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Continued from Part 2

That was the bad news. Now, here is the GOOD NEWS for the nice guys (only).

Believe it or not, that overgrown Boy Scout approach to women that everybody tells you is a liability… Nice Guys Finish Last… hmm, remember that?. That can actually be a mega advantagefor you Mr. Nice Guy.

You see, a jerk has the boldness, fearlessness and courage to walk up to a woman and face her rejection — kudos to him. But that’s all this cocky egomaniac has going for him. Some better-than-you arrogance, some charm from him being a player, and the passion driven by him being the center of his own universe. He has no clue what it’s like to have a heart that can love a woman because his idea of love is getting drunk every night and sexing it up with pretty, dumb air-heads — or anything with a skirt standing in a dimly- lit street corner.

The Nice Guy (a real one) on the other hand, is a man of character and is sensitive to women’s feelings, and given the chance is capable of being a good guy in a relationship. But unfortunately, too much sensitivity and often too much “political correctness” is all nice guys have to offer. A lot of heart, brain smarts (but not so much social smarts), and not so much guts (too much wishy-washiness).

Women don’t give “nice guys” much of a chance because “you guys are so easily intimidated, try too hard to be liked, show too much interest too soon, and turn yourselves inside out to please. It’s so hard to respect someone who always says “you’re right…”, “anything you say…”, “bend over and I’ll kiss your ass”. As partners you nice guys bore us women to death and drain out all the passion, love and life out of us.

A real bad boy has the boldness, fearlessness and courage of the jerk and the thoughtfulness and sensitivity of the Nice Guy — and he takes these traits to a whole other level…

Here is where being a Nice Guy can really be a BLESSING.

Since it’s so much harder to acquire a “loving heart”, develop character and learn how to be sensitive to women’s feelings in ways that make women feel truly respected and truly loved, it’s so much harder for a jerk to embody that DEPTH OF EMOTIONAL RESONANCE that the bad boy has.

That gives you the Nice Guy an edge over jerks because most of you already have a lot of heart and character, and all you need to do is............continue reading http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/why-women-dig-the-bad-boy-sex-appeal-part-3/http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/why-women-dig-the-bad-boy-sex-appeal-part-3/