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What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by Steroid101(m): 7:37am On Mar 26, 2008 |
So you've successfully got a woman's phone number and a date with her. But the day before you're supposed to hang out, she suddenly gives you a call and tells you she can't make it anymore because of . What can you do besides slamming the phone down in anger? Here are a few tips on what to do when a woman flakes out on you: 1) Understand that she has probably flaked out on you due to her LOW ATTRACTION LEVEL for you. If a woman likes you "enough", she will NOT play these flake-out games. And if she REALLY, REALLY likes you, she'll drop whatever she's doing to CHASE AFTER you. So the fact that she is flaking out on you shows that: a) She doesn't have that much interest in you. b) She doesn't have a lot of respect for you as a potential lover. Solution? Flirt with women plenty and build up the chemistry BEFORE you ask for their numbers or for dates. 2) If a woman flakes out and gives you a "B.S. excuse", act like you can SEE THROUGH her B.S. and tell her to just come out without even blinking your eyes. Examples: "Yeah yeah yeah. Coming out will make your headache better, okay. I'll meet you at 7. Bye." "Well, cancel it. I'm more fun." 3) If she gives a VALID reason (funeral, etc) then you can give her another chance, provided that she COUNTER-OFFERS by setting up another date right away. But if she tells you that she's "not sure yet" or will have to "get back to you", you can be certain that she's not very interested in you at all. In this case, just throw her number away. 4) Even if she has a valid reason, don't be afraid of sounding just a bit little "dissapointed" in her behaviour. Don't get angry or raise your voide. Instead, sound "dissapointed" because she is falling below your expectations. (If you're too "nice" every time, her respect for you will eventually drop to zero.) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by Steroid101(m): 7:42am On Mar 26, 2008 |
Don't call a woman until you've read the following rules: 1) Don't call to Chit-Chat: The longer you talk, the more likely the conversation will become boring. Don't risk it. Keep all conversations short. 2) Call Only To Make A Date: When you call a woman, you only call to make a date. Wait until the date for everything else! 3) Talk Slowly: Most guys talk too fast and sound way too eager. Relax, and talk slowly! 4) Use Your Flirty Voice: Don't sound like a robot when you're on the phone asking her out. Use your flirty voice. 5) Sound Cheerful: The energy of your tone is very important. If you sound cheerful, the woman will feel more comfortable accepting the date from you. 6) Don't Leave Her Messages: Messages are pretty useless. A lot of women just screen them and don't answer them. Or they just "forget" to call back. 7) Don't Call Her Too Often: Don't call her more than twice a day. If you call her at lunch and she doesn't pick up, wait 6 hours and call her in the evening. If you call her in the evening and she still doesn't pick up, wait 2 days before you call again! If a family member answers, then just ask for her to call your back. Don't leave any messages about meeting her, etc. You don't want her to be embarrassed! 9) Hang Up Before She Does: Keep all conversations short and hang up as soon as you've made the date Amazing newsletters, I did nt do it alone check it out at www.datingkeys..com/ 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by iice(f): 3:30pm On Apr 14, 2008 |
Agree mostly with your second post. |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by Scopium: 6:27pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
[size=13pt]Second post is kool and true[/size] |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by Encomium(m): 6:53pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
You tried with the realities of things on ground between the sexes, we learn every day. |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by NaJaHaJe(f): 6:57pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
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Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by Nobody: 8:18pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Post 2 is more realistic than the first. Definitely more true to life. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by adeboo(f): 8:23pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Oga o isnt this supposed to be the other way round? What females should do when a male flakes on them? Cause u know that is most likely to happen sha. |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by bigfather(m): 8:59pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
adeboo:How many times have you ever ask a man out ? |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by TheSly: 9:06pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
-------->Poster Ride on! |
Re: What To Do When A Woman Flakes Out On You by alextayo(m): 10:21am On Apr 16, 2008 |
If any Girl should try that with me, all i have to do is forget about her instanta. I once met a girl who gave me her number willingly and we agreed to hang out the next day. I called her at the agreed time to know where to meet up and the stupid thing had to give the phone to a guy. I felt so pissed off and i deleted her number immediately. Some Girls can be really stupid and bush like. |
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