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Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Mar 17, 2013
I recently read a book by Dr Gary Chapman, where he listed 5 primary ways we show and receive love. they are

1.WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
This includes compliments, letting your partner know how important they are to you, how you value the things they are doing and have done

2.ACTS OF SERVICE

Helping your partner with house chores or whatever they are engaged in

3.GIFTS

This one is self explanatory, mind you, the type of gift does not count but the gesture is what really counts.

4.QUALITY TIME
Being there physically, giving your partner constant undivided attention

5.PHYSICAL TOUCH

Holding hands, hugging, cuddling, sex etc

we'll show love in the above listed ways, but we are primarily strong in one!!!

Personally mine is words of affirmation, which one is yours? and just incase yours isnt listed, pls do tell us!!!
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by JayTeeA(f): 9:17pm On Mar 17, 2013
All!!.. Mostly 1&4.. Bt mehn all definately speaks 2me..
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Chokolee(m): 10:33pm On Mar 17, 2013
Gbam!! All applies to me;besides, if you do one and lack in one, you are seating on a long thing! Having said tha much, thank God am first to comment on this wonderful thread! Abeg, i see this oga for up ^^sha
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by BB12(f): 11:55pm On Mar 17, 2013
1 and 3 wink
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 12:21am On Mar 18, 2013
Thanks guys, Another fact is, failure to continue speaking love in your partners language will lead to a slow death of the relationship. as the author called it 'an empty emotional tank'

So you hear a guy/girl saying when we just met he/she used to do this or say that, and now that it has all stopped they no longer feel loved!!!

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Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 4:40am On Mar 18, 2013
1 .. but that can change grin
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Yvete(f): 6:15am On Mar 18, 2013
All of the above.
Well, I'd choose words of affirmation as my primary love language. Verbal compliments are powerful communicators of love.
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 6:16am On Mar 18, 2013
[size=13pt]As much as I type novels and synopses on NL, I'm actually quiet and can get tongue-tied, so lastly #1. I'm more of #5. I love holding hands and hugging/cuddling.

What's the name of the book?[/size]
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Mynd44: 6:20am On Mar 18, 2013
Wow....I would sound like a liar but I am into all.

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Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by natkel1: 6:26am On Mar 18, 2013
Hahahaha wow, that's wonderful. That's the same book I'm reading now. That book is awesome! I know my boyfriend's is touch and quality time. I dnt know abt mine
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 8:24am On Mar 18, 2013
ogugua88: [size=13pt]As much as I type novels and synopses on NL, I'm actually quiet and can get tongue-tied, so lastly #1. I'm more of #5. I love holding hands and hugging/cuddling.

What's the name of the book?[/size]

5 love language by gary chapman
there're other variations e.g 5 love languages for men, kids, teenegers just start wit this one

I'll equally recommend
1. Five apology language
(i'll start a thread on this one)
2. Ten things i wish we knew before we got married by same author

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Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 18, 2013
natkel1: Hahahaha wow, that's wonderful. That's the same book I'm reading now. That book is awesome! I know my boyfriend's is touch and quality time. I dnt know abt mine

what are those things he does that makes u feel special? That will give u a clue or what is that thing that u complain about that he isnt doing?
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Mar 18, 2013
2 and 4 does it for me.
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Mar 18, 2013
1, 4
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Sijo01(f): 8:06pm On Mar 18, 2013
All of the above wink

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Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by ichidodo: 8:54pm On Mar 18, 2013
Gift and Huggs.
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Mar 18, 2013
Hmmm... 1.
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by 190theclown: 9:49pm On Mar 18, 2013
Flytefalls: Hmmm... 1.

undecided undecided
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by greedie1(f): 9:55pm On Mar 18, 2013
4 2 5 3 1 In that order..... embarassed
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 18, 2013
190-the-clown:


undecided undecided
angry...
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by 190: 10:46pm On Mar 18, 2013
Flytefalls:
angry...

mscheww undecided
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 18, 2013
190:

mscheww undecided
Love and his language undecided
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by 190: 11:12pm On Mar 18, 2013
Flytefalls:
Love and his language undecided

i love you embarassed
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Mar 18, 2013
190:

i love you embarassed
Answer the OP kiss
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by 190: 11:22pm On Mar 18, 2013
Flytefalls:
Answer the OP kiss

i cant answer cos i dont understand what hes talking about
im saying mine in the simplest of ways which is I LOVE YOU smiley
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Bantino(m): 11:38pm On Mar 18, 2013
1 and 5
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 6:47am On Mar 19, 2013
alexray: 5 love language by gary chapman
there're other variations e.g 5 love languages for men, kids, teenegers just start wit this one

I'll equally recommend
1. Five apology language
(i'll start a thread on this one)
2. Ten things i wish we knew before we got married by same author

[size=13pt]Thank you smiley[/size]
Re: Which Is Your Love Language?? by Nobody: 7:01am On Mar 19, 2013
190:

i cant answer cos i dont understand what hes talking about
im saying mine in the simplest of ways which is I LOVE YOU smiley

LOVE is a verb:an action word...

so how do you prove/show that you love her? It has to be in the 5ways i listed above, at least

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