look but don't touch

Raimond:

Guys honestly i`m a [b]decent guy, and i try to live up to that reputation as much as possible.I might have used some strong words to describe her, but that was just to drive home the point that she is to physically mature to be 14 as she claims and also she is quite intelligent to be in the lower wrungs of life.I have to admit i`m tempted,but i`ve resolved not to do anything with her, but each time i see her especially in some outfits i really get the heat.

All i want in all honesty is someone to tell what approach or what to do practically or spiritually , to douse the fire.

I quite agree with those of you that are angry with me, i`d feel the same way too if i had to read this topic as a post from someone else.
Note that i`m not a pervert so rape is out of the question and to some good extent i think i can exercise restrain, but like every other human and as a man you get moved by what you see.I`m being true to myself here [/b]



See guy, stop beating around the bush about you being descent or not!1.You are battling with lust here and once you have that girl, you wont need her again,2. its none of your business if she is more matured than the age she is claiming,3.You dont need any validation from any one here before you do what you intend to do if you dont move away from that girl and I mean MOVE AWAY from the poor girl,If you are descent as you are asserting then why don't you go for your girlffriend that you are dating and leave the poor housegirl alone!
She may just be the only hope of the poor mother, dont ruin her life for her by all this claims that she has this and that,if she has it is not a sin and its your duty to to take your eyes away if it focusing too much.
Your statement that you are a descent guy really triggered me off, go and meet your equal and I mean your girl friend,your legitimate one and leave that girl and if the lustful attraction still continues, this discuss it with your legal girlfriend and let see if you will still have the same attention you are giving her!
Mate, get a life, leave that girl alone, dont lure her,cause if you do she will gladly consent but you will only be ruining her life cause you do not intend to take her to the altar at the end of the day she will only be your object of lustful achievement!Please leave her alone

tkb417:

awomolo?? the one i know is in Nashville, are u seyi?

@Poster
u don kolo. . .abeggi brother, leave the girl for the small boiz around. she never grow.
if u do anything to her and your parent find out, they wont beat u but im sure they might want to send her packing from your house. .Dont let that girl suffer because of your crazy tots .
abeg biko, may God help u because u know the girl needs all the help.
na beg i dey beg u o

and meanwhile, u be 28 and u still dey stay with your papa
go find work abeg

Echeozo:


Right tommy. We have to give him advice not insults. Sh*t happens. And y'all(men) know that our little man knows no descency. Self control is a necessary virtue.

Then he should be able to control himself naa and just assume that the poor girl be him sister