If you have dated a guy on a regular basis for
several months now and suddenly there are some
negative changes on his behavior and responses to
you. There is a
possibility that the guy is no longer interested on
you. Here are some of the few signs you can check
on your relationship with him:
1. He doesn’t respond on time to your text
messages or just ignore it with no
explanation.

2. He doesn’t answer your call especially during the
day and doesn’t even bother to
return the call. It might be that he is calling
someone else and not you anymore.

3. You are the last of his priority of the day. He
would only respond to your text message or call
you during midnight when
he is about to dose off and you have zero
communication line with him during the
day. He has regarded you as the least important
person in his life now.

4. He has a set of reasons for not being more
involved, like when He forgets the appointment or
date with you. His reasons
leave little room for debate, such as focusing on his
career, hurt by an ex or he
is too busy to give time and energy. If he were
interested, he would find solutions, not excuses.

5. He stops holding your hand in public places and
keeps distant from you during walking.

6. He doesn’t talk much anymore of how his day
went by as he usually does before.

7. He is emotionally unavailable when you needed
him most. He is never concern about your well-
being.

8. He stops asking details about you which means
he is not interested in you or your
life anymore.

9. He is less interested in intimate contact or only
wants to be with you physically when it is last
minute or he has been
drinking. The amount of contact is less frequent or
has stopped.

10. He is not 100% focus on you during your date.
He looks at other women even when you are
around.

11. He does not bring up the future. Even if you
are not planning for a wedding and
children, he will not plan for your next vacation or
long weekend.

12. He is self-involved and absorbed only
with him. He is physically present but you know
that his mind is somewhere else during your date.

13. He stop asking you out and always makes
promises that he will do next time but he never
does them

14. He stops giving you compliments and stop
being nice to you.

15. He is always busy with something else; He will
have time for other things and
never gives you a minute of his day.

16. He does not involve you in his family life or
make an effort to introduce you to family or friends.
He does not invite you to
social functions. He does not make himself available
to meet your friends and family

17. He will spend less and lesser time
communicating with you on a regular basis and
then suddenly stops with no communication at all.

18. He talks about other women and shows an
overt interest. He stays close or initiates contact
with an ex. A man who is
interested in you will be paying attention to you.
If you are seeing some of the signs above, you
better get yourself ready for a possible
break up. But don’t be discouraged and don’t pour
your heart out to this kind of guy who is not worthy
your time and love
anyway. Someone better may come who is willing
to share and enjoy life with you on a
daily basis. Don’t settle for less but settle for the
best in your love relationship. Someone out there is
a perfect match for you…

true.... but why wait dat long? if he displays1 or2 signs, i ll dump him!!!

gree-die:
true.... but why wait dat long? if he displays1 or2 signs, i ll dump him!!!

Not as easy as you think........ Except you never loved him!

Ijele-igbo:


Not as easy as you think........ Except you never loved him!

well, i can learn to unlove.

gree-die:

well, i can learn to unlove.

Have you truly loved a man before?

*noting*

Popowaa: *noting*

You are a good student! Well done!!

Ijele-igbo:


Have you truly loved a man before?

i don't know

gree-die:


i don't know

I can understand your confusion! Most times folks regard lust as love

Ijele-igbo:


I can understand your confusion! Most times folks regard lust as love

i don't lust!!

ok dis is it. to me, love isn't just a hrt affair, the head is actively involved so if he doesn't treat me well and i know its cz d love is no longer der, i ll walk away. i love myself too much to be treated wit anything less dan dignity.

if he doesn't appreciate me, i do and someone ll... i ll wait for dat someone.

gree-die:

i don't lust!!

ok dis is it. to me, love isn't just a hrt affair, the head is actively involved so if he doesn't treat me well and i know its cz d love is no longer der, i ll walk away. i love myself too much to be treated wit anything less dan dignity.

if he doesn't appreciate me, i do and someone ll... i ll wait for dat someone.

"Tell me what kind of man will treat his woman s cruel...Treat her like she ain't nothing when she's worth more than gold"
JOE

LONG TYME

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mtheewww... Bt dis guy na baba 4 NL oooo!!!

Who would get away with all dis ones.

What i dnt understand abt men is if you are no longer interested, why not just tell the gal instead of playing games. Quite frankly wont be able to stand such behaviour from any man

gree-die:
true.... but why wait dat long? if he displays1 or2 signs, i ll dump him!!!

Wisdom

gree-die:

i don't lust!!

ok dis is it. to me, love isn't just a hrt affair, the head is actively involved so if he doesn't treat me well and i know its cz d love is no longer der, i ll walk away. i love myself too much to be treated wit anything less dan dignity.

if he doesn't appreciate me, i do and someone ll... i ll wait for dat someone.

Truth girl. Love is about the brain and the heart

buchito1: mtheewww... Bt dis guy na baba 4 NL oooo!!!

do you need 18 signs to know?
but I'd do some of this stuff even if I like a girl
he may be a quite person or he may be broke for the communication part
and you mean no matter the woman that passes by he should not look this is punishment

Ijeleigbo:

Not as easy as you think........ Except you never loved him!

exactly...nt easy @al,especially wen u r used 2 him...itz rilly a bad experience.I neva tot I wuld go tru diz

Ijeleigbo:

Not as easy as you think........ Except you never loved him!

exactly...nt easy @al,especially wen u r used 2 him...itz rilly a bad experience.I neva tot I wuld go tru diz

I think am a victim, sm1 pls help me....

greedie1:
true.... but why wait dat long? if he displays1 or2 signs, i ll dump him!!!

maybe u never loved him,I will tell u its nt dat easy breaking up with someone u love

I think I'm going through all this sombody please help