vivian chinaza: Hey, ur babe should chill. I have been in that situation over and over again and I'm still in the that situation tho no threats yet. 70% of my lecturers have and are still asking me out. One thing she can't let them see is her fear. She has to be strong and confident and the lecturer should see that. She must take her studies seriously now, gather enough evidence but not to set the guy up, trust me that's not the path she should go down to. So I'd advice her to call the man bluff, concentrate on her studies, if the man fails her, she can apply for a remark of her script and subsequently use the evidences if need be.

Don't get urself involved in this! If her parents are active educationally, she should get them involved. Getting urself involved in this will really make it more messy.

Above all, she should be prayerful.

IYA NGBALI: Abeg make we hear word jo,the thing dey read metre?

kimberluge: What evidence is better dan setting the lecturer up? Did you also know dat remarking scripts can take up to a year which also means "extra year"? Yes,she should pray to God but also make a plan cos heaven help those who help demselves! Peace out!!

vivian chinaza:

Setting a lecturer up? A senior lecturer for that matter? Are u a leaner? Do u think its as easy as they show it on TV? When you are fighting a just course, pls don't get dirty!

Remarking of scripts does not take up to a year my dear, but let's hope it doesn't get to that. All she needs right now is confidence in herself and absolute concentration on her studies. Get her parents involved if possible.

When you are dealing with a senior randy lecturer, don't act scared and don't act too smart cos it will be a lose lose situation. Beat him at his own games, but with your brains.

She can get a valid evidence, but that should be used as the last resort.

vivian chinaza:

Setting a lecturer up? A senior lecturer for that matter? Are u a leaner? Do u think its as easy as they show it on TV? When you are fighting a just course, pls don't get dirty!

Remarking of scripts does not take up to a year my dear, but let's hope it doesn't get to that. All she needs right now is confidence in herself and absolute concentration on her studies. Get her parents involved if possible.

When you are dealing with a senior randy lecturer, don't act scared and don't act too smart cos it will be a lose lose situation. Beat him at his own games, but with your brains.

She can get a valid evidence, but that should be used as the last resort.

maxxx: Pls fellow nairalanders,I need ur sincere advice on how to tackle this issue that just came up.I knw there are smart guys nd ladies here.
I got acall frm my fiancee who is doing her final yr in one of our tertiary inst.she wz weeping profusely nd after calming her down she proceeded to tell me what she is presently going thru.she told me aparticular lecturer inher departmnt hz been making advances at her nd she stonewalled him.Recently d man upped d ante by obtaining her number frm an unknown source nd making d poor girls life unbearable,calling her incessantly,trying to fix appointments with her so they can hangout.when she refused to play ball,d man started issueing threats like her failing her exams and also making sure she doesn't graduate.that's when she decided to tell me.Guys I've never been ina situation like this.I'm caught flat footed.that's why I come to you for piece of brain to deal with d situation.thanx ya all for ur time.