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Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:40am On Apr 01, 2013
It’s true. Men don’t only want sex in the
relationship.
Most of the women mistakenly believe that, for
making a man happy, they need to provide sex. A
lot of sex. Because, according to them, sex is the
only thing that keeps a man interested in them.
Well, I have a question here for those women. If sex
is the only thing that keeps a man inte......reste d
in a woman then, why there are millions of
breakups every year? Why thousands of books are
published on relationship issues? And, why
marriage counseling has become a rich business?
Surprisingly, there is one interesting statistic which
shows that around 84% of women have sex to
make their man to do more things according to
their wishes. Now, if we look at this statistic from
another perspective, then it clearly shows that sex
isn’t everything. Most of the women are constantly
providing sex to their man, but they are still facing
problems in their relationship. Their man is still
leaving them for another woman, or taking no
interest in the relationship.
In a way, this statistic clearly proves that sex isn’t
everything. And, men don’t only want sex in the
relationship… Sex doesn’t make a man love you,
and It doesn’t connect your man with you on a
deep emotional level.
Sex is not what he wants, it’s what he needs. Most
of the women mistakenly assume that for making a
man fall in love with them, they only need to
provide sex. Those women don’t get that, like food
and sleep, men need sex on a constant basis. Sex
is their need. It’s not what they want. It’s
impossible to ignite the feelings of love in their
hearts through sex.
That’s why, for keeping a man in love, you need to
fulfill his wants. His wants are connected with his
emotional side. Once you fulfill his wants, you
dominate his feelings completely and keep him by
your side forever.
Now, I am not saying that sex has no importance.
Of course, it has immense importance. But, all I am
saying is that you shouldn’t solely focus on the sex
for making your relationship happy. You need to
focus on those areas too that keep the love alive in
the heart of your man and create feelings of
warmth and love in the relationship.
If you are thinking what else men want in a
relationship, and what keeps them in love, then let
me tell you.
It’s your “Rich Mind”.
A man always wants a rich minded woman in his
life. Because, a woman with a rich mind creates an
independent life. She knows that happiness, love,
and romance are independent things. They can be
created anytime and anywhere. And, she doesn’t
need money, or some specific situations, for
bringing these things into her relationship.
Therefore, she gleans the best moments of her life.
She focuses on creating happy patterns in the
relationship. She upgrades her life, and her
relationship, continuously. She finds happiness in
the moments of progress, and doesn’t wait for
some specific time.
According to her, “You get more of what you focus
on.” So, she completely focuses on positivity and
happiness. She values what she already has. And,
as a result, she feels rich from inside. She enjoys
every moment. And, a positive, happy aura always
surrounds her.
And, men feel this!
They are always attracted to this kind of rich
minded woman.
If you notice romantic movies closely, you’ll get
that the heroine always has a rich mind. She’s a
symbol of positivity and happiness. The writers, and
the movie directors, put a magical spark in her
personality by showing her ‘Rich Mind’. And,
consequently, men live for that spark.
When she appears, love touches the skies,
happiness beams brightly, and sex happens with
the highest intensity. And, viewers (men) fall in
love with her totally.
So “Act like how you want to be. Feel like how you
want to feel. Focus on the positive side of your
relationship. Glean the happy moments of your
relationship. Be thankful for everything you already
have. Enjoy the taste of your coffee. Hear the
beautiful chirps of birds. Laugh with open heart on
silly moments. Smile often. And, become a
mellifluous lady.”
Just remember, it all starts in the mind. If your
mind is positive, happy, and grateful, then it means
your mind is rich, and you’ll attract your man
incessantly. He’ll become romantic. He’ll start
respecting you. And, he’ll always make an effort to
make you happy.
The honest emotions of love will emerge. Sex will
become meaningful. And, the spark of the
relationship will never fizzle.

Enjoy ur easter friends

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Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 01, 2013
lol ur funny. Went you the same guy asking abt screwing ur friends ex gf undecided
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Chinwem(f): 3:42pm On Apr 01, 2013
Beautiful!!! Bravo OP

Friendship unites the mind
Marriage unites the body
Marry your best friend
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by dmcdad: 5:54pm On Apr 01, 2013
Chinwem: Beautiful!!! Bravo OP

Friendship unites the mind
Marriage unites the body
Marry your best friend
Seriously
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Nobody: 6:01pm On Apr 01, 2013
Chinwem: Beautiful!!! Bravo OP

Friendship unites the mind
Marriage unites the body
Marry your best friend
I'd love that cheesy
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by luvmijeje(f): 6:04pm On Apr 01, 2013
Subomi-luv:
lol ur funny. Went you the same guy asking abt screwing ur friends ex gf undecided
He is the same person o!
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by MrCork17: 6:08pm On Apr 01, 2013
...OP..you MUSS BE GA,y.....of course I want Punnny and only punnny!! angry
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Cikoloko(m): 6:26pm On Apr 01, 2013
@poster....u try oooo... did u compose dis urself or u copy n paste?
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Kirinwa: 7:18pm On Apr 01, 2013
Although there are some salient points made,yet its not always that the rule applies.Marriage is a different ball game,some people can just get bored seeing,living with the same person for long,money matters can creep in,infidelity etc which can sour the marriage.
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:02pm On Apr 01, 2013
Subomi-luv:
lol ur funny. Went you the same guy asking abt screwing ur friends ex gf undecided

Yeah! I wanted sex from my girl's ex but it's not just only sex a man wants..... You can't win our love with only sex! There's more....
Re: Men Don’t Only Want Sex by Nobody: 11:23pm On Apr 01, 2013
Men only want sex..

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