50calibre: Tell the girl in question to keep saving her vagi*na for her imaginary husband, by the time she is 50, she would the one seeking mad men who are brave enough to sleep with her.

And as for the guy, tell him to break up with that deluded girl and look for a proper girlfriend or he can remain with her and save some money for anti-retroviral drugs for when he contacts HIV

habiolah: Ok... I can't remember the last time I posted on Nairaland; been so long: and it's my first post in romance section. The story's a lil long, please bear with me.
There's this lady who is a virgin, she's dating a guy who isn't; and their relationship is about two years old. The relationship is great, they both love eachother deeply. The problem is this...
Because she is a virgin and she wishes to remain so till she is married, the guy never puts pressure on her for intimacy. He rather goes (very few occassions actually) to a lovepeddler when his urge becomes uncontrollable. She got to know recently, and he claims that he had to so as to avoid putting pressure on her for intimacy. He isn't arrogant about it though; he admitted he was wrong and that he would TRY hard to avoid having to do that again since he cannot be intimate with the lady (he was sincere). Now, the lady is having to make a choice: should she break the relationship(remember she loves him madly), or she should continue? If yes, should she just agree to be intimate with him(she believes it's against God's principles)? Or she should allow him to go ahead with the lovepeddler stint when the need arises?
Wise Nairalanders, your mature responses are highly needed.

Chomzy19: y is she deluded? because she wont give it up till marriage; n who is a proper girlfriend? One who sleeps wit d bf. I pity ur sisters and daughters if that is d kind of advice u will give them( forgo ur views on premarital sex and sleep wit ur BF or else u will b single by d tym u re 40) whoever told u sex in a relationship secures mrrg?
PS: virgins are not d ones who fynd it hard to marry, its actually those who sleep around, that go searching in dia 30's

iebanehita:

I am just in the same EXACT situation with the Virgin's boifrnd, bt d DIFFERENCE is that i dn't/have not visit/visited a LovePeddler (stil considering that anyway)...#Myex-grlfrnd has bn wonderfl in ths aspect.

My advice to the lady is that quitting the relationship doesn't solve the problem,,cz thers no assurance that the next boifrnd wld stick 2d 'No Premarital Sex' policy and NOT visit a LovePeddler.
Your frnd,in questn is matured 2hav admitted hs mistake, bt 2me, he aint @fault. Al ds Virgin shld try n understand that it aint easy sef...


My advice is that, since she duzn't want her 'Cherry 2b popped for nw',,wat happened 2 MouthAction??!
She should jt give him a BJ, wit lil pre-intimacy anytym d urge arises,since in the end, it is the same 'hot akamu' that wld b released when u visit a LovePeddler..#dts hw i cure myn anytym my virgin grl visits durin servc yr.

50calibre:

Really? Please give me a good reason why I would want to have a girlfriend I don't have se*x with, why? To what end? What makes her any different from my guy friends? As a matter of fact I'm better off without such a girlfriend because she can't make me happy and she is going to hinder other girls from coming to me.

When I say a proper girlfriend, I mean a girlfriend who can do anything to please her guy, if he wants a bj, she gets down on her knees immediately and get sucking after which she goes on top and rides him well, this is one aspect white girls are very good at. I don't want a crazy a*s chick who is saving her vagi*na like a treasure, I don't have time for that madness.

Se*x helps, it strengthens the bond, in solidifies love and affection for each other, and it ultimately helps in marriage.

If you ain't yet married and you are starving your Bf because of one crazy deluded ideology, I advice you to go to him now, tear off his clothes and let him gain entrance into your vagi*na.

tpacalipse: Look tell him he better deal with his urges or he loses the babe. The babe should continue with her virginity and keep it till marriage.

Chomzy19: A proper girlfriend is one who will go down on her man n give him Bj n afterwards ride him?
Deduction: reduction of your woman to merely a sex object(if dt is wat u truly think)
Sex solidifies reLationship and ultimately helps in marriage? Where? If that was tru millions of broken relationship wldnt b broken, nd guys wld marry dia gf's not begin to 'look for a wife' wen they want to marry.
As for your advice, only immature virgins will actually take it (I just wish u guys wld stop spreadin these fake gospel so that a lot of young minds in this forum will nt be deceived)

50calibre:

Wait so you are trying to say you have a girlfriend who Is saving her vagi*na? Newsflash! Man you are not in a relationship oh! You are in a bromance with a dude. Break it up ASAP and go look for a normal right thinking girlfriend. You are too young to become celibate.

I wonder how you cope with someone you call a girlfriend that would carry an unshagged vagi*na around you but denies you of it.

Charles Shaw: I do not plead for virgin's cause.
I despise virgins.

50calibre:

Really? Please give me a good reason why I would want to have a girlfriend I don't have se*x with, why? To what end? What makes her any different from my guy friends? As a matter of fact I'm better off without such a girlfriend because she can't make me happy and she is going to hinder other girls from coming to me.

When I say a proper girlfriend, I mean a girlfriend who can do anything to please her guy, if he wants a bj, she gets down on her knees immediately and get sucking after which she goes on top and rides him well, this is one aspect white girls are very good at. I don't want a crazy a*s chick who is saving her vagi*na like a treasure, I don't have time for that madness.

Se*x helps, it strengthens the bond, it solidifies love and affection for each other, and it ultimately helps in marriage.

If you ain't yet married and you are starving your Bf because of one crazy deluded ideology, I advice you to go to him now, tear off his clothes and let him gain entrance into your vagi*na.

iebanehita:

I suggest that ds advice of urs wld be helpful to your son/daughter, in d event that you become a father.
Its worth sh.it to me.

Fussbot: u mean sex strengthens d bond and solidifies marriage??den I tink u'l av 2 ask sumbo and pero why 2face still left 4 annie..btw, u sounding lik a pasn dat jst tasted p**ny trying 2 av more

Charles Shaw: I do not plead for virgin's cause.
I despise virgins.

Chomzy19:
PS: virgins are not d ones who fynd it hard to marry, its actually those who sleep around, that go searching in dia 30's

dowjones:

let me educate you ignorant child. Its not the condition of a woman's pvssy that guarantees her early or happy marriage,its her carriage, charisma and wisdom which many women lack!
If you lack these qualities, your husband WILL cheat on you. I hope you're not the type who only has viriginity to offer.

Fuckaniza:
Quinmodah how's yu doing ma? Haven't seen you here in a while, thus decided to give a mention here.. I know it's not possible, but could you drop off your digit for me, let's yarn more.. adios bby gyal.