wolves and foxes. If u miss a true luv , u may make a lot of mistake before u get another one
*wish the guy could read this, I deserve two bottles of burnt barley*

So true love is guaranteed through sex now? Hmm!

Just tell him you aint ready. I don't blame for wanting it, cod I honestly don't see you keeping it till marriage. So he's prolly thinking "why not me to pop the cherry." Still, do it in your own time, believe no one receives a prize for sexx.

Adaeze003:
So true love is guaranteed through sex now? Hmm!

My daughter, when u r my age , u will know

Pls dont try it. Plsss,if he loves u deeply he ll respect such decision. Respect ur body,if u loss it u cant gain it back. LET HIM GO....IF he cant wait

@op, Don't pop the cherry yet. You'll definitely meet the right one. The moment you give it to him, you have no pride, you'll be like nothing to him. And that begins your sex adventurous life.

ITbomb:
O boi , I no bin check the pix
I no go advise u anything
Any guy here wey go tell u make u no give am to d guy na big hypocrite.
The guy knows as much as I do that if he no collect , another go soon collect. If you luv am , give am d thing and keep am.
I dey tell u , ur kind face dey attract lions, wolves and foxes. If u miss a true luv , u may make a lot of mistake before u get another one
*wish the guy could read this, I deserve two bottles of burnt barley*

but babe plsss if he has not given u ur weddin ring free d guy...him jes wan spoil fine girl lyk u

With regard to other posters, I'd say it's not a given that he'll dump you when you make love, or that he'll love you any less or even that he'll despise you. They are possibilities and nothing more. He might love you more or less. The thing is considering your age, a breakup is almost guaranteed. He'll be thinking "why wait for 5years and no cherry-popping, and then she loses it t someone she knows in les than 2 months." Ultimately, it's your body so feel free to protect your interests, but allow him the courtesy of protecting his.

There are various compromises both of you can reach e.g. BJ, HJ, N-ude massage e.t.c.

please give him what he wants naa ooo , some girls sef , why are u putting a value on something you can lose while doing sport smh

^ don't I jst love dis dude

In my personal experience let me not say anything sha. But my advice and the gσσδ advice DON'T DON'T do it. Do it when u are ready. If u S̤̥̈̊†̥̥ȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ go ahead please use condoms or better S̤̥̈̊†̥̥ȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ have him tested for STDs.

claremont: There are various compromises both of you can reach e.g. BJ, HJ, N-ude massage e.t.c.

Pls elaborate

CAMEROONPRIDE: please give him what he wants naa ooo , some girls sef , why are u putting a value on something you can lose while doing sport smh

+10000 LIKES. Bad guy.

Plarp: DO NOT DO IT.

Find some kinda compromise, give him head maybe? but i would advise you not to have sex till marriage, be one of the few good ones

Oh please, compromising with oral se.x is still a se.xual act.