I'm looking for someone to help me. I don't know what to do anymore. My man and I started dating about 4 months ago. He used to live about 45min away from me but we managed. We met online. The first time we met up it was great and we even went to go introduce me to his uncle. He insisted to go through my phone so I gave it to him. He found some old text from my ex bf and he got upset. Since that day things have gone downhill. We used to talk everyday but now we hardly talk. And then beginning of this year I found out that he has a son. He lied to me and told me that its his nephew but he later confessed. And then he moved closer to me in january. Then I found out on facebook that his baby mama is claiming to have moved with him and also to live with him. I confronted him and he just ignored me and disregarded me. I went to go visit his place for the first time then I found pictures of his ex on the wall in the living room for everyone to see. He later told me that its for his son to see his mom face. Everytime I confront him about everything he just ignores me. We hardly talk and see each other. We see each other once a month. And when I want to see him he says he's busy working. I don't know what to do anymore. He's hurt me so bad. PLEASE someone help me!!!

Hmmm.. First tot.. All these happend within four months...? M sure u forgot to include u had sex.. Did u? Anyway break up and move on, u do sound young ...

My dear, forget him and move on with your life. Hes a joker n'pls dont allow him to mess up ur life. Remember dt at the end of d'day u will be d'one dt will loose, he will definitely move on wit his life. "Straight from d'heart".

sweethrt forget him and move on. life is too short to b unhappy, u deserve to be happy so u just have to delete everything about him frm ur system though its buh u just have to try. to say dat hes no longer interested in u is stating d obvious...he does not deserve u. dont worry sumone beta will come ur way soon. cheer up

Move on, fifth person tellin u dis, all in 4months? Hahah dem dey follow u ni, use ur head and move on, unless u don degrade ursef frm getin someone beta again[color=#006600][/color]

This relationship of yours to be blunt has no future.Move on with your life young lady.I guess u guys have been intimate already.Learn to get to know ur nxt guy well before u rush things.

I really doubt the authenticity of the story

But I really love him. I don't understand what happened. Even now when I try talk to him he doesn't answer and on bbm he just reads my msgs and doesn't reply. I'm so heartbroken.

4 Months na hin u wan kill yasef?
4 months only and u've seen all these?
Is it when I appear in ur dream and slap u that you'll pack ur kaya out of his life?!

Nne, life is too short to live in sorrow n regrets... Leave his sorry azz and move on!!

U hav to move on wt ur life any relationshp founded on lies cant last. The ealier u make-up ur mind d beta 4 u

He basically wanted u for something else and am sure he's gotten what he wanted. That's why he's behaving strangely.
My dear, pls forget abt love here.. Move on with ur life. He never loved u.

*carrys megaphone
#screaming, Young lady leave him alone! Hez nt worth it! Arrgh, if u no hear dis wan na im b say u need deliverance!

He doesnt seem interested..wonder why you are?

Majority voice cannot be wrong here. Be wise, the sign is not good. Why run into a molue with your eyes open.

please move on

dear pls kw dat he is not a right man 4 u a rite man we luv, care n cherish u but in his case he does not luv u at all pls move on wit ur life pls

OP, you're just punishing yourself. MOVE ON.

melmo
l knew this will happened since u refuse my warning..So now he's still travell on may?..

misterseed: Majority voice cannot be wrong here. Be wise, the sign is not good. Why run into a molue with your eyes open.

hmmm... Neva knew ppl close dia eyes b4 entering molue.
@poster, if dis story is anytin 2 go by, i tink u nid 2 do a little more work on ur self exteem... U didn't nid evry1 here 2 tel u 2 move on b4 u do so cos dat option is jst nt negotiable in ds ur case

Op, you don enter one chance, jump down quickly before it is too late.

@ chikeorji123 yes I think so

STAY with him , he will change give him time, all these people are just singletons that have no idea what it means to be in a relationship, they are jealous and want you to be single like them. No one wants to be single on valentines day

Mindependent: STAY with him , he will change give him time, all these people are just singletons that have no idea what it means to be in a relationship, they are jealous and want you to be single like them. No one wants to be single on valentines day

Not only on val day..the melody need to goes on..l think Melmo 'the Op' clamouring above her league..oops just remember..how are u?..

@chikeorji123 never been better how are you?

Na wah u knw d answer to d question u ask..so y u ask lol...just pack commot oooo i don warn u ooo

Some pple mentality na die, some men are just like dat, with time he will grow, if you love him stick with him, try to work things out, am currently having some issues too but where is is desire there will be a flame, and some one get burnt and it does mean you gonna die, impossible is nothing, it does not mean if a man disses you today he aint gonna marry you tommorow QED

babe,dnt b a fool!
dnt dare bliv all dis pple talkin u to stick wif him if u truli lik him.
dnt wrk nytyn out...dis guy is openin ur msgs on bbm,
he knws u r givin him attention, for as long as u giv him attention he ll kip feelin kul.and u kip lossin ur repz...
jus go and THROW him out of ur contact. dnt tell him anytyn o. jus delect mumu....
d guy ll bcme confuse too. DONT call him wif ur numba or private numba o,dnt even try t.... wen u c him, jus pass lik u dnt knw him... NOW WE ARE TALKIN.... i bet he ll be as confused as u were, dos kind of pple lik attention, 1c u take t bac they come runnin bac. and even if he comes bac dnt accept him cos he hurt u and he didnt care. dos kind of pple dnt desrv u.

This story is so familiar. So familiar that I begin to think I am the OP ex bf. hmmm but some men sha.

"but I still love him" Yep, you'll find out later girl."I beg I de chop" ENOGH ADVICE PLS!!!

4 months and he already into u lyk dis, wat if is 4 yrs