Apology accepted jenny.thanks

baby_123: There are guys like this. They take that marrying into the mans family very seriously. I once dated someone that wanted me to pretend like my family didnt exist. And this was before marriage o. But he will force me to get to know all his family, and force me to get along with everybody. You did not fall from the sky. Your family cannot just disappear like that. He has to let go of past resentments and move on. Every family has reservations about anyone we marry anyway, so that shouldnt really carry on into the marriage. After all you married him. I am more worried about his inability to let things go, and say hurtful things just to get a point across though. Seems quite childish and a recipe for many issues in the future. You would really have to be careful with offending this one. He has a very long memory.

Couldn't agree more!!

Can someone tell this babe to get her pic off her profile? I`m sure the problem will skyrocket by the time someone who knows this couple feeds back the husband with all that`s transpired on here.

all-out:
Can someone tell this babe to get her pic off her profile? I`m sure the problem will skyrocket by the time someone who knows this couple feeds back the husband with all that`s transpired on here.

thanks.i hv done that.

ileobatojo:

Now, you're talking. So it's basically problem number 3 from my previous post. (I suspected it because you kinda slyly evaded answering my question).

Anyway, there are guys like that, I know a guy who just cannot handle the closeness of his wife's family because his family is not that close and insecurity/jealousy rears it's head. Anyway, now you know he is insecure with how close and generous your family is, you just have to find a way of managing things without appearing to rub it in his face. Sorry you are being put in such a situation. I really don't think it's fair to you that you now have to tiptoe around your husband and your family. But it is what it is. Hopefully, some day, he will warm up to the situation.

Statements like what you said to him though will not help matters though. I know it was in the heat of an argument, but he looks at it as you trying to rub your family's good fortune in his face. Basically, he interpreted it as you saying, "my family is in a better position to help us than yours if we ever need help".

Anyways, good luck to you! These things are part of the trials of marriage!

I believe you read the part she indicated her husbands family affluence.

dick hardener: I believe you read the part she indicated her husbands family affluence.

I did. And I had that in mind when I wrote that post you quoted. So yeah I still stand by it unless the OP indicates any different.