I recently met this guy that I like and the feeling is quite mutual. But he doesn't say more than one word sentences.
Even his mails are that "long" too. The only thing I know he likes is football which I don't give a damn about. Please guys in the house, how do we ladies get you to open up and communicate? Or is he playing hard to get?

take him to mr biggs or chumchum,
buy him gifts,
buy him recharge cards for his phone

what a man can do, woman can do better!

ok, if i may ask, who make the first move? was it you or him? if you are the one that makes the first move, then you should expect such attittude, cos the guy will not wants to be too forwarded to avoid some kind of things. But, to really have or get what you from him e.g his attention, though, you guys met recent, but, you can seat him down and talk to him, then from the process both of you can discuss on what you like or dislike and other things. He is a guy and his going to give his attention. try this, am sure it works.

@Beebsyn
That's what beats me, he made the first move. He wasn't much of a talker then, and he isn't talking now.

Hey poster. The answer to your question is simple. If you want him to open up, you would have to shut your mouth. There is time for everything and there is time to shut up and not say anything. Positive plus negative equals negative, so as you shut your mouth, he will start bitching before you realize it. Most guys don't like ladies to be bitching about every little thing.

Is simple now, tell him you wish you have a boy friend, He ask why, how tell him nothing, that you feel like, then leave

u could try talking him out of his fears or
try to know what his worries are.
u know men like to be pampered but u have to do it with caution
so he doesn't put up the cry baby act which will bring up unnnecessary sympathy

I think he was recently healed of dumbness . So give him more time to learn how to talk.
Or take him to the pastor that healed him he can put more words in his mouth.

while he was asleep, i tied him down. went to the kitchen for pepper sauce. poured it in his mouth and woke him up. . told him to open up or else i wnt give him water to drink. . .everytime he screams, i poured more pepper sauce. eventually he opened up


do this, and your guy will open up. even though he'll kill you at the end of the day 

morenike09:

while he was asleep, i tied him down. went to the kitchen for pepper sauce. poured it in his mouth and woke him up. . told him to open up or else i wnt give him water to drink. . .everytime he screams, i poured more pepper sauce. eventually he opened up


do this, and your guy will open up. even though he'll kill you at the end of the day

rofl

Have you

Ever heard of temperaments ?

Pragmatic ,melancholy, choleric,and the impossible sanguine

am sure your guy

is a combination of the first two,

learn to be comfortable with his silence and soon enuff you would everything you need to know about him

but if that dont work

try
morenike09 's method

Cook for him a peppered meal of beans,ensure you lock all toilets and bathroom.I am sure he will open up

dont ever try to be forceful on him, o and make him think bout you by keeping 'some' distance

U can't make him talk if he's not the talking type. Thats his nature. Take him as he is or leave him, ;Thats two options so take one.

Well, since the guy made the first move, no big deal. You can ask him the kind of relationship he wants to create, so as to know if it's going to suit you or not and also to make good use of your time instead of loitering around with him. The fact that he is quite doesn't mean he didn't know what is good for him. But, since he approached first, it means you have about 80% chance to change him. You are a lady, and matured and feel the guy is good for you, you should be able to seat him down and convience him about his behaviour, believe me you can change him, despite his quiteness. please try.

@poster

It looks like you just got yourself the "to cherish and to hold" kind!  What a bore.

Well you can't do much with this one. . . since he is in the "slow to warm up" category.  If you no like am like that. . . .just lef am je je.  Otherwise, na wahala you dey fain so. You are in for a cold heart and bed!

Don't try to change people. . . love them for who they are if you can't come to a compromise.  Just waka pass je je.  Find someone who will play "ball" with you!

Tell him and make him realize that you want a open minded relationship. Someone to talk to and share with. How can you learn about him if he keeps dumb mum.

Yeah, u can't change people and if u can't patch with them, go your way and let them be.
U'll be surprised with the result if u can take your time and study people as to why they behave the the way they do ! You'll have a peace of mind and u'll be happier that u try to know them and then, u'll start enjoying everything about them ! But, move on if u don't have the patience to study them !
The last thing u want to do is to try and change people.
Cheers

talk more about common interest,if dat doesnt work my dear, accept him for who he is.

@poster
just try to keep a lilttle safe distance and behave dumb urself,
u can never get him to open up if u're urself open,
however if u're 'quieter' than him, he'll have no choice but to always initiate something to talk about any time u're together.
remember to avoid talking about d football he loves.

Grab him by the nuts and squeeze them little by little.

You better look for a guy who matches your vivacious and talkative self.
Otherwise, this is a sure sign that you two may not be all that compatible despite your liking him.

I think he is a queit person, If you can adjust now is better you packout it Means you are not compatible.

seduce him into sleeping with him and f*** the hell out of his life. He will not only open up he will speak in tongues

frank, that is so funny, that will definitely make him open up

Gve him a di.ck

i think either him or both of you are boring each other just try not to be so boring

@poster, Point a gun at him, he will say more than 500 words per minute,