Nairalanders the guy has made a resolution to "curb his enthusiam", so why are some people still abusing him? Alot of us on this forum need to realize that it takes a lot to admit we have a problem, and seeking help takes a lot of balls, I'm saying, he said he was lusting after the girl, not that he slept with her, so where the word "rape" and "rapist" comes from is what I dont get, I read every single post, Did I miss something?

How many of us in his situation would have told someone?, Many of us would have acted on it, Granted it wrong to even think about it, considering her age, But when people open up to tell you their problems, dont make them regret their actions by abusing them and stuff, We all have our shortcomings and weaknesses,

Finally, even though it is funny to read some of the abuses people reign on each other, I think we should all learn to be civil and show respect to one another, whether we agree with people's opinions or not,

@ Poster, I am glad you decided to do the right thing, I hope you stick with your decision,

Please take this guy to the hospital he is seriously sick, he even Bleep his sister.

I've left the guy alone oo, Oga Raimond abeg no vex ooo, you are free to go and continue shagging the object of your desire. I don't want to intrude your privacy anymore.

Bros, enjoy yourself, but just know that someday someone will abuse your daughter too, it's not a curse ooo, it's the law that says ''what goes around comes around''.

I've left you alone ooo and don't be mad at me for saying the truth. I remain your friend.

LEWECHI:

Please take this guy to the hospital he is seriously sick, he even mess his sister.

hmmmmm

very good to see that we are waking up. Its fun to see the yabbis and all but most time a simple question that bothers a mans heart is taken with levity and commonised, the entire stuff is ended in yabbs and the solution to the question is not yet given?? Put yourself in the shoes of such individual and see how you feel each time you log into nairaland and you see that the very pressing question you posted has only been answered with yabbs. No real solution given. I think we should adopt if you dont know it shut up strategy.

@Purestboi
Man, i dont think the guy has said he will shag the gurl. We all have dissed the guy and thats where the fun is. . . i just think you should be a bit calm about the whole thingy.

According the the guy, the whole case is rested and hes been able to take some positives from the yabis and all sorts from here.
Let us be a bit tolerant especially in this case where the poster has been cool about all invectives flying from all directions.

Laterz man

tkb417:

@Purestboi
Man, i don't think the guy has said he will shag the girl. We all have dissed the guy and thats where the fun is. . . i just think you should be a bit calm about the whole thingy.

According the the guy, the whole case is rested and hes been able to take some positives from the yabis and all sorts from here.
Let us be a bit tolerant especially in this case where the poster has been cool about all invectives flying from all directions.

Laterz man

[size=13pt]Yeah you are right but sometimes something positive comes out of the negative remarks.[/size]

Guys, I've only read some of the first page, and skipped the rest.

The poster has said how he feels. He has NOT said he's going to act on those feelings, so go easy on the name calling. A lot of guys on here have thought AND done worse, so think!

@ Raimond: I'm glad you've seen sense, and left the girl alone. Had you had sex with her, at 14, that would have made you a beast, i.e a child sex offender.

I don't know where you are, but over here, a beast WILL get put on the Child Sex Offenders register, and it's for life. You'll ALWAYS be seen as a risk to young children. And all for what?

I see you've edited your post, and say things have been resolved (what does that mean?). I hope it means you've curbed those abnormal thoughts you've had, not that you've gone ahead AND acted on them!

It also struck me that you, at age 28, are still living with your parents? Wow. I moved out of my parents house aged 20, AND put myself through uni single-handedly. You MAY want to move out of your parent's home, and make your own way.

Just a thought.

tkb417:

@Purestboi
Man, i don't think the guy has said he will shag the girl. We all have dissed the guy and thats where the fun is. . . i just think you should be a bit calm about the whole thingy.

According the the guy, the whole case is rested and hes been able to take some positives from the yabis and all sorts from here.
Let us be a bit tolerant especially in this case where the poster has been cool about all invectives flying from all directions.

Laterz man

Bros no mind am, The bobo don shag the poor girl tired before telling us to advise him. Why cant anyone tell him to seek advise from his wife?

PurestBoy:

Bros no mind am, The bobo don shag the poor girl tired before telling us to advise him. Why can't anyone tell him to seek advise from his wife?

Is the housegirl your sister? This annoying way of casting the first stone, as if na your daughter the guy shag. Please shut up and move on.

Siena:

Guys, I've only read some of the first page, and skipped the rest.

The poster has said how he feels. He has NOT said he's going to act on those feelings, so go easy on the name calling. A lot of guys on here have thought AND done worse, so think!

@ Raimond: I'm glad you've seen sense, and left the girl alone. Had you had sex with her, at 14, that would have made you a beast, i.e a child sex offender.

I don't know where you are, but over here, a beast WILL get put on the Child Sex Offenders register, and it's for life. You'll ALWAYS be seen as a risk to young children. And all for what?

I see you've edited your post, and say things have been resolved (what does that mean?). I hope it means you've curbed those abnormal thoughts you've had, not that you've gone ahead AND acted on them!

It also struck me that you, at age 28, are still living with your parents? Wow. I moved out of my parents house aged 20, AND put myself through uni single-handedly. You MAY want to move out of your parent's home, and make your own way.

Just a thought.

Please get one thing right,I don`t live with my parents,the last time i checked,i left my parents 6 years ago, and i have been working for 5.As for the rest of your questions please read thru thru other posts of mine.
Cheers!!!!

Guy dont mind them we all human but think about what will happen after you poke her.

1 Disrespect
2 She could get pregnant


The best thing is to hold yourself and try to get other girls .No spoil the girl

@purestboi
u be funny person. . .i don hear
abeg no kill the poster o with ur yabiz

I think the sammy guy is stupid. This is what he has been posting in every topic

Adeboo, I like the way you write!

I'm telling da honest truth , if u touch that gurl god and humanity will neva forgive yo ass, pls leave her alone, if u try it the gurl may be scared of u fo life , mentally she would be shocked if u raped her, she jus yung and tender, boy don't even try it , i'm begging u , ooooooooo

I'm telling da honest truth , if u touch that girl god and humanity will never forgive yo ass, please leave her alone, if u try it the girl may be scared of u fo life , mentally she would be shocked if u raped her, she jus yung and tender, boy don't even try it , i'm begging u , ooooooooo

AH SO U THINK ITS ONLY GOD AND HUMANITY THAT WILL NOT FORGIVE HIM ABI?MY DEAR EVEN THE DEVIL AND HIS KINGDOM WILL NEVER FORGIVE D GUY IF HE MESSES UP WT D YOUNG GIRL

You are a useless human being.Your prick should be cut

Are u under a cause?

Bullshit!!!

Wrex:

You are a useless human being.Your prick should be cut

Can you blow your temperature down,
Did you notice he modified this post saying
"Move On the issue has been resolved"

His gurlfriend don't know that under her nose ,spanner dey service oga ,under her nose.secret secret Love.