chiyex: When you talk to them here, they want to know if you got a degree or business. Materialistic questions are what they start of with. When you show interest, they give u a hard time and play with ur mind. If you go with white girls or african americans they get mad at u. What do they want? When they get close to 30, they become desperate..smh

3ndy:
would u prefer them to ask you what church u are going to?' how is the weather like?? so on and so forth??
if i have to make conversation with some one i don't know and plan to i certainly would ask what do you do?? i would not continue a conversation with someone who replies drug dealer.. or someone who says he's living on food stamps

3ndy:
would u prefer them to ask you what church u are going to?' how is the weather like?? so on and so forth??
if i have to make conversation with some one i don't know and plan to i certainly would ask what do you do?? i would not continue a conversation with someone who replies drug dealer.. or someone who says he's living on food stamps

3ndy:
would u prefer them to ask you what church u are going to?' how is the weather like?? so on and so forth??
if i have to make conversation with some one i don't know and plan to i certainly would ask what do you do?? i would not continue a conversation with someone who replies drug dealer.. or someone who says he's living on food stamps

drnoel:
Really, but that person that was living on food stamps could have made u happy cos he may have been ur soulmate. Its just that he was on his low when he met u. Nigerian chicks, u people should really look beyond materialism. I know a couple that were in similar situation. About the drugs part, I have no idea.

chiyex:



A lot of naija women are so short sighted that they cant see a man's potential. No wonder they miss out and then settle for anyone when age is no longer on their side.

numerical_guy:

Just because he's living on food stamps now don't mean he's going to live on it forever. The one you are always dreaming about, what makes you think he never once lived on food stamp. When he has made it, its girls like you that will be all over him with calls..

chiyex: When you talk to them here, they want to know if you got a degree or business. Materialistic questions are what they start of with. When you show interest, they give u a hard time and play with ur mind. If you go with white girls or african americans they get mad at u. What do they want? When they get close to 30, they become desperate..smh

190:


ask ogugua


thats how she made me run around the other day

chiyex: When you talk to them here, they want to know if you got a degree or business. Materialistic questions are what they start of with. When you show interest, they give u a hard time and play with ur mind. If you go with white girls or african americans they get mad at u. What do they want? When they get close to 30, they become desperate..smh

3ndy:
read my post!!! i said someone who is relying on food stamps!! meaning he doesn't even want to work!!! that is relying!!

Ileke-IdI:
The economy is rough right now. Nobody wants to end up with a baggage

3ndy:
when has a mere conversation lead to soulmate talks
u just want to know the person!! so if the person is going to be your soul mate y'all will be together!! that is what a soulmate is!!

3ndy:
annnd? what is the potential about a man that can't even lead a conversation??
what is the potential about a man who is ashamed of his occupation??
if i were a teacher and someone asked me what do u do?? i wouldn't be angry at all!!!

ogugua88:

[size=13pt]Generalizing in 2013?[/size]

chiyex:

did i mention shame at any point? is being a student something to be ashamed of ? i tell it like it is. if she doesnt like it.. fine. just an observation that i made a bunch of them are like that and not all.

REALITY101:

Lol!


Op it's just about you working hard, have your own thing. There's nothing wrong with them asking those questions. No woman wanna babysit a grown arss man.

Don't be like your big brother's/ uncles out here hunting for nurses, pharmacist and doctors but have less than $1000 in both their checking and savings account.

nbright: @bolded, not at all my brother... I am also one and I don't hide it... I haven't been to the States (never even touch plane sef) so I can't speak for the girls or guys over there, but in Nigeria, the girls won't want to date a student they will rather run after the working class guys.. Now tell me when I've graduted and now working will I want to date/marry those girls?, won't I also run after the younger ones around me?.

ifihearam:

Then date your level at the moment,when you graduate and have good job then you can upgrade.
At every point in time you have your level to date.

chikeorji123: .Working class..idle class..stagnant class..statues,well the way our ladies are treading majority of them will ended up been single.

Metalgoong: @OP

I disagree with you. I'm a student, and I have had good rapport with most of Nigerian girls I have met here in America. You need to have the right game that neutralizes their attitude which they use to cover their insecurities. And I must tell you, they are fun to be with if you know how to handle them.