My ex boy of whom i have had not had any contact with in like 4 years just calls me out of the blues asking we meet one these days to catch- up .... here is the snag... we are now both married with kids... so i am wondering what kind of catch up he is taking about.. told him point blank that anit going to happen9no time ). i have received 2 calls today from him asking how far with the offer.... seriously
please guys...... any hint on what might be going on /or what he wants. .. thanks

ex bf?? wat if he actually wants to talk?

gree-die:
ex bf?? wat if he actually wants to talk?

talk ? Talk about what ? Abeg ignore him and his calls

He feels you might buy the idea of meeting up to bang like back in the days.It's the only catch up he means.Don't bother giving him attention.Ignore his calls.

People seems to get it all wrong with 'ex', even if the breakup was peaceful and memorable. Most people see their ex as mysteries. Ex is not your enemy, except he was sneaky and you broke up with him in pieces. There is nothing wrong meeting up (not in a secluded place) an ex who wants a meeting after ages not seen. He might mean well. Perhaps have a job he might want you to handle due to your known capabilities in that regards. No one knows tomorrow. Life offers us opportunities. If we can give complete strangers attention, I see no excuse giving same to your ex, who probably was a great friend but you couldnt have a life due to one emotional reason or the other.

Op, if you knew your ex very well, there is no big deal meeting him and see what he has to offer. Exercise caution with the meeting, be warm and firm in your responses. After all, both of you are married now. It's up to you