vislabraye: Its not only good looks that counts but fitness and freshness. Some goodlooking guys are malnourished and it shows on them.
You also need to have class and be a good communicator. Don't depend on your looks alone cos that's not all a girl looks for.

jericco1: I don't knw, but i can woo a girl.. But its difficult to stay with one cos. I'm always attracted to every girl...hmmm i just play along, and i hve a lovely gf!.

bayfam: True talk....and if the handsome dude is even shy,makes it worse because that attribute makes girls says woo him the more.... Pls be bold and post pics..

masks: BRO really its a problem. I've been called arrogant many times. Learning to hide more.

God bless you my sisters

sagytarius™:
Post ur pix lets affirm. lol, just kidding.
Well, as for me, I enjoy my uglidity. It drives women and their troubles away from me.

God bless you my sisters

adulthood: Life as a good-looking guy is far different from what the average guy/ugly guys go through. No offense but for handsome guys the game is different. They usually have no idea on how to woo a woman, because all their lives they never had to make an effort to get girls to flirt with them. When in a social gathering, the girls would always treat them differently. Every girl will always be too nice to them or always flirt with them, making them the center of attention wherever they go. Life can be frustrating, as some guys may start disliking them for the fact that every girl always wanna be around them.

Personally their orientation is different as they tend to be very self conscious, conceited, selfish, intolerant, proud, and arrogant. They hardly make an effort to talk to a woman because they are used to girls talking to them first.

The funny thing is if a goodlooking guy isnt careful he may end up being sad and miserable, because his blessings could also be his curse. Personally i had to tell myself that i am not goodlooking whatsoever in other to have a normal human orientation. I was becoming too full of myself, never talked to any girl first because they always talked to me first. It started to affect me as i thought i was too good for any girl. Right now the game has changed for me because i dont care how i look anymore. I now initiate convos with girls first and i try to be the normal guy that isnt too self conscious and think the world revolves around him.

(the normal game for the average guy is the ability to flirt with a girl, respect her, care for her. Be nice to people, and be all round humble, polite and caring to the opposite gender).

Key point of my writing this is to make aware the fact that good looking guys are playing a different game everyday of their lives. And trust me when i say that game is far from the normal game that the average guy plays on a daily basis. their kinda game is mean, selfish and delicate and can ruin a persons life.


I actually can relate to everything you said up here . nice one.


I have played this game and trust me when i say this game is a bundle of paranoia and restlessness.

kandiikane: Looks without personality means nothing. Met this dude, very handsome but the guy was so duuuuuuuull! Had to pass him off to a friend for a one night stand.

Abeg, personality, personality, personality is what women want.

[size=3pt]well, with a face I can proudly show off[/size]

chucky234: @with face I can proudly show off
Seem you are talking about me

brat4222: Seriously, being handsome can be a disadvantage.
1. Girls see u as a play boy. it took d grace of God to convince my wife I wasnt a playboy, that i wanted her for keeps. My wife likes to flaunt me to her friends which can be sometimes embarrassing (and annoying).
2. People see u as arogant, so i go out of my way to smile and be friendly. I most times greet people first and try to make them comfortable around me.
3. Looks can open doors for u but will not prove d quality of who u are. I was employed at my present jobs coz of my looks but from past experience, i had to quickly prove myself that i had what it took for d job and my employers were quite impressed.
4. it can be quite embarrassing, eg when you are nominated as the most handsome man in the office (even when there were younger finer men).
5. It could also attract the wrong people (especially girls) around you coz they want to be seen with u. People sometime take advantage of u.
6. There is pressure on u to date a girl who is equally fine coz an average girl is not good enough for u.
7. U cant stand or walk down d road side or busstop for long coz people keep steering at u.
8. when u tell a girl excuse me, she thinks u want to toast her and she puts her guard on.

I also take advantage of it when i discovered people like to listen and be around me. during my service year i got involved with HIV campaign and preaching d gospel so i could reach out to lots of youths. it really paid off coz it gave me oppotunity to work and travel with UNICEF and NGOs. I do a lot of mentoring and counselling to youths, teens and young couples who want to marry.

So many advantages and disadvantages but I thank God for making me the way I am. Looks can open doors but what happens when u get in has a lot to do with ur personality and ur brains. So my advice, develop urself to the greatest height. Ur looks will be an added advantage.

chucky234: Kai all this documentary na just to say you handsome

adulthood:

Personally their orientation is different as they tend to be very self conscious, conceited, selfish, intolerant, proud, and arrogant. They hardly make an effort to talk to a woman because they are used to girls talking to them first.

Key point of my writing this is to make aware the fact that good looking guys are playing a different game everyday of their lives. And trust me when i say that game is far from the normal game that the average guy plays on a daily basis. their kinda game is mean, selfish and delicate and can ruin a persons life.

sagytarius™:
Post ur pix lets affirm. lol, just kidding.
Well, as for me, I enjoy my uglidity. It drives women and their troubles away from me.

adulthood: Life as a good-looking guy is far different from what the average guy/ugly guys go through. No offense but for handsome guys the game is different. They usually have no idea on how to woo a woman, because all their lives they never had to make an effort to get girls to flirt with them. When in a social gathering, the girls would always treat them differently. Every girl will always be too nice to them or always flirt with them, making them the center of attention wherever they go. Life can be frustrating, as some guys may start disliking them for the fact that every girl always wanna be around them.

Personally their orientation is different as they tend to be very self conscious, conceited, selfish, intolerant, proud, and arrogant. They hardly make an effort to talk to a woman because they are used to girls talking to them first.

The funny thing is if a goodlooking guy isnt careful he may end up being sad and miserable, because his blessings could also be his curse. Personally i had to tell myself that i am not goodlooking whatsoever in other to have a normal human orientation. I was becoming too full of myself, never talked to any girl first because they always talked to me first. It started to affect me as i thought i was too good for any girl. Right now the game has changed for me because i dont care how i look anymore. I now initiate convos with girls first and i try to be the normal guy that isnt too self conscious and think the world revolves around him.

(the normal game for the average guy is the ability to flirt with a girl, respect her, care for her. Be nice to people, and be all round humble, polite and caring to the opposite gender).

Key point of my writing this is to make aware the fact that good looking guys are playing a different game everyday of their lives. And trust me when i say that game is far from the normal game that the average guy plays on a daily basis. their kinda game is mean, selfish and delicate and can ruin a persons life.

I have played this game and trust me when i say this game is a bundle of paranoia and restlessness.

kandiikane:

Dude, you're not the type of guy I go for.

Skydo2: that's exactly what's happening to me now.am very handsome beyond imagination,likewise very hard for me to woo or talk to girls now am tired

Billyonaire: Its all about the money.

chucky234: Me wey date Kate Middleton before Prince Phillip marry am na him you dey form for,oya show your pic make we see.
Person wey dey see guguru and ekpa for mile2 bus stop go dey form for NL,abeg park well for corner jare.