baby_123:

hahahahaha. You are very smart and full of insight. No wonder only traditional marriage was done. The physical abuse aspect is sad, but this girl reacts like a screw is loose. Doesnt seem like she understands english too well. You didnt fall for the hype. Good for you. She better heed your advice. All these fake alarms. Do you want a cookie OP? So he wants you back? What should we do? Buy you a trophy? Better go and do court wedding, since when did traditional go to court Story land.

biolabee:
hmmmmmm.. true but not all the time

Some pple have issues with their spouse but are good providers to their kids
I know someone who does this exactly.. no form of spousal support which i do not agree but he does the best for his kid
However the op has made up her mind and just needed a sounding board

$25 million:
your head dey there jor. Too much intelligence

bukatyne: And what would such a father pass on to his kids? If he was bad to his kids, they would grow up and determine not to be like their father. The kid you are referring to will adopt his/her father as his/her role model and become a very bad spouse except if they are exposed to other loving families.

PrettyCindy:


You are obviously the type who comes to nairaland and say "i will not believe this story till i hear from the other person". For christsake, this is Nairaland not Lindaikeji. Do you expect to get on the phone with the other party and interrogate him/her?
No one on this forum gives a damn what you believe. It doesnt mean anything to me what you believe. You hear?

Secondly, nairaland is full of bullys and abusers. I made it a point not to ever abuse anyone on this forum but the person (s) you referred to deserved it. Did you even bother to read what nonsense she wrote (i hope they havent modified their insultive comments) or you were just interested in my own response? so according to you, its ok to path the back of someone who abuses you for no reason.

Lastly, are you implying that i didnt respect the man i was married to? How dare you?
So in your dictionary of wifehood and motherhood, its ok to justify an abusive and irreponsible husband? So if i had actually caused the reason he physically abused me, to you i deserve it?
Caropy, i weep for you and for your female children.

bengreat: @Uju,you and $ seem to have known somewhere

InvertedHammer:


$25 collected "something" from Uju and no gree pay...so it seems. He called Uju "a waitress, ashewo" and Uju no contend but kept saying something of "run but can't hide, etc". Throw South Africa into the mix, you will understand the plot.

$25m pay Uju her money. Na where person dey work im dey chop. If u do, you must pay.

A jilted woman and misery...Ok ooo