Ask any woman her ideal kind of man,and her response will almost inevitably include a man who is nice and gentle towards her.Yet you can't help but notice that women are attracted to men who treat them badly.It seems that the more rough you are with women the more your are likely to get laid.If you are nice,you heven't got a chance in hell.
Think of it,when we were babies,we were extremely selfish and treated women anyhow.We pied on them,cried all the time,vomitted on them and yet they responded with affection and allowed us to suck their boobs whenever we wanted.
Now that we are more mature and treat them with respect, what do we get?We have to lie,cheat,cajole and spend money just  to get laid.
If that is not unfair,I wonder what unfair is .Can someone please explain this dilemna.

Note: Some women.

@4Play

, Think of it,when we were babies,we were extremely selfish and treated women anyhow.We pied on them,cried all the time,vomitted on them and yet they responded with affection and allowed us to suck their boobs whenever we wanted.

"we"? how many of you?
hhmmm. Thank you for describing yourself on Nairaland. I know its not easy to come-out with such a confession. May God Have mercy.!!! Now that you've gotten the weight off your chest, I believe you'll be a lil more relieved. hhhmmm

Anyway, kindly expantiate on what happened between the iinterval: after she(your mom) forcefully took her boobs from you and didnt allow you to suck anymore, and now that you've begun to "lie,cheat,cajole and spend money just  to get laid.", i mean, how did you view women between that span of time,

Also on the "bastard" issue? you were not saying you are a , or
Also, are you trying to say all a woman is good for is just boob-sucking and sex?
Theres something "MORE" you're trying to say, so blurt it out.

Its usually said:
Boys who didnt respect their mothers can't find it in themselves to respect their girlfriends/wives, and usually they pass the virus down to their own kids. Its one major problem in todays world, too bad

Why Do Women Love Bastards? : whoever told U that lie

maybe cause they think they can change them, anyways i ve nevr luvd a bastard so i can tell u

@kimba
Dont tchew the guy out, I mighht not agree with his expression but he raised a good point.
Women are always makin a fuss about how they want to be treated right but 70% of the time they stay in abusive and unhealthy relationships for all sorts of reasons
Besides any guy just getting to know a girl will tell u that u should not treat her too nice all the time cos she'l take u for granted. It sounds twisted but it happens

not all woman yo

i don't love bastards oh! in fact, what attracts me to a guy is that he seems to be nice, gentle etc, but more often than not, they were just pretending. If I find out that they really aren't so nice, gentle etc, then it's exit, stage left, sharp sharp.

@girls

Besides any guy just getting to know a girl will tell u that u should not treat her too nice all the time because she'l take u for granted

just wandering, is it true?

Besides any guy just getting to know a girl will tell u that u should not treat her too nice all the time because she'l take u for granted

I dunno about this one oh. I'm an equal opportunist and expect a certain level of 'niceness' and respect, not just from guys., and I like to think that I treat my friends and people in general with the same level of respect and kindness. So like I said, If I think someone is beginning to play games or manipulate my feelings in any way, then it's time to X them off the list

@cocoa

hot-cocoa:

Besides any guy just getting to know a girl will tell u that u should not treat her too nice all the time because she'l take u for granted

I don't know about this one oh. I'm an equal opportunist and expect a certain level of 'niceness' and respect, not just from guys., and I like to think that I treat my friends and people in general with the same level of respect and kindness. So like I said, If I think someone is beginning to play games or manipulate my feelings in any way, then it's time to X them off the list

not all women have enough confidence in self to think like that. most want to be treated nice but when they actually get it they see it as a sign of weakness. Dont ask me why cos i dont know

@xkape
out of curiosity, are you speaking from experience then?

hot-cocoa:

@xkape
out of curiosity, are you speaking from experience then?

Yes

I don't like bastards. I like nice guys. There is nothing like a perfect guy or Mr. 100% nice, but some idiots are non-starters. I have been fortunate enough to not have met any idiots/ assh*les, maybe except one. Soon as I realize that the person is a bastard, I kick him out of my life, real quick. I have them know that they need to take their pettiness, selfishness and immtaturity elsewhere, because it is no good here.

@xcape
lol
maybe u should re-consider the type of women ur hanging out with? I'm just saying!

@cocoa
the right type can be hard to find

@ xcape

ey yah, pele. To be honest, I feel ur pain. there are so many silly boys out there as well. Hang in there!!!

;d

Please dont generalize.

Nairaland women do not constitute a good representation of Nigerian women.

Bwahahahahaha

true to some extent. some ladies actually love the crazy ones. when ure too cold, ure an abomination for some

because they are bastards - ooops!

@ poster what do u understand by bastard.

I get the sentiment of the question. Infact, I am a woman and I've wondered it myself.

Thankfully, my sisters and the close friends I have are not like this. Maybe it's the type of people I have around me or something but most people (both men and women) I know are pretty responsible and level headed. The thing is I get annoyed/fed up easily with certain types of people so probably attract other types of people. We all need to evaluate the type of women/men we attract.

I get the sentiment of the question. Infact, I am a woman and I've wondered it myself.

Thankfully, my sisters and the close friends I have are not like this. Maybe it's the type of people I have around me or something but most people (both men and women) I know are pretty responsible and level headed. The thing is I get annoyed/fed up easily with certain types of people so probably attract other types of people. We all need to evaluate the type of women/men we attract.

@ Poster

You askin why do women love bastards. . . . . . you mean *cheap black bastard*!! Well my brotha, im so glad you asked, you see some women love it when love hurts ( na low self esteem dey worry dem). Try tellin dem o, when love hurts it won't work.

Notice how your entire post is about 'getting laid:", 4Play

shows the kinda women you're looking for.

You're looking for cheap tarts

They're looking for bastards

should be a match made in heaven

@ poster

Word! It is one of the discovery I found out in my own research, women are terrible at making the right choices when it comes to men.
Some women who are sincere even wrote about it that yall ladies like rough guys and hope to change him later in the future.

Result of my research,
One of the major reason is the influence of their friends, most females hardly stand firm on their personal decisions without the contributions of their female gangs.

Taken:

@ poster

Word! It is one of the discovery I found out in my own research, women are terrible at making the right choices when it comes to men. Some women who are sincere even wrote about it that yall ladies like rough guys and hope to change him later in the future.

Result of my research,
One of the major reason is the influence of their friends, most females hardly stand firm on their personal decisions without the contributions of their female gangs.

too much generalization no good oo

This isn't generalization, I think we should all give ourselves opportunities to find out some whys.
Tell me, do yall ladies not often chose a guy based on the influences of ya pack of friends?

Only few females go out of their ways and choose a man without any consultation from their friends. Proof me wrong please!