i told him i don't blame gals that double dates, d statement got him upset, but he didn't say anything,just for him to say ''instead of double dating that i should walk out '' during dinner, i got mad dat he could say something like that to my face, i left d food n entered d room, he also left d food, i felt bad, but bin d lady who wants a peaceful relationship i came out ,uncovered the food n asked him to come eat.
i always expect him to like pamper me or talk to me or hold me close wen i get upset, but he doesn't.

we have bin dating for like 5months,planning towards marriage, but am thinking hope am not d one forcing this relationship, considering the fact dat his igbo n am not,language issues n other little stuffs, although he has assured me that is not an issue, i don't know if am ignoring somethings n tryin to perfect my relationship n ignoring little signs,

if he really loves me y doesn't he pamper me wen i get angry?

awwww sorry about that!
You guys need to talk. Express your pains, don't be aggressive and don't threaten to leave cos' he might just show you the door.

You mean you told him you don't blame girls that double date? What do u think he will infer from that? Although I was not there and wouldn't know exactly how you said it to make a statement.

Dude surely loves you that's why he could get angry @ those words.. If I no send you, if you like tell me say you dey do gehs join me, I no go send.

Op, are u gonna judge his feelings for you on the basis that he doesn't know enough to pamper u whenever u are vexed? I'm sorry that's so petty and pathetic. Just to help you u appreciate we all have different "love languages". Go and find the book, the 5 languages of love...

kpdc85: i told him i don't blame gals that double dates, d statement got him upset, but he didn't say anything,just for him to say ''instead of double dating that i should walk out '' during dinner, i got mad dat he could say something like that to my face, i left d food n entered d room, he also left d food, i felt bad, but bin d lady who wants a peaceful relationship i came out ,uncovered the food n asked him to come eat.
i always expect him to like pamper me or talk to me or hold me close wen i get upset, but he doesn't.

we have bin dating for like 5months,planning towards marriage, but am thinking hope am not d one forcing this relationship, considering the fact dat his igbo n am not,language issues n other little stuffs, although he has assured me that is not an issue, i don't know if am ignoring somethings n tryin to perfect my relationship n ignoring little signs,

if he really loves me y doesn't he pamper me wen i get angry?

I am still yet to get your point.... You told him u support cheating, he gave u a matured answer and you vexed... Sorry your not ready for marriage... I am beginning to feel for the guy.

kpolli: I am still yet to get your point.... You told him u support cheating, he gave u a matured answer and you vexed... Sorry your not ready for marriage... I am beginning to feel for the guy.

Hahaha! Oops! I didn't see that part. Lolz
But are you guys not supposed to pamper a woman when she's mad? Sometimes we fake it just to get pampered and the guy is not falling for it. Kinda sad!

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Yvete:

Hahaha! Oops! I didn't see that part. Lolz
But are you guys not supposed to pamper a woman when she's mad? Sometimes we fake it just to get pampered and the guy is not falling for it. Kinda sad!

Fake it kor, pamper nii.... If I was the guy, I can break up cos she has used style to tell me she can contemplate double dating...

I would advice you to stay with ur other boyfriend....and leave this dude alone...he sounds like a serious guy to me.....obviously you are already double dating....I dont understand why some women have to do asewo even when they have everything....I just dey look you..smh

This thread is a good reason why only matured people should be in a relationship. The OP is definately a kid......

Must you judge your relationship by some random crap you probably read from a magazine? "He does not pamper" since when did that become a criteria for measuring love?

Nansense

He doesnt pamper u,isnt d one to initiate d make up shows u like him more than he does for u.i would say giv d relationship time for him develop true feelings for u

kia , some of you are not nice oo, probably there are some little tins i didnt explain.i agree his a gentleman and been human, you tend to wonder when such tins happen ,probably i over reacted a little

kpdc85: kia , some of you are not nice oo, probably there are some little tins i didnt explain.i agree his a gentleman and been human, you tend to wonder when such tins happen ,probably i over reacted a little

Well a good thing you know you were wrong. Now retrave your steps and sin no more

i honestly wonder if women think correctly sometimes... honestly no offence intended at all but it seems like yalls brains are prone to emotion induced malfunction. you pissed him off, then got pissed off yourself and actually expect him to come pamper yu? wat r yu, some baby in diapers?? why is it that women just want to take, take, take and take? is love your birth right?

try69: You mean you told him you don't blame girls that double date? What do u think he will infer from that? Although I was not there and wouldn't know exactly how you said it to make a statement.

Dude surely loves you that's why he could get angry @ those words.. If I no send you, if you like tell me say you dey do gehs join me, I no go send.

Since when does the presence of anger signify love?

Yield:

Since when does the presence of anger signify love?

Maybe I would change the word "angry" to "jealous" for u to understand me more..The lady used a word and humans will always use what your take on a subject is to judge what your actions to such situation will be like..And please read the next line after what you bolded from what you quoted.

I mean, how could we know that?

190: Huh - what's this
A nigerian girl giving her man un-necessary problems again

LMAO

U are truly a clown. .... Thumbs up man! With many more of u, Nigerian men are save from "Nigerian girls"

Nextworldnx:


LMAO

U are truly a clown. .... Thumbs up man! With many more of u, Nigerian men are save from "Nigerian girls"

Don't be so sure

ladies are met to be pampered,u guys should get it that's how God has created them to be

try69:

Maybe I would change the word "angry" to "jealous" for u to understand me more..The lady used a word and humans will always use what your take on a subject is to judge what your actions to such situation will be like..And please read the next line after what you bolded from what you quoted.

You didn't answer the question.

Using "jealous" instead of "angry" wouldn't have made any difference.

kpdc85: ladies are met to be pampered,u guys should get it that's how God has created them to be

it wasnt God that created women....it was the other creature

Yield:

You didn't answer the question.

Using "jealous" instead of "angry" wouldn't have made any difference.

Even the creator said he's a jealous God my dear....we fall in and out of love, that's if you have being there..

kpdc85: ladies are met to be pampered,u guys should get it that's how God has created them to be

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