[left][/left]Hi N.Landers,I'm new here,but I'd like to seek your opinions.my boyfriend and I are always at loggerheads,most of the time because I have trust issues though he hasn't given me a reason to doubt him.he wants us to have a baby together,reason I don't know.confused,don't know if its an act of love or him just wanting someone to give him a child cos he hasn't said anything about marriage.what do you think?

Please do not play the baby mama game.if he is serious he will get married to you first before thinking about kids.be wise in your decisions

Why would he want you to have his child when there is no talk of a future together? Have you tried asking him that first?

I don't get how you expect us to advice you on your personnal life when you cannot take steps to understand it. You are in a relationship with this guy, try sitting him down and discussing your future together. Ask him if marriage is a likely outcome or he just wants a baby, from there, make a choice.

He gives the excuse that I'm too stubborn,but he really likes me and wants us to have a bond.I know it sounds lame.

Mynd_44: Why would he want you to have his child when there is no talk of a future together? Have you tried asking him that first?

I don't get how you expect us to advice you on your personnal life when you cannot take steps to understand it. You are in a relationship with this guy, try sitting him down and discussing your future together. Ask him if marriage is a likely outcome or he just wants a baby, from there, make a choice.

somerset87: He gives the excuse that I'm too stubborn,but he really likes me and wants us to have a bond.I know it sounds lame.

Very Lame

So if afetr the baby and u re still stubborn he ll kick u out ryt?wisen up and dont let baby mama get into ur head.

somerset87: He gives the excuse that I'm too stubborn,but he really likes me and wants us to have a bond.I know it sounds lame.

Just ask for family introduction first, then u guys can think of advancing, else O-Y-O lo wa!

Exponental: Just ask for family introduction first, then u guys can think of advancing, else O-Y-O lo wa!

She already is in OYO na

Marriage and babies, which one comes first? Your watchword should be first thing first, otherwise i forsee you with a bastard bele. May that never be your portion. This is only if u woudnt mind. Cos i dont wana say something now and my oga @ the top will say a different thing.

Thank you all,really appreciate

ozo-dimgba:
Marriage and babies, which one comes first? Your watchword should be first thing first, otherwise i forsee you with a bastard bele. May that never be your portion. This is only if u woudnt mind. Cos i dont wana say something now and my oga @ the top will say a different thing.

bros no vex abeg, this "my oga at the top" what does it mean? What ish the genesis

Sure. Have his baby then come back here later for more advice. Easy.