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Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by lindalee(f): 3:07pm On Mar 20, 2008
I was going through an article on a newspaper when i saw a highlighted headline titled Nigerian guys are not romantic, a view of a cameroonian girl. i was really surprised. i wanted to bring the topic to nairaland so i can know ur views is it really true?
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by efuah(f): 3:11pm On Mar 20, 2008
False.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by kojeiwa(m): 3:11pm On Mar 20, 2008
True
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by efuah(f): 3:14pm On Mar 20, 2008
So u're not romantic? undecided
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Busta(f): 3:15pm On Mar 20, 2008
This topic has already been dealt with

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-120644.0.html
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Nobody: 1:39pm On Mar 21, 2008
false,my husband is d most romantic man on earth
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Onchedu(m): 9:02am On Dec 31, 2010
It's difficult to be romantic when its obvious the one with whom U should be romantic is indulging romantic advances from other people and sees nothing wrong with that.

Anyway, romance has a general description of what it should be and an individualistic description. Perhaps this camerounian babe in question didn't find her definition and appreciation of romance in the Nigerian men she surveyed.

Effective communication nurtures romance and romance that comes from effective communication nurtures the former.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Creamish(f): 10:03am On Dec 31, 2010
For me, i think some Naija men are romantic in their own way . . if u base your definition of Romance on wat u see in movies or in europe, u prolly wont get wat u want cos they have a different approach to romance. e.g . . dont expect flowers from a naija man who was born and bred in naija . . . dont expect him to open d door for you . . cos u wont have known bout dat gesture if u neva watched a movie . . . they prolly will do things ud neva expect and if u rily want to b fair, u'd see it as their own way of being romantic.

bottom line, dont compare our naija men to europeans cos we have our own unique style of being romantic. Have an open mind in ur relationship and u'l def appreciate ur man more and find romance in things he does dat u never will, if u keep comparing him to Europeans! wink
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by InkedNerd(f): 10:10am On Dec 31, 2010
Creamish:

For me, i think some Naija men are romantic in their own way . . if u base your definition of Romance on wat u see in movies or in europe, u prolly wont get wat u want cos they have a different approach to romance. e.g . . dont expect flowers from a naija man who was born and bred in naija . . . dont expect him to open d door for you . . cos u wont have known bout dat gesture if u neva watched a movie  . . . they prolly will do things ud neva expect and if u rily want to b fair, u'd see it as their own way of being romantic.

bottom line, dont compare our naija men to europeans cos we have our own unique style of being romantic.  Have an open mind in your relationship and u'l def appreciate your man more and find romance in things he does dat u never will, if u keep comparing him to Europeans!   wink

Well said.

@OP: It depends on the person's definition of romantic.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrCork2: 10:22am On Dec 31, 2010
Mr Cork<<<<<<< Romantick angry
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Creamish(f): 10:42am On Dec 31, 2010
%Mr Cork:

Mr Cork<<<<<<< Romantick angry

. . as in bug style? tongue
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by freecocoa(f): 11:29am On Dec 31, 2010
Majority of them are romantic.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Mygoldie(f): 11:31am On Dec 31, 2010
when it comes to them having a free pu n ny,they can be romantic.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by InkedNerd(f): 11:34am On Dec 31, 2010
[b]^^^ [/b]Lmao
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by iice(f): 12:23pm On Dec 31, 2010
Am i the only one seeing different people? undecided
I find them romantic ooo. Or maybe it's coz i'm not so romantic or i just got lucky/unlucky with the romantic ones undecided
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrsEve2(f): 12:25pm On Dec 31, 2010
Nigerian men sucks when it come to romance. They assumed a tap and a kiss is romantic with their boring and mundane arses!
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by switdick(m): 12:30pm On Dec 31, 2010
^^hmmmm blame it on our girj§,they dont like R0mance!
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Mygoldie(f): 12:37pm On Dec 31, 2010
switdick:

^^hmmmm blame it on our girj§,they dont like R0mance!






you must have met up with trannies then, not our Nigerian girls.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by switdick(m): 12:38pm On Dec 31, 2010
Or anyhow you choose to see it if you can come up with such conclusion,then so can i for the opposite gender abi how do you see it?
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by InkedNerd(f): 12:39pm On Dec 31, 2010
switdick:

^^hmmmm blame it on our girj§,they dont like R0mance!

Who told you we don't like romance? Keep in mind, we're talking about a culture where people are taught to suppress themselves sexually undecided.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrsEve2(f): 12:40pm On Dec 31, 2010
switdick:

Or anyhow you choose to see it if you can come up with such conclusion,then so i can for the opposite gender abi how do you see it?

This is coming from a person name SWITDICK undecided  [size=33pt]Priceless![/size]
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrsEve2(f): 12:41pm On Dec 31, 2010
Inked_Nerd:


Who told you we don't like romance? Keep in mind, we're talking about a culture where people are taught to suppress themselves sexually undecided.

I don't know why.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by TippyTop(m): 12:42pm On Dec 31, 2010
As long as Naija women are only interested in money there won't be much romance.
Money and romance don't mix.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrsEve2(f): 12:44pm On Dec 31, 2010
Hmm, there are NON-NIGERIAN girls on this site as well and we AGREE WITH THEM.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by switdick(m): 12:46pm On Dec 31, 2010
My point exactly is that should romance be limited to the girls only? So u say the girls like romance and the guys are not romantic! Hmmm way2 go, how many guyz have u been with?
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Mygoldie(f): 12:47pm On Dec 31, 2010
Tippy Top:

As long as Naija women are only interested in money there won't be much romance.
Money and romance don't mix.






You must be a broke as s,then. undecided cos the topic is all about Romance,not money.why digress?
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by switdick(m): 12:52pm On Dec 31, 2010
If u just stand or sit there typing while u take a nap,slinging your indescretion of guyz not being romantic in nigeria without surveying nigeria and her content{individual§}then thats shallow!!!!
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by switdick(m): 1:03pm On Dec 31, 2010
@mrs eve u talk about my name, priceless, i laugh but not in shock cos i am not surprise at one of your numerous indescretions again, well i dnt knw u but u ve given me enuf reason not to,since u r a Man Hater and u ve a husband is he also not romantic?u heared some1 of same gender as u here say otherwise,and u still insist on your superficial prattling about romance in nigeria, i rest my case!
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrsEve2(f): 1:03pm On Dec 31, 2010
Just like a Nigerian man to think everything is about money.  Oooh lawd!
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrsEve2(f): 1:06pm On Dec 31, 2010
switdick:

@mrs eve u talk about my name, priceless, i laugh but not in shock cos i am not surprise at your numerous indescretions again, well i dnt knw u but u ve given me enuf reason not to,since u r a Man Hater and u ve a husband is he also not romantic?u heared some1 of same gender as u here say otherwise,and u still insist on your superficial prattling about romance in nigeria, i rest my case!

Getting a little emotional are we? cheesy I am a man hater because I agree with what some of the posters said about YOUR kind being unromantic? Okay. IF it make you feel any better. I will take one for the team!
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by Mygoldie(f): 1:07pm On Dec 31, 2010
Funny enough its the poor Nigerian men who are always on about money and spending,because they are so scared to spend on a girl,and they dread her asking. mtcheww.
Re: Nigerian Guys Are Not Romantic (true/false) by MrsEve2(f): 1:09pm On Dec 31, 2010
It seems like the one who brags about getting free nyansh at a club is the poorest. They justified it by saying I don't pay for nyansh. No, your broke arse can't afford it.

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