So you've successfully got a woman's phone number and a
date with her. But the day before you're supposed to hang out,
she suddenly gives you a call and tells you she can't make it
anymore because of . What can you
do besides slamming the phone down in anger?

Here are a few tips on what to do when a woman
flakes out on you:


1) Understand that she has probably flaked out on you
due to her LOW ATTRACTION LEVEL for you. If a woman likes you
"enough", she will NOT play these flake-out games. And if
she REALLY, REALLY likes you, she'll drop whatever she's
doing to CHASE AFTER you. So the fact that she is flaking out
on you shows that:

a) She doesn't have that much interest in you.

b) She doesn't have a lot of respect for you as a
potential lover.

Solution? Flirt with women plenty and build up the
chemistry BEFORE you ask for their numbers or for dates.


2) If a woman flakes out and gives you a "B.S. excuse",
act like you can SEE THROUGH her B.S. and tell her to just
come out without even blinking your eyes.

Examples:

"Yeah yeah yeah. Coming out will make your headache
better, okay. I'll meet you at 7. Bye."

"Well, cancel it. I'm more fun."

3) If she gives a VALID reason (funeral, etc) then you
can give her another chance, provided that she COUNTER-OFFERS
by setting up another date right away. But if she tells you
that she's "not sure yet" or will have to "get back to you",
you can be certain that she's not very interested in you at all.
In this case, just throw her number away.

4) Even if she has a valid reason, don't be afraid of
sounding just a bit little "dissapointed" in her behaviour.
Don't get angry or raise your voide. Instead, sound "dissapointed"
because she is falling below your expectations. (If you're
too "nice" every time, her respect for you will eventually drop
to zero.)

Don't call a woman until you've read the following
rules:

1) Don't call to Chit-Chat: The longer you talk,
the more likely the conversation will become
boring. Don't risk it. Keep all conversations
short.

2) Call Only To Make A Date: When you call a
woman, you only call to make a date. Wait until the
date for everything else!

3) Talk Slowly: Most guys talk too fast and sound
way too eager. Relax, and talk slowly!

4) Use Your Flirty Voice: Don't sound like a robot
when you're on the phone asking her out. Use your
flirty voice.

5) Sound Cheerful: The energy of your tone is very
important. If you sound cheerful, the woman will
feel more comfortable accepting the date from you.

6) Don't Leave Her Messages: Messages are pretty
useless. A lot of women just screen them and don't
answer them. Or they just "forget" to call back.

7) Don't Call Her Too Often: Don't call her more
than twice a day. If you call her at lunch and she
doesn't pick up, wait 6 hours and call her in
the evening. If you call her in the evening and
she still doesn't pick up, wait 2 days before you
call again!

If a family member answers, then just ask for
her to call your back. Don't leave any messages
about meeting her, etc. You don't want her to be
embarrassed!

9) Hang Up Before She Does: Keep all conversations
short and hang up as soon as you've made the date

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You tried with the realities of things on ground between the sexes, we learn every day.

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Post 2 is more realistic than the first.

Definitely more true to life.

Oga o isnt this supposed to be the other way round?
What females should do when a male flakes on them?

Cause u know that is most likely to happen sha.

adeboo:

Oga o isnt this supposed to be the other way round?
What females should do when a male flakes on them?

Cause u know that is most likely to happen sha.

How many times have you ever ask a man out ?

-------->Poster
Ride on!

If any Girl should try that with me, all i have to do is forget about her instanta. I once met a girl who gave me her number willingly and we agreed to hang out the next day. I called her at the agreed time to know where to meet up and the stupid thing had to give the phone to a guy.

I felt so pissed off and i deleted her number immediately. Some Girls can be really stupid and bush like.