kennyalao:
I see you have been abusing, cursing and wishing evil. Exactly the attributes of Jezebel's daughter FFK alluded to. I don't even agree with him that Reeva belongs to this class but i partially agree with him that daughters of Jezebels that must be avoided exist based on prov 27:15 and prov 21:19. That does not mean Oscar will not face his music now and in the age to come. But just picking you up when i see that you look like one of those that FFK talks about with your mouth(or is it fingers on keyboard) that is faster than your brain. In addition your evil wish is too late in the day; I have escaped evil like u.

igbo_barbie: I did not spend valentines day unlike you and i hope u were not beaten on that day . Anyways sowi if i offended u i guess ur poo that u said just made me . And u are funny cos u just said i should state my point without being abusive yet u turn around and call me dumb oh well some ppl are just hypocrites

alala dakosta: made some sense to me.woman should learn not to provoke a man beyond his bearing capacity.when a man is mad at you,common sense is keep quite and say "am sorry" to calm him down. That Moku Mogbe Modaran Moment is when you trying to flex muscle with an angry man.not justifying his action though.he needs just walk away next time,sadly no next time for him. pathetic.

igbo_barbie: Your the biggest fool i have ever met and coming from a women i have no words. Oscar Pistorious had a history of domestic abuse even with his previous girlfriends so no matter how great a sportsmen he is. What goes behind close doors is what kind of person he really is. Nobody women or man deserves to be killed "provoked" or not. If you are in a relationship with someone where you feel the urge to kill them then it's better you end it because it is not a healthy relationship. He is a monster and i hope he rots in jail. I also hope that you never experience such a guy because i'd like to hear you say that i provoked him that's why he beat me. Women like you are the ones who usually end up like Reeva.

Yoruba_Omoge:

And this got 26 likes? Nigerians are worse than I thought.

Yoruba_Omoge:

And this got 26 likes? Nigerians are worse than I thought.

cnn_olofofo:

so? i think u and ibo barbie are both thinking from your toes
check now its 29 ,if you are the type that think outside the box,you will see she is not justifying his action,rather she telling we lady to be careful when our man is angry with us.same as FFK stated.

igbo_barbie: i understand. Now they are saying she "provoked" him smdh. Well to each their own. There are women beaters and women who love to be beaten on this site so whatever gets them going is on them.

cnn_olofofo:

so? i think u and ibo barbie are both thinking from your toes
check now its 29 ,if you are the type that think outside the box,you will see she is not justifying his action,rather she telling we lady to be careful when our man is angry with us.same as FFK stated.

cnn_olofofo:

Dont tell me you waiting for her to call you dumb before u know u r dunb.
YES YOU ARE DUMB. from what you wrote down i can clearly see your dumbness,stupid.

cnn_olofofo:

so? i think u and ibo barbie are both thinking from your toes
check now its 29 ,if you are the type that think outside the box,you will see she is not justifying his action,rather she telling we lady to be careful when our man is angry with us.same as FFK stated.

BashToks:

Listen lady.. this forum has given more emphasis on ladies to control thier words than urging men to control their temper.. That's not acceptable when its a case of a Raging Loon killing his lover in cold blood irrespective of what that lover might have said.
You all say FFK is not justifying what he did but ur efforts at criticizing women's say in this case make it seem like Pistorius is the unfortunate party.
I have received insults from women and men alike (some deserved and some uncalled for) but I have never tried to physically violate or harm anybody.. certainly not a lady.
Nobody deserves to die unjustly in the hands of another except in self defense maybe..
Violence is not tolerable
Violence against a weaker sex is pathetic to say the least
Now, killing is inhumane and thats why u see death sentences for murder and not verbal abuses.
So concentrate more of your efforts on PISTORIUS THE MURDERER than on LADIES TRY TO CONTROL YOUR TONGUE.
Men like ladies also say stuff.

BashToks:

Listen lady.. this forum has given more emphasis on ladies to control thier words than urging men to control their temper.. That's not acceptable when its a case of a Raging Loon killing his lover in cold blood irrespective of what that lover might have said.
You all say FFK is not justifying what he did but ur efforts at criticizing women's say in this case make it seem like Pistorius is the unfortunate party.
I have received insults from women and men alike (some deserved and some uncalled for) but I have never tried to physically violate or harm anybody.. certainly not a lady.
Nobody deserves to die unjustly in the hands of another except in self defense maybe..
Violence is not tolerable
Violence against a weaker sex is pathetic to say the least
Now, killing is inhumane and thats why u see death sentences for murder and not verbal abuses.
So concentrate more of your efforts on PISTORIUS THE MURDERER than on LADIES TRY TO CONTROL YOUR TONGUE.
Men like ladies also say stuff.

BashToks:

Listen lady.. this forum has given more emphasis on ladies to control thier words than urging men to control their temper.. That's not acceptable when its a case of a Raging Loon killing his lover in cold blood irrespective of what that lover might have said.
You all say FFK is not justifying what he did but ur efforts at criticizing women's say in this case make it seem like Pistorius is the unfortunate party.
I have received insults from women and men alike (some deserved and some uncalled for) but I have never tried to physically violate or harm anybody.. certainly not a lady.
Nobody deserves to die unjustly in the hands of another except in self defense maybe..
Violence is not tolerable
Violence against a weaker sex is pathetic to say the least
Now, killing is inhumane and thats why u see death sentences for murder and not verbal abuses.
So concentrate more of your efforts on PISTORIUS THE MURDERER than on LADIES TRY TO CONTROL YOUR TONGUE.
Men like ladies also say stuff.

alala dakosta: made some sense to me.woman should learn not to provoke a man beyond his bearing capacity.when a man is mad at you,common sense is keep quite and say "am sorry" to calm him down. That Moku Mogbe Modaran Moment is when you trying to flex muscle with an angry man.not justifying his action though.he needs just walk away next time,sadly no next time for him. pathetic.

alala dakosta: made some sense to me.woman should learn not to provoke a man beyond his bearing capacity.when a man is mad at you,common sense is keep quite and say "am sorry" to calm him down. That Moku Mogbe Modaran Moment is when you trying to flex muscle with an angry man.not justifying his action though.he needs just walk away next time,sadly no next time for him. pathetic.

JENMAUCY: [b][/b] no be only keep quiet and say am sorry but to kneel down or prostrate b4 him praising him even when he is the one dat offends you...you know dat girls are always @ fault

chukkynwob:

You never call am my lord join... Its pathetic how we see women in Nigeria. PATHETIC!!!

igbo_barbie: And this is the same guy who agreed am a jezebel Pathetic i tell ya

Yoruba_Omoge:

And this got 26 likes? Nigerians are worse than I thought.

chukkynwob:

[size=28pt]5000 likes[/size]

chukkynwob:

barr.chy:
Its a pity when men take d opposite direction from d truth just for cheap popularity! Cos dat is exactly wat kayode is doin, let me ask u all who think provocation is a defence to domestic violence...if a 6 ft 4" macho man calls u a dog and abuses u in d street, will u be provoked to punch him? Won't u quietly walk away like d proverbial dog with tails in bw his legs, because u know dat no matter how provoked u are, he'll still pound d living day lite out of u if u react....yet u pound ur spouse...even maim n kill dem n open your mouth to say she provoked u.....its not provokation, its wickedness n d fact ur so weak u think u can flex musscle on a weaker person!

5000 likes



This was the post I gave 5000 likes,does this call you a jezebel in anyway?

igbo_barbie: no on page 4 after that guy called me a jezebel

chukkynwob:

That was the post from page 4,if you follow my commnets on this thread,I have condemned all forms of abuse with the strongest possible decent terms. Check the post again

beebop: I guess I should stop being shocked and disgusted by what some Nigerian men spout out but this time, I'm ready to puke.

1. NONE of you know the character of Reeva Steenkamp. HOW can you be so quick to judge that she "provoked" him. What ever happened that night, SHE DID NOT DESERVE to lose her life. And to even justify her death by saying that "some" women are whatever kind of people is plain disgusting. Pistorious HAS HIMSELF TO BLAME for losing his career over his trigger finger, accident or not.

2. I've said it before and I'll say it again. There is NO amount of provocation that warrants beating or murder. NONE. WALK away and be the bigger individual. I have seen men beating women on the slightest (non) provocation and there should be a special place in hell for those B.astards. If you come across "troublesome" women, LEAVE. I don't even know where you come across these people, no man in my immediate family or any man I call friend has never HAD cause to beat a woman.

May Nigerian women be saved from these men who will kill. maim and beat a woman and blame it on them.

ileobatojo:

Chukkynwob, igbo barbie was not referring to you, she was just lending her support to your post when she made the jezebel reference. Although it does seem she got the posters mixed up. In any case, she was actually supporting your post by referencing the other poster.

You and Bashtoks have been so on point I can hardly stand it. Kudos. Several other posters have also been incredibly sensible in not joining in the victim blaming.