1. Not real. Nice guys are too nice. No one can
always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They
are busy being nice instead of being real and
women instinctively don’t trust that. Bad boys
“keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the
apple cart.

2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice
guys don’t set boundaries or make any real
demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all
over him or control him. Women can’t respect a
man they can control. No respect equals no
attraction.

3. Predictable. Most people lead boring,
predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people
who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad
boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never
a challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus
no challenge equals I prefer a bad boy.

4. Mother Nature. Women are designed to
nurture. However, instead of doing this with
children, they often end up doing it with bad
boys. They think their love will save them. Nice
guys rarely need to be saved.

5. Fixer-upper. Nice guys don’t usually need to
be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a
project. Women think if they can “create” the
perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if
they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t
have to look at what needs to be fixed in their
own lives.

6. Sp*rm wars. Women are designed to
procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad
boys are sending an unconscious message that
they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of
losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are
sending a message that they don’t think their
genes are good enough, so they won’t
misbehave.

7. Fear of intimacy. If a woman is afraid of
intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can
avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get
close enough to him to have to go there. A nice
guy will eventually want a commitment, and
that’s scary.

8. Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable
with people who treat us better than we treat
ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself,
the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative
belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re
not familiar with.

9. s*x. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in
bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and
think a nice guy won’t be able to take control
and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as
being able to deliver, even though that may not
always be the case.

10. Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who
wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they
wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff
they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile,
when a woman describes someone as a nice guy,
she means, “He’s not hot.”

11. Charm. Nice guys don’t always know what to
say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad
boys can be very charming and know exactly
what women want to hear. However, they
eventually switch over to being selfish. By the
time they reveal their true colors, the woman has
fallen for them and has a hard time letting go.

12. Protection. Historically, men have protected
women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys
give the illusion of being able to protect women,
while with nice guys, women aren’t so sure. Life
is about balance. Most men fall into either the
bad boy or the nice guy category. The ideal man
is neither, but walks that fine line between the
two. Until men learn how to do this, more often
than not, women will choose the bad boy, until
they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his
good ones.

They end up marrying the bad guy who continues to treat them badly and realise later in life that the good guy is the best gift in a woman's life.

What kind of thread is this
Arrrrgh!

@op. You still have chance to be a good guy. There is nothing positive about being a bad guy

xynerise: @op. You still have chance to be a good guy. There is nothing positive about being a bad guy

Tell me..... You no be bad guy?

didadavid: They end up marrying the bad guy who continues to treat them badly and realise later in life that the good guy is the best gift in a woman's life.

I don't agree with you on this.......

Mcheew.

Yield: Mcheew.

Mtcheww........

Ijele-igbo:


Mtcheww........

Mcheewww²

Smh

Yield:

Mcheewww²

LOL...... Just tell me baby, why are you hissing?

*waka pass* and staring at the thread with evil eyes.

luvmijeje: *waka pass* and staring at the thread with evil eyes.

*draws her back* come here! Who you dey look with that ya evil eye

Ijele-igbo:


*draws her back* come here! Who you dey look with that ya evil eye

*staring from across the thread with a camera*
I like where this is going...

Nice post. But truth is,im something of a tomboy so deep down,i feel as if a macho male challenges me,whereas i can 'roughen' the nice guy...

ovalrose: Nice post. But truth is,im something of a tomboy so deep down,i feel as if a macho male challenges me,whereas i can 'roughen' the nice guy...

Nice.......when the bad one beats you black and blue, don't say men are beast oooo

ovalrose: Nice post. But truth is,im something of a tomboy so deep down,i feel as if a macho male challenges me,whereas i can 'roughen' the nice guy...

Yeah! Bad boiz rule!!!

Mynd_44:
Nice.......when the bad one beats you black and blue, don't say men are beast oooo

Free her jor!
She needs a real man!!

Ijele-igbo:


Free her jor!
She needs a real man!!

okay oooo

Mynd_44:
okay oooo

She needs a man who's physical, who's dominant on bed, who's aggressive and who's got a black heart!!!!!!

Even the christian sisters get turned on by this kind of men.....

Caracta:

We know what the girls want!

Ijele-igbo:


We know what the girls want!

I see...

Ijele-igbo:


We know what the girls want!

I doubt you know what you want sef

Caracta:
I see...

You're not a learner......

Mynd_44:
I doubt you know what you want sef

Don't be a doubting thomas

Ijele-igbo:


Don't be a doubting thomas

Smh

Ijele for ur mind,u be bad boy ok o.

unfortunatly for them i think a greater part of this, is true.
they just won't admit it.
have niyiced how non has outrightly said it does not apply?
they are either keeping mute, walking past or viewing from afar.
me sef i siddon de look

luvmijeje: Ijele for ur mind,u be bad boy ok o.

Good boy no dey reign!
The kingdom of God suffereth violence and the "bad boiz" take it by force - That's our motto

Eeeehn I hail o,bad boy in the house.

luvmijeje: Eeeehn I hail o,bad boy in the house.

Welcome to the family!!!